i can't talk with him a lot.. but when i'm not with him, there are lot of things i want to tell him. but when we are together... none of those ideas are coming out my mouth.. what does this means? what will i do? help me not to be shy with him. plz help. thnx
2007-07-17 21:46:02 · 21 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're being careful what you say, and not taking chances. We all do that early on in relationships. Sooner or later you'll begin to open up. Right now just be who you are. He seems to be ok with that.
2007-07-18 13:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be shy but not anymore. I started going to the library and book store, and getting book to read that helped me overcome some of the shyness. I don't think shyness for a young girl is that much of a problem. However, once you become engaged to marry, then there are quite a few things that you both need to explore and discuss. Don't worry, in time you will grow and become more relaxed, confident, etc., around your bf.
2007-07-17 21:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you shy in general or just with your bf? If you're shy in general, you probably need to build up your confidence.
But if you're just shy with him, maybe what you can do is write down all those things you wanted to talk to him about, and pick one or two and make sure you say it to him when u next talk - maybe you can do it over the phone instead of face-to-face?
Another way could be to pretend you're talking to some other friends - like maybe you're with your bf, but you imagine you're talking with your best friend.
good luck!
2007-07-17 21:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by diagnostix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not like this with every guy then you may have a problem. There should be very minimum awkwardness in a relationship, and since there is some in yours, I would think to yourself if you two really belong together.
2007-07-17 21:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Senarine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Being shy is a quality not a drawback. You just need to relax yourself and realize that if you love him you must say all those things you always wanted to
2007-07-17 21:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its part of courting, u will eventually get used to him ,it is normal, i feel like that at times when i am with my bf, it ok to be shy, some guys adore it, but dont be too shy,and stop thinking bout what to say, he probably doesnt know wht to say either, jus go see him with empty thoughts, not empty literally but,just go there it is all spontaneous, he likes u thats why he asked u out and u r his girl.
2007-07-25 20:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to build a good friendship like bond with him first and you have to over come your fear of this try talking to him on the phone about it first tell him whats on ur mind or text him if u have a cell then you can move up to telling him in person i think one of ur problems is u r afraid of what he might say think or do..i know how u feel i have so much to say but i cant say it..its hard to over come but one day u will over come it i promise...
2007-07-17 21:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by mandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can't talk to him because you are too shy, why not write to him and express what you think about him and write down what you want to tell him, and then send it or give it to him.
2007-07-17 21:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're shy because he is an attractive guy and you are not fully comfortable around him just yet. just think of him as another human like yourself and say what you want to say. just relax and go with the flow.
2007-07-17 21:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by DreamOn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just shy people. After a while you should be able to be around him and not be shy.
2007-07-17 21:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Angalz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋