Ok, I'm going to just say exactly what happened here. My (ex?) girlfriend of 5+ years decided last week that she needed a "break" but NOT a "breakup". She said that she needs to "clear her head and wants to go out and party with the girls and just be on her own for a little while, and then in a little while we would get back together and see what's changed."
Basically what I am gathering (with some help from others) is that she wants to try playing the field for a bit, find out that most guys out there are *******, and make sure that I'm the one she wants to spend her life with. But, I'm going on 29 this year, and don't want to keep waiting around for her to make up her mind. I want to get married and have kids, and, she said that she wasn't sure that's what she wants, (after telling me for months that I'm her "one" and she can't live without me.) So, how long should I wait before I go out and start actively "playing the field" for lack of a better term?
2007-07-17
15:19:40
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