Out of town guest?

Question

My daughter-n-law and my young grandson are coming to visit, they are staying for almost 2 weeks, they are coming with her parents (who are staying in a hotel), she has "OFFERED" to stay with us, that is a very long time for houseguest, how to I let her know that maybe 4-5 days would be good, but not 2 weeks, this will also be a financial hardship as she has no money and we live paycheck to paycheck. I love them dearly, but not 24/7 for 2 weeks. Any suggestions, I dont want to hurt her feelings, the baby is under 2. Thanks.

janicajayne, why answer a question is you cannot help anyone, get a life

Answer 1

This is a sensative subject. I think honesty is the only way to go. Let them know how happy you are able to accomodate them and spend time with them that you feel as though 4-5 days is the most you can accomodate. It's not your responsibilty and you are kind to do what you are doing as is. Time to set the precedent otherwise you'll have house guests all the time for weeks at a time.

Answer 2

I don't think money is the issue here. Two weeks is not a long time. You can eat cheaply and enjoy your grandson for 2 whole weeks. A child that age doesn't eat very much and I doubt if his mother does either. Other than that, what would you have to spend on them? However, a 2yo around the house for two weeks is a lot of work, but his mother should pick up after him and clean his messes, not you. I know you would feel differently if it were your son bringing home your grandson. Check out the real reasons for your hesitation and then keep them to yourself and deal. I really hope you don't miss this opportunity!

Answer 3

I have just had to put up five people ,including three grandchildren, for three weeks. I see them very infrequently so it is a privilege to do so. Make a sacrifice. This is your grandchild for God´s sake. Your own blood.

Answer 4

She's your family, what's your problem?