Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

Tell me do you think it is wrong to sleep next to someone everynight, but be thinking about someone else? me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. i love him but i am only 20 and i feel like he is holding me back sometimes. most of the time i cant do all the things i want because i am afraid he will get mad. I havent cheated on him but i do have someone that i might be interested in but i would never cheat. sometimes i just want to end it with him but i dont want to leave him. i dont know i am torn. what do you think?

2007-07-17 07:45:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Size and cost is obvious. What side of town it's on is obvious, but what do people forget to look into when they buy a house? I don't want to get a house and then get mad because I should have analyzed something first.

2007-07-17 07:44:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-17 07:42:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When I'm at college I don't party. I don't have a driver's liscence. I've never had sex. Sometimes I wonder if it's something wrong with me.

2007-07-17 07:39:51 · 25 answers · asked by cRazY8s 2 in Singles & Dating

ladies how would you feel if a random guy grabbed you? would you like it? what would it mean to you?

2007-07-17 07:36:15 · 18 answers · asked by swrdsparrer 1 in Singles & Dating

What mean by this is that i have a friend that is looking for the one....But she does not see him because he is to much of a friend to think of him as the one & i have tried to help them but i have ran out of ideals....So if you have some let me hear them lol..

2007-07-17 07:33:30 · 4 answers · asked by ~One~Of~A~Kind~ 2 in Friends

i dont really know this guy but i have seen him out and about the past couple years and I never gave him the time of day because i was still hooked on my ex and for some reason i just was never into him,well i saw him again a couple weeks ago and he looked adorable and i cant stop thinking about him.The next day i found him on myspace and sent him a message apologizing for getting a little too tipsy,he did not respond,so the next day i sent him another message saying'youare suppose to accept my apology'he replied with'im pacing myself'and a smily face.a few days went by and i sent him another message asking him to send me a friends request because i was not sure how to,and he did.it has been a week since and i want to send him another message about us getting together,but would that be too much?should i wait in hopes in makes a move?is he not even interested?

2007-07-17 07:32:51 · 18 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

hey normally it's said that girls should have some kind of "arrogant" with her.. when it comes to affairs with men..and it's said that such a kind of a thing is a jewel to her.

how do you justify this..specially guys how do you think of it?
any personal experiences???

2007-07-17 07:32:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my ex has told me that he's in love with me and that no matter who he dates, he always wishes he was with me. It has gone on throughout my entire relationship with my bf now. We've broken up twice due to what my ex has said. But then i often get confused. When we hang out or talk, he almost always says, i think you should come over so we can f***. Im not sure if its just him being flirty or if thats all he wants. He's hurt me in the past. I dont know if i should stay with the one im confortable with, or try things again with my ex.

2007-07-17 07:29:25 · 15 answers · asked by x0blonde0x 2 in Singles & Dating

what should somebody do if they are very jealous of someone and its starting to break them down for example: you like this person but the person thinks your ugly and likes somebody else that dont likethem and goes out with somebody.... and u are trying to get over them but u cant

2007-07-17 07:27:27 · 1 answers · asked by lala w 1 in Friends

please read.

so there are these 2 hot brothers that i 'know'.
lucky me, BOTH of them have shown some kind of what alot of people would call signs of attraction. we'll call them guy1 and guy2.

so lets say that guy1 is the older one. i noticed he was giving me some 'attention' first, as he's been staring/glancing for quite a while now, and he always seems happy when i am around. but guy1 is going to college in the fall.

then, there's the younger of the 2, guy2, and recently ive noticed he's staring/glancing alot more than he did before. he even manages to 'casually' be somewhere nearby if we are in the same place, room, etc. if he does something funny, i'll laugh or smile or something, and he'll grin back.

so, i actually have a few questions... do you think there is a little brotherly competition going on here, or is it one or the other, or just neither? if it is one, do you think that one is using the other to 'spy' (if you would call it that)?

2007-07-17 07:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-17 07:25:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

than men, and then that's when they (women) are considered as the primary bread winner?

2007-07-17 07:24:11 · 9 answers · asked by ShullyR 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend usually tells me he loves me very often but somehow it never sounds right still i get these feelings that feels like love but i'm not sure if it is that he's in love.

2007-07-17 07:23:29 · 5 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Singles & Dating

There are no right or wrong answers here, I would just like to hear what other people have to say. . .

I've been dating a guy for about a year now. I love him to death but he is two years younger (he is 18 years old) than me and comes from a pretty wealthy family. So, if you can imagine, he is pretty spoiled and immature and has quite a bit of growing up to do. The way he is now, I definitely do not see a future with him. Also, he lives two and a half hours away and during the summer we spend Friday-Monday together but he is in a profession that requires him to live at least 13 hours a way the rest of the year and we see each other just a few days out of each month.

I really care about him, but am I making the right decision by staying with him? I'm only twenty and not looking to get married or anything, but it almost seems like a waste of time.

2007-07-17 07:22:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes he just wants a quick blow like during the football, but when it comes to like saturday nights he just wants me to ride him... he lies there and just wants me to get on, we've probably done it about 100 times in the past month and not once have i won, Lazy!!! What should i do?

2007-07-17 07:20:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 07:19:52 · 9 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i convince someone that i love them and want to be with them long term without going overboard??

2007-07-17 07:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by Maximilliano 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister and her husband have been married for over a year now. My parents cannot stand him. They have hated him from the very beginning and warned her against marrying him. Several people have told my parents that he cheats on her with many different men and women in our town. My parents are fed up with her marriage and want it to end quickly.
Yesterday when I got home from work, my parents and my husband were all having a family meeting on how to get rid of him. They all feel that I should sleep with her husband to show her that he is no good. They want me to sleep with him while my parents stand in the closet videotaping the entire affair so that they can show her what a dog he is. My husband even agreed with this. He says that I should be willing to do whatever it takes to show my sister what a dog she is married to. Is this right? Should I really have to sleep with my sister's husband to proove that he is no good?

2007-07-17 07:16:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are recently engaged and I have begun the initial stages of wedding planning. I've been looking at churches and flower arrangements, picked a dress and bridesmaid dresses, and started outlining a budget. He's done nothing but promise he'll help. Because of his family, we have to have a huge wedding(400-500ppl) which means there is a limited amount of cites we can use with our budget. I've been asking him to help but he's more concerned w/ work projects right now. We're getting married next spring and one reception hall we liked is already all booked up so time is running out to make this work. His mom doesn't want us to book a hall until she has a rough guest count, which is fine with me because she didn't know we were booking stuff already because he didn't tell her (like I asked him to).
So I'm asking, how do I get him to put this as a bigger priority than work for a couple of weeks and understand we have to do this stuff now?! Help!!

2007-07-17 07:13:53 · 14 answers · asked by iheartbayley 3 in Weddings

wat traits r sexy n wat traits makes u get tired easily????? for example: clingy, whinny, needy, boring OR independant, funny, cute etc. basically, wat makes u want them MORE???? the ones that are jealous or the ones that dont show jealousy??? i don kno, mix n match wat u like.

2007-07-17 07:12:34 · 6 answers · asked by H0tt_P!nk 2 in Singles & Dating

I really want to date this school year. Now, I guess I am pretty alright but I think I need a lot of help with guys! Now, guys and people always say "BE YOURSELF", well, I know that so can ya tell me what they like.....for example, do boys like it if you ignore them or not ignore them? I don't know. I will appreciate it if you just even tell me one answer.
XOXO
P.S. I am 15 years old, so I am not like 21.

2007-07-17 07:10:16 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 years old, and I work with a guy who is 30 years old, we arent really dating, its more just hang out, watch the baseball game, and drink. We have worked with each other for awhile now, in fact I am his "teachers aide". We also act like more than just friends, so I am a little confused, I need some different views on what you think about this whole situation, and what can come of this?

Thank you!

2007-07-17 07:08:58 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

deeply and madly in love with someone?
i am at the minute but i dont know how to tell him but i know that il work it out on my own soon....
i just wanted to know if anyone felt the same as me?
awwww i couldnt get to sleep for ages last night coz i woz thinkin about him....:-)
i love this feeling i just want to know that he feels the same way about me...:-)

2007-07-17 07:08:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am finally secure in who I am. Guys always look at me in public but never approach. A friend of mine told me before he got to know me he found me intimidating but never said why. I am friendly to anybody that approaches even if I really don't want to talk to them. I really don't understand why anyone would find me intimidating other than the fact that I when I don't know people I am kind of shy at first. What could make a girl intimidating?

2007-07-17 07:05:17 · 7 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

i think this guy found out i was turning 17 on that day. he's a part of my church youth group and we were out of town at the time. at 1 am, at a restaurant he told me to close my eyes and after i opened them i see his school picture in front of my face and 2 minutes later he gave me my brother's business card.

so the thing i'm asking is that would you give a girl (Thats just a friend) your school picture?
or would you give a girl that you were interested in your school pictre?
i don't really get why he did that because his family gave me a bday present later on that day. and i've known him for 3 years and all that time, he's never given me anything.

it's kinda weird lolol

2007-07-17 07:05:17 · 5 answers · asked by simplistic complexity 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not having a bridal party.

2007-07-17 07:03:23 · 30 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

We have been together 2 years, we have a 8 month old son together. We love each other very much. He said he wants to go in steps, which I guess means, live together, than get engaged, then get married. Can any men offer any reasons as to why he would propose and give me a beautiful ring, but then not want to set a date, or not even talk about a wedding. I told him I am not in a rush and do not want anything big and fancy-I'd really like to elope, but that wont happen, because he wants his family there. I just want to have the same last name as the man I love and my son. Men? Any answers?

2007-07-17 07:03:19 · 23 answers · asked by newport3158 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he went out with friends while we were on our 9 month hiatus.....he got very drunk at a club and there were transexual strippers there....hedecided to be cute and take a dollar bill up to hi/her....he says thier lips barely touched and he was mad....i cannot see him doing this if he didnt really want to...he is blaming it on the liquor.....once he told me i could put eyeliner on him wheni was just joking. whats up is he becoming gay on me....he nevertold me a bout the transvestite thing for 4 yrs....insights anyone.??...why is this bothering me. He has a friend name dale that i used to tease that they were lovers and hed just pretty much ignore me when i said that.....im getting kinda grossed out.

2007-07-17 07:00:18 · 19 answers · asked by mercedesofladies36 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 06:58:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends