Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

have you ever felt like nobody care about you,are ignoring you...?

2007-07-17 11:07:26 · 11 answers · asked by Tinker Bell 1 in Family

Yes. I do have a boyfriend. My boyfriend and her friend (whom is married) are best friends. She is a great person and is only attracted to the things that he does for her and he does things for her to keep her on the side - feel me? She does not go for just anything and everything. She feels that the other men she has dated does not compare to what he does and how he makes her feel. I've told her time and time again that she is wrong. I've told her that she is an adulterer, and she was right telling me she was not. But, the factor still remains that she is a sinner. But, she thinks that God will forgive her before he forgives him. Helz, I don't know where she got that from. I trust her totally around anybody I've been with - we have been friends for over 15 years - we don't get down like that. I don't keep company like that. I trust her with my life. This man's wife is a BLACKBELT and will kill her with her hands and feet - feel me? I need her to know that majority rules with me.

2007-07-17 11:05:29 · 1 answers · asked by spreetray 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother and father's families live 14 hours away. I've seen them (at most) once ever 5 years. -- this is maybe 5 times in my life. When I do see these people, they are rude and hateful towards me just b/c our family is the only one that lives so far away!! They don't have 'control' over us like they do the other grandchildren.
Also all of my cousins were raised Catholic. My sister and I were not- we don't believe the same, have the same traditions, god, faith, etc. So a Catholic service will be very uncomfortable for us.
Grandmother may pass in the next few days and I really don't see any need to go to the service.
First off, I can grieve and mourn her loss w/o being there. I have my own faith and traditions and I don't need to be there to do that.
Secondly, I don't want to deal with the 'drama' my relatives will cause. -- which is just 100% garunteed to happen.
Thirdly, My mother and I Do NOT get along.

W/o mentioning religion, what are your thoughts, all things considered?

2007-07-17 11:01:22 · 30 answers · asked by kerrisonr 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can anyone recommend a good sheltered housing scheme in Huddersfield? And what criteria do they use when selecting applicants ? Are ther any to buy in Hudds ? Or if to rent how much do they cost per month?

2007-07-17 11:00:48 · 2 answers · asked by little bird 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just watch any news cast/read any news paper, and there is always (not rarely) news about husbands murdering their wives (pregnant or not), their children and sometimes their extended families. Now the Vitter fiasco "going back for years" accoring to his own wife.

The list of these hanous crimes (of law, the Bible & traditional family values) in these straight marriages seems almost endless.

Now wouldn't it seem appropriate to outlaw such marriages, just to save lives if nothing else?

Do you think we should just let gay coupes marry legally, raise their children, work and pay their taxes, and help to truly preserve the sactidy of marriage in the USof A ?

Vitter truly must give an appology to ALL his constituats; heterosexual AND homosexual and then resign.

What d'yall think?

2007-07-17 10:59:10 · 12 answers · asked by Mezmarelda 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend didn't respect me like I expect her to do, but why she begin saying repeatedly the words, "Oh" "Cool" and stuff like that. I asked her to stop many times, but she refused. What am I supposed to do to win her back without a problem? Do I have to just leave her alone or what?

2007-07-17 10:59:03 · 3 answers · asked by Zero Hunter 2 in Friends

How can I boost my confidence and not worry about what other women my boyfriend may see?
I find that I avoid going to certain places where there may be a lot of people around. I am ruining my own life by living this way, how can I stop worring about these things and just be happy, confident and secure with myself?
Thank you in advance for your help!

2007-07-17 10:57:59 · 35 answers · asked by lookin4hope 2 in Marriage & Divorce

His been offered a better job and he will be traveling for 2 months with a client, and i'm left behind at home but its for the better of us but still im scared of being alone and that when he comes back its not going to be the same. We are used to being together 24/7. give me some advice!!! Thank you

2007-07-17 10:55:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother passed away June 19th 2007. Both my mother and father placed me as their executor in their wills. But I am just now finding out that there is alot more at stake here than what I thought, shouldn't their lawyer have told them what would happen? And why can't my father since he is the surviving spouse take this authority? they lived in Ga. and I live in Fl. Georgia says that there is an oath to take for the executorship, Florida has not got a clue as to what I am talking about. But that is not the main question. My father wants the nursing home that he placed mom in to be held accountable, as do I, BUT I don't know that I can perform these actions, am I a bad daughter for not wanting to pursue it? And what all does the executorship mean? I have very little money am divorced and have custody of my 15 yr old son. I lost my job when mom got ill and still to date have not found suitable employment. How do I go on with my life, when I am devestated. There are more questions than ans

2007-07-17 10:54:31 · 2 answers · asked by C G 1 in Family

This guy and I can't seem to get along for long periods of time but always end up communicating again/trying to getback together.We get into these awful arguements where alot of hateful things are said.Then end up missing one another real badand talking again..and that's way it goes in one big circle.......Why can't we just leave eachother alone?Is it a stubborn obsession or love?

2007-07-17 10:50:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We seperated a couple of months ago and we have a 2yr old son together. We are going to start scheduling visitation days(3x a wk-not ct. ordered). I am used to having him all the time and having my mom take care of him while I am at work. I asked him who was going to babysit him while he was at work on his days w/ our son. He said I don't need to know and he will not ask me where I leave our son on my days off. I am very upset because I feel I should know where my son is at if he is not w/ his father. I know he doesn't have a GF yet and I know his mom/sisters work during business hrs AND he can't afford day care on his own. I told him since he will not tell me, our son stays w/ me and he can visit our son that way or take it through court. Am I acting immature?? I don't want to find out he is leaving him w/ just anyone.

2007-07-17 10:48:33 · 16 answers · asked by ??? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you rather you guy be of the funny type, romantic, or other?

2007-07-17 10:40:06 · 44 answers · asked by Tha Man 5 in Singles & Dating

and why?

2007-07-17 10:37:39 · 31 answers · asked by brennastarr24 2 in Friends

At what point are a couple boyfriend and girlfriend? I'm dating a guy from Brazil and I've already met his mother, but I'm not sure if that is a common thing or if it is really serious? please help!

2007-07-17 10:30:02 · 1 answers · asked by surfchic829 2 in Singles & Dating

what is a gud age to loose ur virginity

2007-07-17 10:21:04 · 13 answers · asked by Daniel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughter is walking me down the isle in our upcoming wedding. I'm trying to find something different to give her as a gift besides the traditional "locket", "jewelry box", or "engraved frames". We want something that will pull in the symbolism of us becoming a family. She'll also be 13 by the wedding, so it can't be anything juvenile like a teddy bear or doll.
We've been shopping for our wedding bands, & are still undecided on a set since we are not really big into jewelry.

BUT, we've seen some really pretty 3-pc sets that we both really liked the bands. However "we" don't need the engagement ring.
FYI-The sets I'm talking about have the REALLY SMALL engagement rings, w/diamond CHIPS set in illusion settings--NOTHING fancy! LOL
IF we were to purchase one of these sets, what do you think about giving her the "engagement" ring as our gift?
We thought w/it matching & actually being PART of OUR set, it would have the symbolism we wanted for her gift.
What do you think?

2007-07-17 10:20:57 · 18 answers · asked by secret_oktober_girl 5 in Weddings

2007-07-17 10:18:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are polyamorous (love each other, live together, but may date/love other people on the side). When we began our relationship two years ago, I thought we saw eye-to-eye on the subject. Now I find my definition is much looser than his- he wants me to introduce any of my potential lovers to him and be platonic friends with them before anything else. This sort of defeats the purpose of attraction. It seems like I'm now monogamous by accident, and it's sort of chafing me. I'm not a good communicator, and I don't know how to tell him that I want to date and have casual sex with other people, but still love him. I hate feeling like being attracted to other people and wanting to date others makes me unfaithful. It's especially hard being bisexual, because I miss dating girls as well as men.

Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can say/do about this? I don't want to break up, but I feel trapped.

2007-07-17 10:16:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Backgound: My fiance was previously married to someone who cheated on her. I have never once given her a reason to doubt me in the 1 year and 4 months we have been together. We even made it through a 9 month period of a long distance relationship!

I told her that I have nothing to hide and that I'm not upset that she looked. Yet she now tells me that she has doesn't want to be the type of person who feels like she has to keep tabs on me. She is now saying that maybe "she's not ready for a relationship." And is thinking about throwing in the towell. We have not had many issues in our relationship but I have known that I am battling an uphill battle from the start.

Please help me get some insight to how she's feeling or what I can do to have her not just give up on our relationship. She feels completely terrible inside and I'm afraid her guilt and innability to see beyond what happened will ruin our relationship.

2007-07-17 10:16:36 · 4 answers · asked by cote' 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-17 10:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by Chito T 2 in Family

I’m 15 years old and I broke up with my boyfriend (who is also 15 years old )because I just didn't want to be an a relationship anymore. so when I told him that he got really mad and came to my house, so I let him in and he refused to leave. I asked him many times to leave but he wouldn’t. then he slapped, punched and threw me across my kitchen and I landed hard on my head. The police was contacted and both families got involved and now I am forbidden to have any contact with him. is it wrong for me to still love him?

2007-07-17 10:12:29 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone could explain it from the bible that would be great.

2007-07-17 10:11:10 · 33 answers · asked by spreetray 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my current bf is scared that he is going to hurt me when we have sex. he is currently seven in a half inches long..and we read somewhere that sometimes if it is too long it might hurt the female. Is this true?

2007-07-17 10:08:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"Play or Be Played: What Every Female Should Know About Men, Dating, and Relationships"

2007-07-17 10:05:43 · 3 answers · asked by Princess_Me 1 in Singles & Dating

We have decided to stay together for the sake of our daughter. She tends to the home life and I go to work and keep myself busy. My wife knows I'm an active person (runner) and she is not. She knows of at least two of my affairs and has resigned herself to the fact that I need companionship that matches my needs better than her. So why then does she get so upset when set time aside to do my own thing?

2007-07-17 10:03:52 · 37 answers · asked by clive_beaumont_1957 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My father is in the middle of an awful divorce that goes to court soon, from what i understand she is entitled to half of the house that my mother & father built just because her and my dad were married. She cheated and got caught also drinks and partys while he stays home and works also sometimes just chose not to come home. How can she possibly be entitles to half? Does any one know of any laws that can stop this. Please advise soon?

2007-07-17 10:02:36 · 15 answers · asked by beccaroo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents divorced at around 6 months. He is supposed to pay child support but barely ever does. So he still owes a lot and Im sure he'll be paying it off until I'm like 30. But how do I get it sent to me instead of my mother? She is using it for other things. I dont live with her anymore because we didnt get along and she would kick me out a lot. Its been really hard and knowing she still gets my money makes it harder. She has a nonprofit job so she doesnt make barely anything sometimes.. and she uses that as an excuse to keep part or all of the money he sends. it doesnt happen often and it isnt that much, so when it does happen I really think I should get all of it. Like if $200 is sent. She'll give me 50 and my (25 year old) brother 50 and keep 100 for herself. I'd understand IF i was living there and benefiting from the money she kept. Like if she used it for groceries.. but she isnt. she keeps getting all this new stuff and saying she's broke.. how can I change this?

thanks

2007-07-17 10:01:05 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It is my job, I mate with all the females including the queen, otherwise there will not be any more workers. What do I do?

2007-07-17 10:00:59 · 8 answers · asked by Josh Fenix 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22, married with a baby and my mom thinks she is in control of my house. She only came to visit but she's here till September. I ask her not to rummage through my things and she does. I ask her not to speak to my husband a certain way and she does. I ask her to relax and stop cleaning and she goes beserk. I know with the cleaning she is trying to help, but antagonizing my husband (although we are currently separated) and I is doing nothing good for me. I try to alk to her but since she is my MOTHER she feels she don't have to listen to anything I say. And It's my house?

2007-07-17 09:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What should i do about that?

2007-07-17 09:59:22 · 50 answers · asked by ambersmomma07 1 in Marriage & Divorce