Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 months and i like him sooo much. I dont know what to do..he knows i was drunk but doesnt know i kissed another guy. I remember doing it but i also remember telling him i had a boyfriend and to stop. Alot of people already know (people that talk to my bf) what i did and im afraid he will find out from someone else..would it be better if i told him or just wait and see if he finds out?

2007-07-17 16:41:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am actually thinking about marriage once again (this will be number 4). The woman I've been dating is a lot of fun and she seems to like me for who I am. problems began when I invited her to my trailer last Saturday for pizza and beer. It seems like all she did was talk about how nasty my house was. There are lots of empty beer cans and pizza boxes everywhere. I also use an empty beer keg for a TV stand that she mentioned and also my kitchen floor is dark brown but only because I haven't mopped it in two years. She also pointed out the trail of Roach proof powder along the walls and the piles of filthy clothes in the bedroom. Thank goodness she didn't spot the racoon blood splattered on the back wall (see my 360 blog for that story). I guess she really snapped when she discovered the dirty dishes in the dishwasher -- it broke down over a year ago and I never took them out. Is she being unreasonable or am I really a slob? Should that stand in our way of true love?

2007-07-17 16:39:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Any suggestions?

2007-07-17 16:37:59 · 26 answers · asked by Peace/Love/Money 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-17 16:37:23 · 11 answers · asked by patel i 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1. when you see at an attractive guy walk into the room? or walks by you? do you want him to talk to you? do u get mad if he doesn't?

2. when a guy is talking with you and is asking about your hobbies?

3. when a guy is checking you out in public?

4. when a guy is talking to you and glances at your breasts/butt every now and then?

5. when a guy approaches you with a pick up line?

6. when an ugly guy approaches you? do u give him a chance?

7. when a guy in a car tries to hit on you as you walk?

8. how do yo show you want a guy to kiss you on a date?

9. do you play with a guy when you like him examples: throw paper balls at him.

10. what does it mean when a girl shows a guy a magazine many times to see if he finds them attractive?

11. what does it mean when you say you think a chick is hot and she is looking and asking you to point out who it is?

2007-07-17 16:36:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my frind say he is but i need to know what it is and is he? cuz he says that he doesnt know what break means! so yea please tell me thanx!

2007-07-17 16:36:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I have been married for 4 years and together for 6. Three months ago, he moved out and said that he didn't want to be married anymore. I rarely talk with him now, because I will not call him. He acts as though he has just completely closed me out of his life, but I just cannot seem to do the same. I love him deeply, but I don't know if I should continue to leave him alone or try to communicate with him. When I do talk with him, I wind up crying and whining. So many people have said "look for him to be seeing someone else." I have and I don't see anything. I still have a lot of resources and friends that stumble on things and not one has let ANYTHING slip. I am really trying to be positive, but three months is a little long when we seem to be getting more distant with communication coming to just about nothing. Therapy wasn't for him; he quit. I still go to therapy, but I am to a point that I don't think cognitive help is really helping me. Any suggestions?

2007-07-17 16:34:54 · 11 answers · asked by cathy c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My huband thinks because I have male frens, and If i flirted with them it's emotional infedility. He doesn't want me to have no male fren, last male fren I had he disapprove of, he went as far as to put a software on the computer to see when i speak to him, he reads my emails, check phone numbers i call and the list is long. Personally I beleive if i don't have a sexually realtionship with anyone then there no harm in having frens, once their is a understanding, however had told him about one of my male frens,after he hatched in email, i must sat i hav flired with one and that all it was he even knows that, as he read the email we exchanged so he knows i haven't cross the line. Anyway Im not allowed to have male frens, he doesn't trust me, we have the same dicuss everyday why, i talked to other guys and kept it from him, even thou he knew of one of the guy.. Im very young, my first marriage my husband has been married 2 before, i re-assure him everyday i won't leave him and i love hi

2007-07-17 16:34:41 · 5 answers · asked by babe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 16:29:59 · 1 answers · asked by jennifer * 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I told my intern that I thought my teacher was a b*tch, and that I hated the teacher and all. I don't know if the intern told her, but I'm sure he did since he tells her everything. I also skipped the class for that day. I walked out while the teacher was outta the classroom. She didn't write me up though, even though she told the class that she was. Why didn't she react? She didn't talk to me for a day after that, but started right back to talking to me like she used to.

2007-07-17 16:29:35 · 1 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-17 16:27:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and myself have been invited to my co-workers wedding in Sept. I have known her for about 4yrs and do not socialize with her outside of work. She is about 20yrs younger than us. I am really flattered by her invite and plan to go to the wedding.
Gosh, I haven't been to a wedding in about 15+yrs. What is the going rate for a cash gift? They already have a house, and all furniture. So, I figured cash would be best.

2007-07-17 16:26:35 · 17 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7 in Weddings

Hey,

I'm at work on my lap top, Iv'e only got about ten minutes before I got to get to my next plane but, no I don't have that pic., I might but it's packed away somewhere. Anyways, all this talk about me and you..... hmmmm.. I can't really say what I think about it, you drive me nuts, It's like I want you so bad but I can't, I MEAN REALLY BAD
. Since we've been talking about sex lately it brings back alot of memorys and ****.But I cant act on those emotions, Im sorry if Ive been a jerk, but im trying do keep my distance. But everyday I think to myself, will she call, in hopes you do. But then when you acctually do, I cant think of things to say..... Then Im busy counting Inventory, or I get a rush, and I hope I dont let you down. Lara your a great woman, and a better lover LOL. But I just cant think of things to do wit u, plus my wife has me on a leash, and then ball and chains. If I didnt have Jr. it would way diffrent, Id proably cheat on her in a second, but everytime I think of it, Jr. pops up in my mind, and im like "I can't do that to him". You'll understand more when yours is born. Your life change SSSSSSSSSOOOOOO much. Anyways, I hope I kinda cleared things up for ya. But maybe I made thing worse. I still would love to come over and cuddle, and stuff but man I only wish. Sex wit you was great, but now it sounds like it would be a hundred time better. BUT........

Anyways, I hope things go ok for ya tomorrow. Let me know if you have her. Oh and bty I know preg. women get REALLY horny in the last few day/weeks LOL.

Love Ya Always

2007-07-17 16:25:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do!! My hubby is the best!!

2007-07-17 16:21:55 · 25 answers · asked by Amy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Like her phone number cell number home address or email address!!!!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-17 16:21:40 · 7 answers · asked by ilovediadem 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i jumped on him twice within 2 weeks,this is the love of my life for three yrs,when i hit him i heard his jaw bone and now he still has a knot in that place.he was crying real crococdile tears in public on his knees after i had hit him begging me not to dump him and that he is going to pay the money back.i want to shoot him but not kill him becuz i want him to live with the hurt that i feel .i planned on marrying this man but i don't think so.anybody elses went thru this?

2007-07-17 16:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by gina 2 in Singles & Dating

do you think that is wrong for your gf to hang out with guys by herself with out you around just as friends nothing more but you know that your gf is kind of touchy with guys and is known to flirt with pretty much all the guys she talks to and she is kind of hot like say an 8 out of 10 some guys say a 9 what do you think

2007-07-17 16:20:39 · 7 answers · asked by SHELL 2 in Singles & Dating

Agree or disagree ? and plezz explain why it is.

2007-07-17 16:16:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Agree or disagree ? and plezz explain why it is.

2007-07-17 16:15:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do to extricate yourself without losing face?

2007-07-17 16:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by annabelle p 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Please make your instructions as simple as possible...(be gentle to this "dinosaur".

2007-07-17 16:09:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This happened to me..she lives in my building and always looks at me and smiles..and once we were alone in the elevator and she started talking...PS..im 17

2007-07-17 16:09:00 · 8 answers · asked by popr7 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for almost a year. we broke up because I felt I couldnt trust him. its been about 2 years since our break up but now he drives by my house almost every day, instant messaged me calling me names and being mean. And even asked my best friend where i was one day so he could name call me to my face..... im getting really sick of this, can i report this to the police? is it conciterd harassment? He now has another girlfreind and a couple month old baby. yet he wount leave me alone. HELP PLEASE

2007-07-17 16:05:30 · 27 answers · asked by ♫Country Girl♪ 3 in Singles & Dating

what is the perfect edge for marriage??????????

2007-07-17 16:05:28 · 16 answers · asked by pritam p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 16:04:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 15:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by wonger200 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...my BFF and I talk all of the time about her situtation. I tried to see it from all sides, but, now I know their mom is manipulating them. I have visited (a lot) and this past weekend when they were over to our place for a BBQ, they seemed to be happy, played with our kids, and with their dad, but, they were distant from my BFF. She is a sweetheart and has never said anything bad about their mom. Yesterday, my BFF called to say that the mom called and spoke to all of the kids, they all went into another room, and when they hung up, they kept quiet and started acting strange. Does anyone have any suggestions for me to help? I love them all, but, I am running out of ideas and I am starting to want to avoid them all...

2007-07-17 15:55:38 · 5 answers · asked by LaraLara 4 in Family

We are a family of five and I care for my Grandma most of the time so really (6) in a four bedroom home.My husbands Step cousin and wife want to move in with us because they are having financial difficulties,(but who isn't) he has got his three children for the summer and other than that every other weekened.I feel like this is not going to work out very well and I do not know what to do or say.He already lives like 5 hours from here.He also is always calling wanting money and we do not give it to him.My husband wants to help because he said well he is family and we are close,but he is his step dads nephew.My husband told him that he really did not think it was a good idea and he said well we will sleep on the floor.He rents the house he lives in now and has nothing but one car and he is a heavy equipment operator and has to pay $600 a month in child support.And I do not know what else to say to my husband with out being really ugly about this entire situation.What should I do???????

2007-07-17 15:55:34 · 6 answers · asked by tosha38401 3 in Family

Why our private parts will have to be hidden?And why those are to be called as "PRIVATE"?? Is it that for those are for giving birth to new men and women...is it not a quite riddiculous and lame logic cause?,we all know what we have in our body ,the male organ the female organ and how those look,so why do we need to hide those,is it for those will be seen by all other and they juzz any indovidual by those organ and they will like or love or marry for it's size and appearance,if so then it's a complete hypocracy..Models,actors/actresses and pornography artists show those organs in front of the camera and let others view those only for money and for nothing,but not in elsewhere..so it's also another form of hypocracy because they hide those organs and then expose and let other peoples see thoseso that they can earn money,so it's also a commercial-hypocracy and one kind of "cheating" in the form of "acting",doctors can see those,touch those,cut and repair those,so why not we all?
why?

2007-07-17 15:54:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been in a relationship for about 3 years and he has hit me called me stupied and made me fill like a complete trash.
i want to die i love him but i can't seem to move on how do i do it help me please

2007-07-17 15:53:30 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce