I dreamt that I kissed this guy that I work with who has a big crush on me, and I felt really guilty but I was scared to tell my bf. Why did I dream this? I love my bf and would never do that! I'm leaving for school soon and wont see him for a while and he's worries I will see someone while I'm gone...why did I dream that now??
2007-08-08 04:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dreams are just your brain's manifestation of working out things you're worried about. Maybe you're afraid that you will meet someone at school and want to cheat on your boyfriend? I'm sure that you won't cheat on him, but the fear of wanting to is obviously somewhere in your thoughts--whether you're conscious of it or not. You probably dreamt about this particular guy because he is someone you see on a regular basis and because you know that he would want to kiss you back if you ever had the desire.
2007-08-08 04:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Diet Peach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the dream just meant that you were having mixed emotions about your boyfriend being worried that he could not trust you leaving and not seeing another guy at your new school. In the dream this guy you work with could have been anyone at your new school that you have not meet and it could have been a way of showing you that you would feel bad if that was to happen while you are away from your boyfriend. I would tell him about the dream and how it made you feel, let him know that it upset you and that you really love him and could never do anything like that and you need him to trust you or else things are going to be hard while your trying to learn new things at school. As far as the guy at work liking you, well tell your boyfriend that you have never done anything with him in the past and you would not start now so this is a way of showing you that I will not do anything to hurt you. Dreams are usually very weird like that but normally you can place them with things that are going on in your real life. Sometime the ppl in the dreams represent something else.
2007-08-08 04:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by peaches_82_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. Its perfectly normal...
i have those dreams all the time. Just because you had the dream does NOT mean that you want to kiss another person. At least yours was only kissing lol alot of people i know dream about having sex with other guys. And if you do tell your boyfriend then he wouldnt have any right to be mad at you. Theres a pretty good chance he has had a dream or two involving another woman. Dont stress yourself out. I promise its nothing to worry about..
2007-08-08 04:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehehehe I think it's just that unconciously you trust him way more deep than anybody and it's ok . Yes there might be the possibility of you both connected on other ways but it doesnt mean you should concentrate alll your life on this issues. Better give all your commitment to the current relationship with your bf . Then even if you get hooked up with the other guy you both know that each has domne your best . No it's not cheating it's called being honest and having the integrity to not use the honesty as an excuse to not give your best to your commitment.
2016-05-17 05:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by francesca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a source of gulity but it is obvious to have some sort of inclination with someone whom u r working and with some one whom u know has a crush on u.
Try to avoid him if u r in a serious relationship. U cannot Travel in 2 boats at 1 time. It is Human to ERR !!!
2007-08-08 04:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dreamt that because you know that's what he's worried about. It played on your mind, so it came up in a dream. It doesn't mean deep down you want it to happen.
2007-08-08 04:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't necessarily implies that you WANT to kiss him. During the night, your mind does relive the events of the day and can turn them quite strange for several reasons. Maybe it is just a situation that makes you awkward or stresses you out?
2007-08-08 04:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by Cécile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the dream books i have read you cheating means that someone is trying to put ideas on your mans head someone is trying to get him to cheat on you and when he is cheating in your dreams it means someone is trying to get with you. Your dreams tell you what you want to know deep down You are scare that when you are gone he will cheat on you and you got your answer in your dreams listen to them analyze them they always have answer that's how i caught my ex.
2007-08-08 04:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by dozy800 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you have any feeling for this guy at work? I think thats where you need to start....maybe subconciously you want to try new things with new people...how long have you been with your bf?
2007-08-08 04:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by DANNY D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mind is trying to tell you, Life is a box of chocolates, try them all!
2007-08-08 04:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋