i dont gamble and the only time i spend money is for our bills and foods? why is he doing this?HEELLLLPPP!! im very sick of it!
2007-07-17 15:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by shemi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He is using you so he can have his fun and then he abuses you when he loses. You are a sucker and the smartest thing you can do is take out your money and open your own account in a different bank, then dump the jerk.
2007-07-17 15:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you mad a joint account with a gambler?
All gamblers are mentally ill, gambling is a serious sickness. If you are young please take some advice and leave him, I have seen so many marriages break up over gambling. Even couples who have stayed together for ten years with the wife hoping he will change, they don't now its up to you
to stay or go, I know what I would do.
2007-07-17 22:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two reasons I can think of.
1. He is mad that he loses and takes it out on you.
2. He wants you to control the situation because he realizes
he has a problem.
Either way, he doesn't want to take responsibility for his action. You can keep your joint account but you also have to have an account of your own. He needs to get help for his addictions. If he is willing, support him. If he doesn't recognize or is unwilling to work on his addiction, you need to move on.
2007-07-17 22:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by tim O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has a gambling addiction. it's easier for him to blame you then it is stop his behavior. get a seperate account ASAP. if he doesn't seek help soon, all of your money will be gone and he will run your credit into the ground. maintain control and don't let him take you down with him.
2007-07-17 22:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by pandora078 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is projecting towards you his frustration and misgivings (gambling habit). separate your accounts before he drives you to the ground. i had a joint acct. with my now husband and as soon as he thought i was spending his money i closed the account and that was that. been married now for 20 years.
2007-07-17 22:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by shygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have a joint account...when he loses...so do you. Get your own account and get rid of this loser. You're on a rocky road and it's not gonna' get any better until you make some changes.
2007-07-17 22:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by chilicooker_mkb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, why, why, would you have a joint account with someone who gambles??? More importantly, why would you continue a relationship with someone you can't trust? Close that account and cut that sucker loose - in that order.
2007-07-17 22:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an account with a gambler. What do you expect? Stop being passive aggressive and open your own account. If he can't pay his way, show him the door. You want to marry this bum?
2007-07-17 23:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separate accounts. Consider breaking up with the boyfriend unless he gets help.
2007-07-17 22:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by chicago3200000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two things you can do. First get him to admit he has a problem and get him to get some help or you can take your name off the account and get your own account. You need to let him fall himself and you cannot let him take you down.
2007-07-17 22:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋