Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

My dad, i cannot not even talk to and will never bond with again, ever. My mom, whenever i try to talk to her about how i feel, and she hears something she doesnt like, she starts yelling at me, and then i say why dont you listen to me (in a low tone) and she says "that's right i don't" (screams if it if i dont stop bugging her bout my prob within a minute). There is always yelling at my house between my mom/dad and now i am soo depressed because i know i do not look attractive and my praents fighting makes it worse. It went away because i thought i would get better, but then everything turns back to norm and my parents fight again, and mom doesnt listen to me. I even resorted to alcohol once (never got drunk thought only because none of the alcohol tasted good). They think its just a "phase" i am going through and i will "snap outta it" and it bugs me when they say it b/c i dont kno how much more i can take. Now i have basically no friends. i am 15. I dont want to see a psychologist

2007-07-17 09:23:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok.. i am going into 11th grade, about to turn 16 in two weeks, and my parents are so unreasonable with giving me freedom to hang out with friends or go out. and no, i'm not asking them to go to parties or anything.. i dont even drink. they always make me depressed and i think its sad how freshman girls who dont care for school can go out every night. school is my number one priority, i'm in two AP classes: english bio, and i'm in honors precalc and social studies. i work hard for my grades and last quarter i got a 99.87 average! they think i'm not responsible either, just because i have a loud outgoing personality, and my older brother- who is 21- has all the freedom in the world. just the other day i asked to go to applebees with my friends at 10 pm, and they made me cry to sleep, yelling and screaming at me saying i'm irresponsible and a bad person ! i know this is long, but please help!

2007-07-17 09:22:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

it has completely taken away your self esteem and self worth..you know for a fact that you are not the problem but you stick around HOPING and having FAITH that the person will change

2007-07-17 09:22:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was leaving work today and this guy kevin that i was sleeping with . but i told him a long time ago that i couldent see him anymore or do anything else because i have a b/f and he is living with me and i love him. and today he just stared at me when he walked past me.

2007-07-17 09:20:50 · 4 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 09:20:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going camping w/ my boyfriend this weekend and I should be on the last day of my period (in which I tend to go hours without bleeding) He's been planning this romantic trip for weeks now because he knows how much I love the outdoors and we were both looking forward to sex (me more so) but he was perfectly fine with not doing anything when I told him I was on my period. I would really like to still have sex, any advice?

2007-07-17 09:20:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a young male freind I knew him for about four years now and it seem's like we always running into each other he like me and all but i think that he is too young for me I like them older not younger he is twnety-four and I am twenty seven a big age different what do you think?

2007-07-17 09:19:05 · 11 answers · asked by bunny 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes, get ready to cast your stones! This last weekend I met someone I had corresponded with here for over two months. It was always just friendly, with a few sexual overtones, but for the most part just fun. She was doing business in my area and asked to meet me, and I never really thought about meeting anyone from here. So for grins I met up with her at a great place in downtown. Needless to say we spent the weekend together and had a blast, she has been married for eight years, and has sex with her husband about once a month. It was passionate and very intense, and she held "nothing" back.She lives over 800 miles away and when she left, I even hated to see her go. Look, this is life, right or wrong it was beautiful. So, am I now a horrible person with no morals, and to tell the truth, yes, I would do it again as long as no one gets hurt. Fire away!! I can't wait to hear the reaction. I have found that married women are very passionate and they leave their inhibitions at the door.

2007-07-17 09:18:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 09:17:50 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We both work full time and he works pm's and I work days. I don't ask him to do much, just to try to do an hours worth of work around the house before he goes to work. Every night, I clean the whole kitchen, sweep the floors, water the plants ect. I just don't want to be the only one who does something around the house, cause it always seems like there is so much to do! I don't want to be that kind of wife that makes lists and asks him to do something all the time. I just want him to figure it out on his own. I'm already feeling like I'm becoming one of those wives. Any suggestions on settle but effective ways to get your spouses to be active when your not around? We already tried a chore list for the both of us, and he went by it for maybe 2 day, then just stopped. He's not lazy, but really likes to do whatever he wants without me telling him what to do and thats relaxing on days that he has to work, which I do to, but can't

2007-07-17 09:16:19 · 13 answers · asked by sun day 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21 and have dated young girls but I wanted to try dating a women around 30-40.

Any advice on how to go about finding one and talking to them?

2007-07-17 09:15:19 · 1 answers · asked by Russell C 2 in Singles & Dating

and when he has to take all this crap to get himself up?? LOL I want to know the same question. why??

2007-07-17 09:12:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just want to know if you like PDA if so how far can you go or would you like it to go...Whats to much...whats no enough?

2007-07-17 09:10:10 · 9 answers · asked by PoshBCD 2 in Singles & Dating

ok simple question my ex dumped me because she said it seemed like we were best friends not bf/gf and she started dating someone 2 weeks later- we dated for 4 years ( and do u think her ne bf is a rebound or not)i think mayb she just wants to get out there a lil bit do u think i could win her back? (not saying i want her back but do u think she''ll be back)what do u suggest? and she's really upset cuz i wont talk to her ( for now so i can get over it) like she texted me at 3 am one night asking if we could start talkin again and a couple more messages saying she missis me. and she cried when i told her i didnt want to communicate for a while and we could when and if i was ready
THANKS

2007-07-17 09:09:58 · 15 answers · asked by Nanonan m 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 12 year old going into the 7th grade and I feel like such a dork! I feel like I'm gonna be such a loser when I get back to school and everyones gonna hate me just like they did to one of my friends. Everyday I feel less confident and fun, I think I'm going to be a nervous weird nerd like I was in the 4th grade. What should I do? What CAN I do? Please help

Yours Truly
Rae Rae

2007-07-17 09:09:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am very good looking and my bf is not so . But i love his company and enjoy with him a lot.

I am confused and scared as how i would introduce him to my family.

Prob its just my mind but i need some sound advice

2007-07-17 09:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by Prajakta 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have to get this out there. I'm going to drive myself crazy if I don't tell you. This is so hard for me to say, because usually I'm like a complete chicken and am really shy, but I have feelings for you. I know this may be a stupid move on my part telling to you this, because I value our friendship above all else, but I just couldn't hold it in any longer. I think you're a great guy and I love talking to you and look forward to writing to you every time you're on. And when we get the chance to hang out, I have a really great time with you. I know the distance seems like it would be a challenge right now, but if you ever do feel the same way, I would definitely do everything to make sure it worked out. I don't need a lot of attention and I'll be as busy as you are during the semester. If you don't feel the same way, I totally understand and I hope that it doesn't affect our friendship in any way. I just think you're such an amazing person and needed to let you know.
I went to highschool with that I recently reconnected with via the internet...? DETAILS: We've been talking for about 3 months now and I've hung out with him three times because he lives two hours away from me. The thing is, I have feelings for him, should I tell him through the internet or wait until I see him again?

2007-07-17 09:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by SHOOT 2 in Friends

What was the reason and How did it go down?

2007-07-17 08:59:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I fell for a narcissistic man during a 8 month seperation from my husband. He would never express his feelings for me, but when I decided to go back to my husband he began to tell me that my husband was no good for me and was a liar and that I will have to fake my way through my marriage. Do narcissistic persons express emotions toward others; or are their feelings just a fake?

2007-07-17 08:59:18 · 10 answers · asked by willow 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not married but my best friends husband said all men need/want sex everyday and if a guy doesnt then there is something seriously wrong with him and needs help and he also said that most if not all men get tired of the same woman after so many yrs...Is any of this true.

2007-07-17 08:58:59 · 18 answers · asked by candy f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 08:54:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are getting married in December and we need some ideas. We don't want to go on a cruise and we don't really want to travel very far because we are scared of bad weather since it will be winter time. We are in the Murfreesboro, TN area so hit me up with your suggestions!!!! Thanks!

2007-07-17 08:53:25 · 16 answers · asked by jakes1129 1 in Weddings

...in bed...a tiger or a lamb?

2007-07-17 08:52:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

baptsim and there beautiful favors but my sister inlaw wants to take control of it or try to i made a list and whos getting them 1 per family and she says should your cousin and his girlfriend get one and then she wants to only give them to whoever gives gifts its my control she just wants her side to get them first incase not enough but hey how about my family whos helped more then she says if her friend sends a gift but not show up she wants her to get one hey dont people get favors to rember that day the party and if her friend doesnt go why should she get one if she doesnt rember that day its soviners/ favors its expensive favors its limited on people who go etc not once who dont also how do i tell her nicely or handle it calmly so she doesnt make me crazy

2007-07-17 08:51:25 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

We're getting married in the church. He's not catholic. Can't you you just not serve communion instead of taking the pre cana classes?

2007-07-17 08:50:52 · 13 answers · asked by Ryansfiance!<3 1 in Weddings

he spends most of his time with these friends they call him at any hours of the day and he answers their call when she speaks to him about it he says they are not interested in him that they are just friends

2007-07-17 08:49:28 · 20 answers · asked by carolene r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What if you were dating a guy and then suddenly found out they weren't circumcised in the middle of having sex, would you run or have sex with him?

2007-07-17 08:40:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom still insists that our invitations be worded "jane & john smith along with jane & john brown request your presence at the marriage of their children...". instead, my fiance and i decided on "together with their families, julie smith & tom brown request the honor of your presence at their wedding...". my mom feels that this means she's not going to be acknowledged at our wedding, which isn't true, but we want our invites to reflect the fact that WE are paying for our wedding, not the bride or grooms families. any ideas on how to word the invites? am i wrong in wording them this way?

2007-07-17 08:39:42 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-17 08:37:50 · 9 answers · asked by babynessa03 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont understand it at all lol. ok so when you get engaged does that ring come seperate? because when i see people get married the girls have two rings on thier finger...i was wondering if you get both of those rings on the wedding day or do you get the not so big diamondy one for the engagment ring and for the wedding you find anotehr ring that will match the engagment ring?

hmm sorry if that sounds confusing

2007-07-17 08:34:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings