how can i see this boy without my parents knowing?

Question

i have a bf and i didnt tell my parents becuz they are WAY too overprotective and its weird around them.how can i see him without them knowing.yes,i kno him from school so dont think i met him on the internet.plus,how can i feel less ackward around my parents with a boy.my sister has a bf around them and she acts like its no big deal but to me its embarrasing and weird.plz help with both question.

Answer 1

I assume your parents have not forbidden you to have boyfriends. How about inviting a group of friends (girls and boys, including your bf) to hang out at your house a few times first so your parents get to know he's ok. Then gradually, over time, let it be known he is the special one.
I suggest you don't try to make a secret of him because you will have shown to them you are not to be trusted and this will make other stuff awkward too. You need to show them you are responsible and are being open with them.

Answer 2

Ok, so first, don't try to hide him, us parents have eyes in the backs of our heads ya know, we see and know all! Really, not sure how old you are, but I felt the same way when I was like junior high age or a little younger. My first boyfriend and I broke up because of it, so if you want to hold onto this boy then just tell your parents he's a friend, have him come hang out at your house, get their approval (like make sure they like him) and then ease into the whole "he's my boyfriend" thing after they get to know him a little. Maybe you could also talk to your sister about it and have her help you tell them. Good luck, but be careful - no sex, if you're too young to feel weird about telling your parents you have a bf then you're too young for that! Don't forget that! You start making out and one thing leads to another, I know, but don't ever let a boy pressure you!

Answer 3

If you start lying to your parents no matter how protective they are, they will never be able to trust you or your judgement and will not let up.
It shouldn't be embarassing to have someone you like around family.
He should be well enough bred to act like a responsible person and know how to deal with family situations.
I think you are just nervous about deceiving your parents.....
let them meet him, bring him over for a soda and just sit and talk in the backyard.
They will see and approach, you can tell them he is your friends and introduce them.
be honest, it shows them you have respect and are mature enough to have a boy around....

Answer 4

Just tell them. I'm sure they won't be mad. If your open and honest about it then i'm sure everything will be fine. If you try and hide it will make them not trust you. Invite him over and let your parents get to know him. Do things with other people around. Your parents should not have a problem with that.

Answer 5

well some go into the movie buisness so that they can be seen, but I dont recommend it for you=marry me
yet there are some that get hurt by their guy or their past and go the other way which is the worst thing that one could do=Well if u truely love him why not make it real and get married?
or the option for some is to get paid for what they do-yet it is sad either way=

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker

I feel sorry for their choices-Lust with or without money paid is a dead end without a future if true love and commitment to marriage isnt in there.
"The love of money is the root of all evil" the Bible-not the money but loving it more than doing what is right before God.

would you desire your future husband and children to have people pointing you out -with a bad reputation for having shacked up with this and that guy?

she audigraphed a picture for me-(not a naked one, which I got rid of) and asked me to go bowling with her the next day, I stood her up because I knew Jesus didnt want me to see her again.

I rededicate each part of my body to the Lord each day and pray not to let anyone or thing take my peace and joy away--and there is a song -be careful little eyes what you see, for the father up above is looking down with love, so be careful little eyes what you see

in Jesus amazing grace that saved me=John 3 repented from sins, asked Jesus in to help me and be my friend, amen Revelation 3:19&20
I think she was about 20 her name was Andrea or something like that maybe shorter

I guess i wrote all this to forget a new girl I met a pure Cinderella- today that is an honorable one-with a dear heart-yet I dont got a clue what tomorrow will bring.

Excellent answer. Upon further thinking i dont feel sorry for them really but some are really in need of help and need the lord like you said. they defile their bodies and will inevitably regret what they're doing.

prayin for you to make the best choice, David in Jesus amazing grace

Answer 6

Why don't you grow up first, then worry about a boyfriend. If you can't be up front with your parents and have your boyfriend act honorably by meeting them, then you are way to young to date.

If your first thought is to hide him from your parents, then you are too immature.

Answer 7

I wouldn't worry too much about it. So long as your boyfriend isn't socially retarded or has a fear of parents, he should be able to hold his own in a conversation or a confrontation by your parents. Just trust him and relax :)

Answer 8

merely tell him your selection and if your mum and dad discover out you may desire to no longer care do no longer tell him to deceive your mum and dad approximately he desires homework help reason then your mum and dad wont like him once you start up relationship (reason they are going to think of of him as a liar)

Answer 9

call him, email him, pretend hes just a friend. pretend when u go out with him, ur going out as a group. dont have him pick u up, get dropped off by ur parents or something. trust me, i have experience in these areas. good luck! when ur ready, tell them

Answer 10

tell your parents that your going out with one of your 'girl' friends.. just in case your parents check up on your story bring her along.....