What would you do? Would you stick with them and try to find other ways to enhance the sex, would you cheat, would you just leave them and find someone else?
2007-07-17 04:31:37 · 31 answers · asked by KryBaby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, Carol A, if you don't believe in sex before marriage then why the hell is your virgin butt answering my question?
2007-07-17 10:32:20 · update #1
Thanks for the answers, damn near all of them have been great, I will have a hard time picking a best! Thanks!
2007-07-17 10:37:35 · update #2
Stick with them for a while, be supportinve and encourage them to egt better. But in the end if it don't work in the bed it's not working. Period. I couldn't spend the rest of my life knowing I would never have good sex again.
2007-07-17 04:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by TheEconomist 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well Im not sure if I should answer cause usually Im the one dealing out the bad sex. I would try to find other ways of enhancing the experience. They say the largest sexual organ is the brain, I beleive that totally. These days theres all kinds of drugs and things to help out but good sex is about passion. that fire that has you going before sex even starts. If you love your mate then you're half way there. i would suggest looking into new ways to enhance the experience. sex games, sexy clothing maybe even using some ummm, tools would help but cheating, or leaving them would be out of the question cause when you do you leave alot more behind then just bad sex...
2007-07-17 11:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by newton3010 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You first have to sit back and consider what you love the most about your partner. In your case it sounds like you appreciate his personality more than his physical features, so I would suggest you stick with him him and discreetly guide him when you're making love. If he loves you and cares about making you happy, he won't mind you suggesting things that will enhance the experience. Cheating on him shouldn't be an option or thought if this is someone you see yourself with for a long time. Keep the trust and try to work it out. Good Luck
2007-07-17 11:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by AU TIGER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship sex should not be the major factor but love.And with love if sex fail you will have sometghing else to keep the relationship standing.If I loved the guy there is no way I'd leave him for just some little sex.We would work at it together,there must be some way we can make it better even if it means seeing a therapist.
2007-07-17 11:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't the only way you can express love for eachother, nor is it a good enough reason to all out leave the person.
You could show them how, or how you like it. You could also just not have sex until your older (unless you are already older, then teach them). But definitely don't leave the person if you really love them.
2007-07-17 11:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by cman14 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never cheat, not unless you want to be cheated on. You can always teach someone to be good in bed, you can't teach someone "love", it's a feeling. If you really have strong feeling for someone then you should stay. Watch a porn, get some pointers - show him what you like. I wouldn't know from experience but I bet that's what I would do ; )
2007-07-17 11:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you believe in keeping it real-if he is worth marriage I would consider the principles of being a princess, and stay away from the movie industry=yet there are some that get hurt by their guy or their past and go the other way which is the worst thing that one could do=Well if u truely love him why not make it real and get married?
or the option for some is to get paid for what they do-yet it is sad either way=
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I feel sorry for their choices-Lust with or without money paid is a dead end without a future if true love and commitment to marriage isnt in there.
"The love of money is the root of all evil" the Bible-not the money but loving it more than doing what is right before God.
would you desire your future husband and children to have people pointing you out -with a bad reputation for having shacked up with this and that guy?
I rededicate each part of my body to the Lord each day and pray not to let anyone or thing take my peace and joy away--and there is a song -be careful little eyes what you see, for the father up above is looking down with love, so be careful little eyes what you see
in Jesus amazing grace that saved me=John 3 repented from sins, asked Jesus in to help me and be my friend, amen Revelation 3:19&20
I think she was about 20 her name was Andrea or something like that maybe shorter
I guess i wrote all this to forget a new girl I met a pure Cinderella- today that is an honorable one-with a dear heart-yet I dont got a clue what tomorrow will bring.
Excellent answer. Upon further thinking i dont feel sorry for them really but some are really in need of help and need the lord like you said. they defile their bodies and will inevitably regret what they're doing.
prayin for you to make the best choice, David in Jesus amazing grace
2007-07-17 11:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, never cheat. Try new things in the bedroom. There are plenty of ways to make the sex better. If that is the only thing that is wrong in the relationship then I would try to do different things to make it better. Be creative!!
2007-07-17 11:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Amber B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try working with them to help make it better. If someone is willing, then they will agree to try different things. If the person is unwilling to try anything different or new, then you'd best leave while you can because unless sex is equally important to both of you, the relationship will not work long term.
2007-07-17 11:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Somethingtotry 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being in a relationship is about being in love, not sex. Sex is just one of the perks. If your bf/gf isn't that good "now", teach him/her in a nice way. Try saying let's do something different today and show him something and then he show you something. You may find out that you aren't as good as well. I would just have fun learning and teaching! LOL!
2007-07-17 11:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Randi B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋