Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

2007-07-17 04:33:22 · 10 answers · asked by BallllinAsiann 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter-n-law and my young grandson are coming to visit, they are staying for almost 2 weeks, they are coming with her parents (who are staying in a hotel), she has "OFFERED" to stay with us, that is a very long time for houseguest, how to I let her know that maybe 4-5 days would be good, but not 2 weeks, this will also be a financial hardship as she has no money and we live paycheck to paycheck. I love them dearly, but not 24/7 for 2 weeks. Any suggestions, I dont want to hurt her feelings, the baby is under 2. Thanks.

2007-07-17 04:33:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friends would often say that I look intimidating that's why guys don't approach me easily. But its just the looks, particularly my eyes actually that projects being a snob. They often say I'm ok once they get to know me.

2007-07-17 04:33:17 · 8 answers · asked by BelindaCuty 2 in Singles & Dating

Girls, if the guy you like does not talk to you and does not even attempt to start a conversation, and doesn't really smile at you (even though he likes you too, but you're still unsure), what would you do?

2007-07-17 04:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by Me A 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do? Would you stick with them and try to find other ways to enhance the sex, would you cheat, would you just leave them and find someone else?

2007-07-17 04:31:37 · 31 answers · asked by KryBaby 4 in Singles & Dating

ok i am pregnant and have a daughter and im just like any other person i really want sumbody to share my life with but guys arent interested in girls that have kids i knoe ive been told so men you dont have to tell me... i just want that feling of love and you know all that warm gushy stuff lol... so is it a waste of time to look or do you think that maybe love and the perfect man will just find me some day?? thats what my friends keep telling me...

2007-07-17 04:31:20 · 13 answers · asked by audrajean05 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep having dreams that i see my friend/crush in the most random places, but he has no idea who i am! I havent seen him in like 2 months and i really miss him. What could this dream mean???

He also runs away from me when I try to tell him who I am in my

And I'm afraid that if I try to talk to him I will cry or something bcuz I will be so happy to see him!

Yes I have told him how I feel. He doesnt know about the dreams and crap but he knows I love him!

2007-07-17 04:29:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think ?
If a group of drunk men grab a female friend and tryed to strip her they would be arrested for sexual assolt But when a group of women grab a man & try to strip him every one thinks it is so funny. It is 1 law for Men & another for women

2007-07-17 04:29:41 · 14 answers · asked by bambimum123 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked this question last night but I didn't recieve many responses, so I thought I'd try again.


Of the relationships involving people that you know well (friends, family, coworkers, whatever): who has cheated more (and more often), the men or the women?

I want to see statistics from relationships involving people that YOU PERSONALLY know, not just something you read about in a magazine or heard about on a talk show.

An example of the response format I'm looking for: I personally know 3 men (a total of 4 times) and 2 women (a total of 6 times) that have cheated on their partners.

Extra thumbs up for including a description of why you think this is so, or if you noticed a discernible trend.

Gossip and hearsay shall be frowned upon.

2007-07-17 04:29:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl friend is a very open person. She's bisexual and we've had quite a number of 2 female 1 male 3somes. I asked her if she get's jealous watching me having sex with another woman and she says it doesn't bother her at all, instead she said it turns her on A LOT to watch me with another woman. I'm just very suprised that a girl can be like that and it just seems unfair that I get to mess around with other women and she doesn't mess around with other guys. So I asked her if she wanted me to watch her with another guy, and she said that the only man she needs is me and to watch me with other women. She even likes to watch me go one on one with a woman. I'm just VERY suprised about this and not sure what to make out of it. What's going on here? lol

2007-07-17 04:27:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the best way to get to this women? She has a daughter (which resulted from him cheating on me before we got married) by my husband who I have two sons by also. We are beyond the situation however, we have had couples counseling and I have forgiven him and he has proven it to be a mistake and we are in a much better point now that we are married. However, this girl continues to use her daughter to try to get close to my husband. She will try to make his visits only be at her house if at all, or will not answer the calls when he tries to go pick her up, she prank calls our phone, gets drunk and wants to argue with me, and always tries to make it about her when my husband has told her he justs wants to take care of the his daughter. She doesnt like that answer and will continue to play games and manipulate the situation. What actions should we take to get the point across that its only about his daughter b/c telling her doesnt seem to work.

2007-07-17 04:27:04 · 14 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister cut contact with my godly father and I and moved back to the States to live with the woman who birthed us. She was mad because my father and I kept making her shave her head as she as blond and therefore leads men to sin. She said her head hurt from the cuts and it was too hot to wear hats in Venezeula, where we live. I am to be married and she wants to come to the wedding. She has promised to dress modestly, but her sinful blond mane is back and she will not promise to cover it or shave it. My godly and saintly father has promised to sheer her, but I don't want a to do on my wedding weekend. How can I convince my sister that her sinful blond hair will tempt my wonderful Christian groom and friends and that we cannot have flaxen locks at my wedding????

2007-07-17 04:25:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For the bachlorette party the plan is to take the bride out for dinner and drinks before the Big night out on the town, so do I still bring a gift? I don't know if this matters but the bridal shower is the next day. A co-worker told me that if I'm a bridesmaid I just have to help with the cost of the bachlorette party and take a gift to the bridal shower, but that a wedding gift isn't necessary. Is that correct?

2007-07-17 04:25:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I recently found out that a girl that works for my husband has feelings for him and has for a while. He is a manager and she is a waitress.

He and I both found out at the same time from a co-worker that we both know and trust. She told us that this girl has been talking about him with some of the staff and telling them that she has feelings for him. This started about two years ago. Since then he got transferred to another place for about a year and this girl "took it really hard." When we got engaged she found out and was "depressed." Now he's back working with her again (got transferred back). She knows he's married and we just had a baby. She's seen me and seen our child, yet this psycho chick still talks to people about how she has feelings for my husband. What should I do?

2007-07-17 04:24:33 · 31 answers · asked by sweetsar99 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean, the last thing i want is a relationship. to be perfectly honest, i just want sex with no strings. i like a guy where i work and would like to do the 'pants dance' with him.

i'm 27, not a child but i just want to get lai a couple of times.

any advice?

i don't want to come right out and say it, i want suttlety

2007-07-17 04:22:18 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 04:20:43 · 15 answers · asked by jo 1 in Singles & Dating

We don't have a lot of money, but i think we have a much better chance of winning and getting the whole process done faster if we have a lawyer.

2007-07-17 04:20:34 · 9 answers · asked by Kristabella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

list the qualitie that the person posses.

2007-07-17 04:20:29 · 11 answers · asked by swon2647 1 in Singles & Dating

Please please explain this to me! I'm in my mid forties, single and am often told I look well for my age, I'm friendly slim and healthy. Sometimes people even say that I look in my early thirties. At the moment, I'm being asked out by guys in their mid twenties and I'm so complimented! Most of these guys are good good looking and sweet as well. What do they see in a woman so much older when there are so many lovely young girls around who are much more attractive than I am and fertile as well!? Men, please please help me to understand this!

2007-07-17 04:20:22 · 25 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 04:19:36 · 5 answers · asked by swon2647 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 04:18:21 · 3 answers · asked by swon2647 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years (since I was 18) and I have been thinking alot lately about leaving him. He is not a bad guy, he is really sweet and funny, and he is my best friend in the whole world. I really do love him , but I feel like we just don't connect on the level that true love is supposed to . He is not romantic at all. He never wants to have sex, and when we do it is good, but not passionate. He never holds me or touches or caress me. I am the kind of person that needs passion and romance, I just feel like we are good friends. We have been through so much together, and he has never been anything but good to me. Does true passionate love exist? Should I be grateful that I have a man that loves me, won't cheat on me, has a job, and all the basics, or Do you really truely deeply "connect" with your true love? I have been trying to communicate this to him for 6 years, but whenever I bring it up he says "Lets talk about it later" or just acts like I am nagging him.

2007-07-17 04:17:00 · 23 answers · asked by sugarplums 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf and i didnt tell my parents becuz they are WAY too overprotective and its weird around them.how can i see him without them knowing.yes,i kno him from school so dont think i met him on the internet.plus,how can i feel less ackward around my parents with a boy.my sister has a bf around them and she acts like its no big deal but to me its embarrasing and weird.plz help with both question.

2007-07-17 04:12:07 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie </3 3 in Singles & Dating

For tradition wording: Mr and Mrs (brides parents) request the honor of your present at the marriage of their daughter (bride name) to (groom name) son of (grooms parents)

This is were I need help. The grooms parents are divorced and we would like to list both parents. Another complication grooms father is remarried.

Thank you for your help.

2007-07-17 04:11:38 · 10 answers · asked by brezzy 4 in Weddings

need friends that know me

2007-07-17 04:09:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...if a friend who is a guy writes you a long note about how much he loves you, and all of the things that he loves about you, but he was really nervous and almost didnt even give it to you because he was so scared of the reaction. But I convinced him to give the note to me, so now what should my reaction be? Does he want me to go to him and tell him what I thought about it or would that just make an awkward situation for him? Should I keep going on like he never wrote it? Thank him? The note didnt lead as to what expectations he had, so Im not sure if it was just a nice note, or him wanting to take it further. So I dont want to embarrass him or myself, what should I do?

2007-07-17 04:07:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl that lives below me, and the other day i ran into her and i introduce myself to her, she was smiling and happy and she showed me where her apt was downstairs. does that mean she is single or has a bf? does she like me? what should my next move be? thanks J

2007-07-17 04:07:39 · 30 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

do you remember my question about the boy who i totally messed up with and you said stay friendly and you might win hime back- well i was friendly and now he is ignoring me what's worse is that his best mate likes me tooo...what a to do!!!!

help any advice helpful

2007-07-17 04:06:12 · 6 answers · asked by choco_lover 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 04:03:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married soon to a wonderful Christian man of whom my incredible father approves. The woman who birthed me (my father's first wife) shall not be present, as she is Satan incarnate. My true mother is Mama Carmen, my father's second wife. Wives three, four and five shall also be present, but have not had nearly as much influence on me as I was growing up. My father shall escort Mama Carmen to her seat, but I think all the other wives should walk sedatly down and take seats behind my father and Mama Carmen. They want to sit in the first bench and they also wish my father to walk them to their seats. There are no other men but my father to escort women, but I only want him to escort me and Mama Carmen. Am I being selfish?

2007-07-17 04:00:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings