Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

Today i was talking to my girlfriend about how i am going to go to Italy for a holiday in August and she said she will miss me etc...
But then she said that she had a dream that when i came back from Italy, i changed and became a bad person who didnt care about her. We have known each other for about 6 months but have been going out for just over a month now.
When she told me about her dream she told me she thinks that its going to be true that i wouldnt like her anymore and not care about her. This annoyed me but i hid my emotions but i told her that you dont know me for a long time like 6 - 7 years so you cant say that. She got upset because of that and just walked away from me. I followed her and told her that she has misunderstood but she was said to me yh watever.
For the next hour we were sittin next to friends and she wouldnt talk to me until i said bye you lot im going home. 2 mins later she txt me and told me to com back but i didnt.
Wat shall i do now? And wat did i do wrong?

2007-07-17 05:25:52 · 4 answers · asked by hyperizzzed_maniac 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is getting married in a little over a month and I was originally planning on bringing my boyfriend.... but then we broke up.... it was a bad break up.....

But THEN we reconciled and we're cool now (not back together, but cool)....

my best friend has always had a problem with ALL the guys I date... and she knows about the break up, she knows I was upset, but she doesn't know the whole situation....

When I told her that we were talking again and that he was going to take me to her wedding again she flat out told me that he wasn't allowed at her wedding.....

She BASICALLY told me to chose between her and him.

Me and him have realized how immature we acted during the break up and have come to the conclusion that we are going to work hard at fixing what we screwed up. We're being mature about it, and for her to do that is throwing a bolt into some smooth working gears.....

What should I do about her telling me he can't come.... then I have NO one to come....

2007-07-17 05:25:12 · 17 answers · asked by Katia 3 in Weddings

2007-07-17 05:24:54 · 26 answers · asked by kite_5 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 12 years and have three preschool age children. THE problem.... while cleaning out our basement storage room I found two very graphic love letters from a so called FRIEND. Wish I had not read them, but I did. The letters were dated before we were married, but not much before....like a month (We won a radio contest and were married quickly after dating eleven months) One letter described how the other women didn't want to come between us but... blah blah blah...the second letter described how she wasn't sorry that last night happened and HOW it happend ( It pleased me seeing you gratified as you f***** my mouth). To date I have confronted HER by phone AND mailed the letters to her (she says she didn't remember what she wrote so I wanted us to be on the same page). I also confonted my husband and he just wanted to know why I went through his stuff. TRUE! My question is why did he keep the letters? Can I trust him? Should I trust my gut? Help!

2007-07-17 05:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by luvmy2twinkies*1cupcake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy at school that I have a major crush on but I don't know if he has feelings for me. He's always flirting with me and being polite. The only thing that's confusing is that he flirts with almost everyone. I've talked to him a couple of times. He even knows that I like him. He told me what he wanted his future to be like and what he wanted to do with his life. One day I decide to move things along by having a friend give him my phone number. She said he wouldn't except it and that he didn't like me like that. He still flirts with me though. I've even caught him staring at me. Does he like me or not?! If not, I want to move on.

2007-07-17 05:23:25 · 23 answers · asked by Tashi 2 in Singles & Dating

We British are extremely gratefully and thankyou for taking Posh Spice away from our shore. I, and many others am sick and tired of her skinny, pouting and irritating media hype.
A word of warning though, we don't want her back now. She will have to stay there forever. A quick question though. Are you sick of her already, if not I bet it doesn't take long.

2007-07-17 05:10:47 · 14 answers · asked by Nelson 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 05:08:05 · 28 answers · asked by Eyekandi 1 in Singles & Dating

he has been violent 2 times before when he drinks. i told him he needs to choose his family or his partying with his friends

2007-07-17 05:05:37 · 31 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it always lower than a mans sex drive?

2007-07-17 05:00:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read what people write about their bachelor parties on here and I get worried. I couldn't imagine my fiance going out with the purpose of being turned on by the naked body of a whore, or anything worse. It would kill me inside and I would have trouble feeling the same way for him ever again, and all trust would be lost, something very important for sustaining your relationship....

I do trust him, it's the hoochies who push themselves onto the drunk bachelors and the group of guys pushing him to cheat in celebration of his last single night that I don't trust... way too much pressure from everyone around him.

If the guy has been a faithful loving partner up to this point and is madly in love with their girl, why do his friends expect and push him to cheat? Do strippers usually try to hook up with your man on their night? Has anyone else dealt with this situation, if so how? What makes a guy cheat on this night? How can these hoochies be so disrespectful?

2007-07-17 04:59:05 · 27 answers · asked by Betty 4 in Weddings

should i call him?

2007-07-17 04:56:15 · 10 answers · asked by Hi 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad and i never see eye to eye most times. We dont agree on anything. He does his thing, i do mine. This has been going on for 42 redundant years! Plus, he has an ugly habit of being a kleptomaniac OMG..can there be peace and co-exsistance between two worlds apart? Im 42..he's in his 70's..there's not much time left ya know

2007-07-17 04:55:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-17 04:55:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wouldn't it be better if Women and men were segregated? All Women can became lesbians, and we would only have to have sex with men to procreate, and once the child is born the man would send child support money and the women raise the child because Women are better at raising children then men. When the male children become teenagers, they can be sent to the other side. Also, males and Females should be segregated in schools because male children degrade young girls which affects their learning. Also since studies have proved that over 85% of men will rape at least once in their life, it would be much safer if we were separated from them. men are dirty pigs, and we don't need to put up with their sh!t which is why we need to be segregated. Us Women can all be lesbians, and be HAPPY ... not MISERABLE like all the straight Women (they say they are straight but in fact studies prove that almost all women prefer sex with other Women) in relationships with men. Your thoughts?

2007-07-17 04:55:16 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know I won't get the retail price out of these rings. We were together 15 years, the set was purchased about 8 years ago.

It's still listed on Kay's website for $13, 000. What are your suggestions for a reserve price on eBay?

The ring is well cared for, I've never lost or had to replace any stones.

Here's a link to the ring info on Kay's website:

http://www.kay.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?langId=-1&storeId=10101&catalogId=10001&productId=940023800

Thanks in advance! :)

2007-07-17 04:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by justme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are fine with it, please tell me why it's acceptable to you.

If you are not okay with it, please tell me why not.


**I just want to know from other women's perspectives.**

2007-07-17 04:51:30 · 13 answers · asked by PRIB 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-17 04:45:56 · 35 answers · asked by candie 4 in Singles & Dating

I know men hate the lovey-dovey heart shaped schmarmy stuff that SOME (not me) women love - what DO you like?

2007-07-17 04:45:18 · 6 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Singles & Dating

what should i do?!!!

2007-07-17 04:44:36 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yes...8...some of them not my choice...
1 is my sister, 2 are friends, 3 are future sister in laws and 2 are cousins...
My house is 45 minutes from the Church but 5 of the 8 bridesmaids live 15 minutes from the Church. Do I ask them to drive all the way down to my house to get ready? I don't necessarly NEED them to get ready with me but I'm thinking that THEY would like to.
OR...should I get a hotel in the city where they live (along w/ my parents etc) and just get ready there and all head to the church together?

2007-07-17 04:42:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have noticed a change in my husband lately. He's always tired at night and doesn't have any interest in sex anymore, except sometimes when we have been drinking on the weekend. He's a contractor and always going to people's homes to give estimates so it's hard to keep track of his whereabouts. It's the same with the cell phone. He gets all kinds of calls all day from customers. He doesn't go out at night without me, but he does stop into the pub for a couple of beers on the way home from work sometimes. He is good looking and has a sexy irish accent so I assume he wouldn't have any trouble finding a willing lady. I just have a bad feeling here lately. He has also expressed interest in having a threesome, but that is out of the question for me. I love my husband and don't want anyone else. We have been married now 6 years and have 3 children together. How can I find out if he is cheating or put my mind at ease? Thanks

2007-07-17 04:42:08 · 37 answers · asked by Concerned 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in school i kind of feel uncomfortable with boys staring at my boobs and once i heard this guy named cody tell his friend connor who is popular that he was going to ask me out cause he thought i was really sexy. is it weird for me to feel uncomfortable with guys always staring at me and looking up and down. i mean i think im pretty but sometimes it just feels weird so please help

2007-07-17 04:41:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right, 2.5days left at school and then it's the holis.

So, Friend 1 and 2 are arguing, 3 has just come back off ages of holidays and 4 is totally staaying out of it.
I've been nice so far but 2 is starting to bug me.

Sorry I have to talk in code but all my friend use this as well!

Please help!

2007-07-17 04:40:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

girls theirs

2007-07-17 04:37:42 · 4 answers · asked by Hannah_Montana 2 in Singles & Dating

i need help here trying to figure out if i should have a filled cake with strawberries or blue berries in it? i also want a classic or tradition square or round cake i am giving you two cakes one i thinks is pretty and unique and they others is an ugly cake to me. please help me find some classic cakes ideals for my wedding? sites apprecited beside theknot.com and brides.com appreciate all answer in advance
okay cakehttp://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/cakes/gallery/editorspick/detail/7831/?af=Style%3AClassic&offset=8&page=1
worst cake http://www.brides.com/weddingstyle/cakes/gallery/editorspick/detail/124775/?pf=shape%3aSquare+cake&page=1&offset=11

2007-07-17 04:36:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-17 04:36:21 · 22 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

please read my last ? for the details. I haven't really gotten any answers yet. please don't be negative about having to go read the last ?....if you don't want to then dont

2007-07-17 04:36:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi Everyone,
I apreciate everyones responses and advise. It is greatly appreciate. While I know my posting regarding my BF & I are confusing. You'll need to some of it two or three times to get all of the intricacies straight. Just to be clear the woman I'm referrging to is not the mother of is boys, but his previous ex before him and I dated. He is not the father of her child. While I know her boy is attached to my BF & his boys, which is understanable. It seems 2 me that my BF guy has a habit of spreading himself around several women, & not remaining committed 2 any of them. Add to that their kids, his kids, my daughter become attached to him, and each other (kids bond more readily and more deeply sometimes than adults). The other women kept calling him texting him cause obviously he had not made clean breaks with any of them, and they used the childrens' attachment to him and his kids as a way of keeping ties on him.

2007-07-17 04:35:45 · 5 answers · asked by Still I Rise!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and this guy are getting along really well...we are very good friends for a while now and we really like each other...how do we start to get kinda physical (kissing/hugging) with each other when we are both kind of shy? should i make a move first? (i know he wants to cus he gives little hints)

thanks xx

2007-07-17 04:35:40 · 7 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for talking to me. I really appreciate your comments and feelings. I will continue to take these things to heart and mind. Whatever happens to "us", I will always love you. Whether or not you understand this is of little consequence now as we are going to be or not be, our decision, our life.

2007-07-17 04:35:07 · 21 answers · asked by Tammy B 1 in Singles & Dating