my current bf is scared that he is going to hurt me when we have sex. he is currently seven in a half inches long..and we read somewhere that sometimes if it is too long it might hurt the female. Is this true?
2007-07-17 10:08:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get real!
If you can stretch wide enough to give BIRTH, then there's no guy on the planet who would be "too big"!!
2007-07-17 10:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, yes, it's true... but not at seven and a half inches. Tell him that's a perfectly safe length, even if you have a small frame. Remember that the average length used to be only six inches (now it's only five, what with the influx of Asian immigrants in recent decades), so what's another inch and a half?
Ten, eleven, and particularly twelve inches and more can be dangerous, and that's only because something that long and hard can hit the cervix repeatedly and cause a lot of pain.
So tell him that he needs to let go of his ego. Seven and a half is a nice size, but by NO means huge.
2007-07-17 10:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Riven Liether 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-20 17:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by masako 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might hurt the first time; your body has to get used to it. It also depends on how big YOU are. But 7 1/2 inches is average so you shouldn't have a problem after the first few times.
2007-07-17 10:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by NYCLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how tall you are. If you're like 5'8" and he's like 6'0", it wouldn't hurt you as much if you were, oh, say 5'0" and he's 6'0".
It also depends on how relaxed you are during intercourse. If your body it tense, it's going to hurt like hell.
But yes, if the man's penis is too long for the woman, then yes, some serious damage could be done...but something tells me you don't have to worry about that.
2007-07-17 10:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the size of the girl. If your small, height wise, then perhaps.
Although chances are not, after the first couple of times you have sex if he can go all the way in without it hurting you then your set.
2007-07-17 10:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its 9.5 inches till it starts to feel uncomfortable so tearring start a little after that. if you sit on him you will really feel it deep. so he could try something else other than from behind. if you are really short there might be chance he could be too big but under 8 is no biggie :)
2007-07-17 20:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by l33nix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might hurt the first time you will have to go slow
women are meant to stretch i mean think of how big a baby is just take it slow and don't try it all at once
2007-07-17 10:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It CAN be true...but that particular length is average for a guy.
The HURTFUL sizes are more like 12 inches & up.
2007-07-17 10:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it is true. it can like rip or hurt the lining of something in there. so tell him to try not to go in too deep, and u should b fine. and also if it starts to hurt u should try and tell him to slow down.
2007-07-17 10:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where did he ever get the idea that that was out of the ordinary; in point of fact it is sort of small and he should seek medical help with it.
2007-07-17 10:12:23 · answer #11 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋