Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

we have been together for 6 years,and still going strong.but when he gets frustrated or does not understand something he gets annoyed,angry and lashes out.he does not get angry with me just other things but i seem to be in the way.i have had some very attractive bruises on my arms and face.
a week ago he got annoyed cause this stupid barman would not serve him.and so a blackish grey area on my arm is abit sore but itches aswell but it does hurt when i scratch it.
nah i dont have plans on leaving him.i think a good dose of anger management will help.the trouble is how to convince him.

it does not really hurt that much,only when i touch them without thinking.we get on great either way.

2007-07-17 23:03:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 22:54:33 · 17 answers · asked by Wonderment 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I recently moved to a large city where he grew up. We are 36 years old and have been happily married for 12 years. I feel almost ridiculous concerning myself with this, but...my husband's first girlfriend (from 20 years ago) has somewhat kept in touch with my husband over the years. They were friends after they broke up, and he calls her on her birthday every year. This never bothered me. I am sure that my husband has no interest in her...no more than any of his other friends that he phones once a year on their birthday. But now that we live in the same city, she called to meet up with him...they have not seen each other in 17 years. So it kind of bothered my that her suggestion was that they meet for a run at a park. She is married and has children with similar ages to ours, but I do not want to suggest that we get together...it is not a big interest to me. I completely trust my husband and we are best friends. Should I care or is this not worth the trouble?

2007-07-17 22:51:46 · 16 answers · asked by kathryndrew 2 in Marriage & Divorce

now tell me what to do

2007-07-17 22:42:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-17 22:41:19 · 26 answers · asked by SATISH KR. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 22:38:45 · 9 answers · asked by moonstone 1 in Singles & Dating

So I met this girl on MySpace, recently. From her picture she looked cute but not like one of those models where it just seems to good to be true.
We began exchanging emails when she informed me that she is in South Africa right now.
Her command of the English language is at best flawed (though at times it's very hard to understand her). (I should mention that she is Hispanic, (not sure from where exactly yet)).
My big worry is that in a week or so she's going to ask me for money or something to help her get back to the states. Am I being too negative here or has anyone heard of this scam before.

2007-07-17 22:38:31 · 18 answers · asked by The Brian 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 18, and just graduated. So I started talking to one of my freinds exes at a grad party and she wanted my number and put hers into my phone. She started texting me ALL THE TIME! Telling me how cute I am and her whole life story. She would text me from 9 am to 11 pm. This went on for wo weeks straight and I would go over her house and we would hang out. I finally decided to ask her out and she said ya it should be fun. Later on he texted me and said that dating might not be a good idea because I am freinds with her ex. So we decided to not date, or at least not now. Couple days later I went to a party with her and the party was lame. I asked if she would take me to this girl elainas house since she drove and she did. She didnt stay cause she worked in the morning and I stayed the night cause I was drinking. Since that night, it has been 2 weeks she has not alked to me. I aked if she was mad and she said no she is busy. It has been a couple weeks now, no talking, what did I do?

2007-07-17 22:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by HELPERDUDE 2 in Singles & Dating

Since we all finished high school 2 years ago, theres this group of 4 of us that always do things together. However, this one girl in the group Ash really annoys everyone, and all our boyfriends hate her because she thinks shes too good for everyone and insults them. SHe's spoilt and if she doesnt get her own way then she throws a huge tantrum.
I cant stand her, but the others say that we have to invite her everywhere cos it would be rude otherwise.
The other lke her a little, but I dont. I cant stand her.
Ash thinks we're best friends, but doesnt know that i'm deliberately ignoring her messages and have blocked her on msn.
I wont confront her becos i want to make it easier on the others, and avoid conflict.
How can i see my friends without seeing her?

2007-07-17 22:34:24 · 5 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Friends

ok i dont need rude answers! so if your gonna say something mean dont bother answering ok!
so ive been cheating on my bf and the guy im seeing is cheating on his gf.
we havent had sex yet but have done everything else. what im asking is why he wont kiss me. he says he cant and he never will be able to. im not looking to be in a relationship with him but i do like him and i really want to kiss him. he kissed me on the cheek and thats it. is it he doesnt want to get emotionally involved or he just doesnt like kissing? im just confused cuz i mean this was all his idea and i know i agreed but i want to feel like were in this together were just fuc*ing around and thats it so whats the big deal he knows we cant be together ever! so is he afraid of getting attatched to me? or whats his deal?!? im 24 hes 25 (and no my breath doesnt stink for all of you that want to comment on that!)

2007-07-17 22:31:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi I have not plan some goals @ all yet. Time it is really fast. But, as for right now, I do not want a new girlfriend or buy a new car yet. Any advice guys or ladies? Thank you! :)

2007-07-17 22:30:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently I have realized I have started growing remantic feelings towards one of my best friends whom I look up to as a brother. I've know him for about two years and hes around two or three years older than me. (Im 16 he's almost 19) We're really close even though he lives on the other coast. We've met up at anime conventions numerous times it's just that he has a girlfriend (who hes never met in person -eye roll-) and he's "very much" in love with her but, I find myself always wanting to talk to him or be with him . This is so stupid DX he prob. only looks to me as a sister because, well im rather childish for 16 and soomewhat of a tomboy but, he has called me cute ...so yeah im confused @_____@

2007-07-17 22:29:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

THNAK YOU!!

ok my crush send me a text saying he loved me
and i said i lovd him too :)
and THEN he said He loved me more =]]


WHAT SHOULD I SAY??

I LOVE HIM MORE TOO??

HELP ME !!!

2007-07-17 22:26:02 · 21 answers · asked by Mayra 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 7 yrs and there are many things I love about my husband. I have all the material things I want, but I am very insecure. He is very successful and confident which is what I love about him. The first few months of our marriage he asked if I would watch a porn film with him which he had done occasionally through his life. I told him that I was upset that he would need to want to watch one and because we argued he said he wouldn't watch any again. He swears to this day ( 6 years later) that he hasn't watched porn since we got married and that he has no interest any more, that he adores me and has grown up. He also says that he hasn't been to a strip club since we got married ( although he used to go on work occasions before we met). He was asked to go when we were first together but didn't, although I know he wanted to becuase lots of people from work were going. We have argued many times about this stuff, he says he can't live without me and has changed. Has he?

2007-07-17 22:24:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like if ur bf is hanging out with another girl and u get REALLY jealous and flip out on him,like yell at him and stuff. how do u deal with that and make it stop?

2007-07-17 22:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

a wall?girlfriend?ex-girlfriend?stuff animals?

2007-07-17 22:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship with someone (call her the young wife).

Our relationship is not beneficial to either of us.

She's miserable because I'm boring and wont do anything for her (or with her).

I'm miserable because at this point in my life, I would love to send her in a time machine, 5 years into the future, because I'm 24/7 devoted to studying and preparing for the MCAT and want zero social life, and want zero activitys, and the only things I like to do outside of studying is playing online chess and watching tv alone.

When I spend time with my wife, I'm miserable. When I dont spend time with my wife, she gets very ancy, wants to shop/spend money that we dont have. She can't get hired due to mental handicap. She is dying from neglect and she subconsciously argues with me, just for the social benefit--and I can't stand it.


Also we have a kid, but the grandmother has implied ownership and we are better off appeasing the grandmother because she supports us somewhat.

2007-07-17 22:15:01 · 12 answers · asked by Voltaire's book Candide 3 in Marriage & Divorce

should i be worried or is it normal he is 28

2007-07-17 22:03:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 21:59:27 · 10 answers · asked by DarK-AnGeLs-OpiNioN 2 in Singles & Dating

i can't talk with him a lot.. but when i'm not with him, there are lot of things i want to tell him. but when we are together... none of those ideas are coming out my mouth.. what does this means? what will i do? help me not to be shy with him. plz help. thnx

2007-07-17 21:46:02 · 21 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Singles & Dating

I miss my wife but she is not willing 2 admit she is wrong and can't even say Im sorry, my kids r suffering but I cant go back 2 an verbally and physical abuse relationship! What should I do?

2007-07-17 21:34:23 · 10 answers · asked by budman11901 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know why he wants to break up with me...
he said that he love me.. and then afterwards he said that he need break.. i don't do anything!!! His parents and I are agree to our relationships!!! Please help Me!!!

2007-07-17 21:29:08 · 32 answers · asked by bunso 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a 15 year old guy and I've been friends with this girl since 6th grade, and we would always hang out and get crap from people about me liking her though i never considered her anything but a friend.

In 8th grade she moved schools, but it was no big deal because its really close and we would still hang out. But beggining in 9th grade she hasnt tried to call me, talked to me or wanted to hangout. So for the last couple of monthes i have called her every one or two weeks and she always said "no" or "im busy"

Today i got a message from her (after i sent one asking if she wanted to hang out in a couple days). It pretty much said leave me alone i dont want to hang out with you.

I dont know whether to get mad, confront her, just never call her again or what, PLEASE help me, i dont know what to do

2007-07-17 21:28:59 · 5 answers · asked by . 1 in Friends

Wife has been working and has been out of the house for 12 hours. She goes to bed at 9:00pm. Husband, without asking, goes and buys 4 cans of beer and stays up until 12:00 midnight drinking them. He's a house husband and has been at home, doing chores all day. In the morning wife argues over a betrayal of trust!. Is this a fair assumption?.

2007-07-17 21:27:57 · 37 answers · asked by Old Man of Coniston!. 5 in Marriage & Divorce

obssessed with you or is he just jealous?

2007-07-17 21:21:43 · 10 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 21:13:49 · 14 answers · asked by bebe4u 2 in Singles & Dating

I just lost only friend of mine on the line, because of something really stupid. Some1 broke into my mail and sent her messages in my name! I had to pay to a hacker to brake into it an I saw messages. He sent 2 messages to her 1St was like I
am gonna f??? you and 2Nd was like you will s??? my di??
She is now mad on me and doesn't want to answer on any of my mails! Do you have any advice?
P.S. She is too far so I cannot see her, so I can only send her something. And I tryed with I'm sorry...

2007-07-17 21:04:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why am i such a fool for my ex. i thought i was eventually over her, when all of a sudden out the blue she started texting me again. we met at a beach party and ended up having sex. the texting continued, then stopped again. i was talking to her a few days ago, only for her to tell me she is seeing someone. i was gutted. i was in her company again on saturday night and we ended up at mine. we didnt have sex, but have been really flirty. shes screwing with my head, but i think about her 24/7. i dont wanna text her in case she thinks i'm pestering her. help! some pointers please.

2007-07-17 21:01:27 · 10 answers · asked by techno mentalist 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm an only child who's 17 years old with a divorced 53 year-old mother. i love my mother to death and i am the first generation of my family to be born in America. ever since i was a child, i thought about how lonely when my mother dies. lately, i can't get over the feeling of how lonely i'll be when my mother passes away. it's become really bad and i'm afraid to talk to my mother about it. i want to be with my family (as in cousins, grandparents, etc) but i can't since i live in america. my mom and i have a 34 year old difference. i'm so scared of losing her. i don't know what i'll do. anyone can give me advice on how to cope with this fear i have? thank you.

2007-07-17 20:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by abcjosiee 2 in Family

2007-07-17 20:52:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating