i jumped on him twice within 2 weeks,this is the love of my life for three yrs,when i hit him i heard his jaw bone and now he still has a knot in that place.he was crying real crococdile tears in public on his knees after i had hit him begging me not to dump him and that he is going to pay the money back.i want to shoot him but not kill him becuz i want him to live with the hurt that i feel .i planned on marrying this man but i don't think so.anybody elses went thru this?
2007-07-17 16:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by gina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sensing some serious anger here. I think the issue is the betrayal, not the money. Money is just money, but the stealing bit is a no go. How much money are you talking about? I wouldn't quite say that he deserves to be shot or hurt, but its time for you to say goodbye and get rid of him.
2007-07-17 16:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first things first. You started with " my crackhead boyfriend. Then secondly it was " took some money from me".
Also you seem to have allot of anger and distrust now. You feel betrayed by him it seems. And apparently he has really hurt you bad ( and I am going to assume this is not the first time ) however shooting him is not an option no matter what the degree of damage may be to him.
Now, think about just this much of your question. Does it really matter if anyone else has been thru this kind of situation. You have. Is this really what you want for the rest of your life. Come on. If he is a crackhead your already at a loss. If he is stealing from you now, what will it be like later. It will not change...just get worse. And what if he gets violent later because he can not get what he needs for his addiction.
Again, is this really how you want to live or is this really what you want to deal with for the rest of your life. Get a grip on the reality of your future. Pleasssseeeeeeee, before its to late for you.
Also, sounds like your boyfriend needs allot of help. NOW. Before its to late for him in life too. Be a great friend. Do not hurt him, get him help and move move move on with your life before you either get hurt, murdered or run into the gutter with him.
Maybe I should have asked first, is he really a crackhead or is this just a phrase of words. And I understand your anger but please do not allow your anger to contoll you by reaching out and touching someone ( meaning you hitting him ). This will only get you into trouble sometime, or could result in getting yourself hit back. Seems you must have a pretty powerful punch going there. Anyway, hitting should not be an option unless in self defense. If he makes you that angry, just another reason to get away from him now.
Now that this has all been said....No, I have never been through this myself. Never had a crackhead boyfriend, but the stealing would have been enough for me anyway.
2007-07-17 17:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by shy_tender_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not many would want to endour that much drama. What is the attraction you have to stay.There are so many nice people out here.Unless your 2 pea in a pod.Life short enjoy it.
2007-07-17 16:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John 3:16
16For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
2007-07-17 16:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the theft of your money a parting gift and show him the road.
2007-07-17 16:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello its time to wake up didnt you know that crack heads kill for money, its time for you to drop the crack head like a rock and go with someone else that is not on crack or any drug.
2007-07-17 16:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by snowman3971 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never went thru that exact situation... never had a crackhead bf...
my ex did lie to me and use me and i'm pretty sure he cheated on me so i'd love to knock him down on his dumb a**...
trust me... this guy ain't worth it... dump him and never look back!
2007-07-17 16:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Proud mommy of Logan! <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
exactly HOW MUCH did he take? If it was over like 200 dollars...then....just use ur imagination...
2007-07-17 16:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Uchiha Sakura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rewrite this in english and i will try to give you an answer
2007-07-17 16:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by stonesfan_17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what can i say HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH U GOT OWNED BY UR BF BIG TIME BADLY LMFAO SHOOT HIS ***** *** AIGHT LOLZ
2007-07-17 16:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋