...if a friend who is a guy writes you a long note about how much he loves you, and all of the things that he loves about you, but he was really nervous and almost didnt even give it to you because he was so scared of the reaction. But I convinced him to give the note to me, so now what should my reaction be? Does he want me to go to him and tell him what I thought about it or would that just make an awkward situation for him? Should I keep going on like he never wrote it? Thank him? The note didnt lead as to what expectations he had, so Im not sure if it was just a nice note, or him wanting to take it further. So I dont want to embarrass him or myself, what should I do?
2007-07-17 04:07:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should react how you feel, obviously he likes you, he wanted you to know that, im sure he wants to go out with you ect... but if he didnt mention that then he probably just forgot because he was nervous while writing the note and just wanted you to know how he feels, he will be sad if you dont return the feelings, but it would be so much worse if you were to pretend to like him and not, and ignoring the note would utterly kill him inside, he poored his heart out into that note and it took him everything he had to give it to you, just ignoreing it is rather cruel, Tell him the truth, how you felt about the note, anything else would just be messed up
2007-07-17 14:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by My Name's Steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very Beautiful and I know this guy wants to take it farther. The signs are right in front of you, especially the nervousness. Do you like him? If you do then give it a shot. Don't ignore him and act like he never wrote the letter. He had the guts to put his-self out on the line like that. Tell him what you thought about it.
2007-07-17 04:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him, go to him and give him the note bnack with a kiss on the cheek. let him know you are confused over his intetntions and then be honest if he opens up. It would sem like you are a bit confused at his intentions so clear that up and take it from there.
Always let them down easy if you are not interested because it hurts no matter what
2007-07-17 04:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, if he said he loves you and everything about you... He probably wants to be with you. Most guys don't write notes like that just for fun.
If you'd like to pursue something with him or not, go tell him. Just be honest and tell him how you feel about him.
2007-07-17 04:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just write a note back and ask him what he really meant about the note
2007-07-17 04:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by whateva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think you should thank him and let him know how you feel about it. tell him its OK to let you know how he feels an you let him know if its OK to go further with the feelings.
2007-07-17 04:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by househubby4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say 2 talk 2 him.
2007-07-17 04:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋