I really want to date this school year. Now, I guess I am pretty alright but I think I need a lot of help with guys! Now, guys and people always say "BE YOURSELF", well, I know that so can ya tell me what they like.....for example, do boys like it if you ignore them or not ignore them? I don't know. I will appreciate it if you just even tell me one answer.
XOXO
P.S. I am 15 years old, so I am not like 21.
2007-07-17 07:10:16 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hahahaha....you made me laugh with the "intestines and 'i like you' " stuff!
2007-07-17 07:14:04 · update #1
Guys like girls who like what they like or are interested in at least learning about what they like. For example- you don't like sports, but the guy you like reeeeaaally likes football. Doesn't mean you have to go out and buy a football jersey and watch football on Sundays, but if you seem interested in what he has to say and ask questions rather than just nod your head then I don't think you'll have any problem (It doesn't have to be football). It's easier if you have something in common already- (I'm a huge video game junkie) but not required.
Also, definitely don't completely ignore them. A boy will not know if you like him if you act like he doesn't exist. Some guys like girls who play hard-to-get, but there's got to be a happy balance in there.
Try making friends with some guys- a friend's boyfriend, some guy you sit next to in class, etc.- just to be friends. More than likely they will have other friends who are guys who are single who you might have not known otherwise.
Also, try doing something in a big group (guys and girls). Going to a movie or bowling or out to eat at a pizza place or some kind of event. That way even if you don't end up finding a guy you like then you'll still have fun.
2007-07-17 07:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by moonwizard4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:
1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)
Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).
Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth
2007-07-17 07:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should ignore them. get a guys attention show him your personality, let him get to know you, stand out from other girls but not in a loud annoying way. just dont be clingy i think that's the main thing that throws guys off, and dont flirt with there friends. Good luck.
2007-07-17 07:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality! if they like who you are, you guys will get along and last forever. he wont care if u r not beautiful, or anything, becuase he will see the better and beautiful you inside. Some guys like the pretty ones cuz they dont know much and are pervs. so yeah be YOU! not only that but dont ignore them or like annoy them. you need to be friends first to fall in love
2007-07-17 07:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the first obvious answer would be looks. but after you get to know a person, for me anyway, looks are a small part of it. obviously a guy doesn't want a booger wolf, but for most guys, someone who is intelligent and who is faithful. of course, these qualities don't attract kids your age. at your age, it has to do with looks and social status.
2007-07-17 07:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by BIG DADDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when girls ingore me. For me. If you ingore me, you agravate me you are on my bad side. I don't really like when a girl trys to change for me. I don't like a girl too clingy or like "I love you all the time for like ever!" Or some sassy drama queen. Now, suriously. The only best advice is be yourself, and I know that it might sound like "yah duh i hard that like 100 times" but if I guy doesn't really like you for yourself, then whats the point in that?
2007-07-17 07:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend is 15, and when she liked me she didnt say much or she didnt really flirt with me and so i didnt think she liked me. Definately flirt and dont be a ho, just be cool. And dtalk to the guys you like
2007-07-17 07:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are some dirty *** whores with aids in there ears cause they fucked dears some how dont ask how ik though those are The ones that are not a go to
2016-03-15 19:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by omero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys like any girl that have long hair and a nice body. Oh and with the attitude to match.
2007-07-17 07:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by goodies100 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sensae of humor, good bodily health, brushed teeth, combed hair attrictive outfit according to what you are doing or place you are going to,
intellect (school knowledge and a good conversation)
2007-07-17 07:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by java 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋