My husband and myself have been invited to my co-workers wedding in Sept. I have known her for about 4yrs and do not socialize with her outside of work. She is about 20yrs younger than us. I am really flattered by her invite and plan to go to the wedding.
Gosh, I haven't been to a wedding in about 15+yrs. What is the going rate for a cash gift? They already have a house, and all furniture. So, I figured cash would be best.
2007-07-17 16:26:35 · 17 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think $50 is standard, $100 generous. Im curious what others think.
2007-07-17 16:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it just me... there is nothing wrong w/cash, but what about the registry? If they are registered, purchase something affordable off of it. Otherwise, you can always get them a gift certificate for the store where they are registered.
I would never purchase a gift NOT on a registry unless I was *very* close to the couple & certain that I would be able to match their tastes in home furnishings.
Another option ~ when my brother got married, he & his wife had also been living together for some time. They were both stressed out from work, school, WEDDING plans =) So rather than buy them a "traditional" gift, I bought them a ton of gift certificates to local movie theaters, restaraunts, video rental stores, coffee shops ~ I basically bought them a bunch of dates. That way, they could hang out & enjoy each others company ~ what is a better present than that?
Regarding the gift anywhere between $50 -$100 is appropriate, depending on how close you are to the bride. Although you don't socialize w/her outside of work, you stated you have known each other for 4yrs & she obviously cares about you if she felt you were worth inviting.
Have fun at the wedding =)
2007-07-18 08:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by vanilmil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree completely with Marianne T. Some people say that gift cards are a bad idea but I love to receive and give them. There are always house projects to be done and stuff to buy for a house so a home improvement store is a great idea. Maybe a gift card to a restaurant? If you know what they like?
Here in WI, $50 is also a good amount. Maybe us midwesterners are cheap? :) I think you should give whatever amount you feel you can/want. Have fun!
2007-07-17 23:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by gring7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the going rate is in other parts of the country but in Missouri, $50 is nice. I sometimes write a check and other times go buy a gift card at Lowe's or Target. Then place it in a card. It's fun to see a young couple begin married life, isn't it?
2007-07-17 23:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say cover your plate but that's stupid. You shouldn't give more than you can afford based on what the bride may have paid for your dinner. If she couldn't afford the party she shouldn't have thrown one that extravagant.
I think 10% of your weekly income is a good starting point. You can raise or lower that based on how tight money is and how close you are to the couple.
Cash would definately be the best gift for this situation I think. Cash is always handy to have around.
2007-07-17 23:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure you want to give cash? Sometimes something beautiful like a crystal bowl or a nice clock makes a great gift even for those who have everything. If you want to give cash $50 is MORE than enough. I would give it in the form of a gift card. Then they can go and get whatever household item they may need.
2007-07-17 23:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ilene W 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it depends on where you are and how close you are to the couple. $50 is a good amount in the midwest, they aren't cheap they just make less there than on the coasts. Probably $100 is closer to average on the coasts, but don't give more than you can afford. You could check and see if they registered anywhere. Try theknot.com.
2007-07-18 01:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone who you work with, and don't socialize with outside of that environment, I'd say $50 is a respectable gift. Anything more than that, and you would definitely get brownie points for your generosity! Or, if they are registered anywhere, that's always a good idea too.
2007-07-18 00:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by theMrs. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got married on July 7th 2007 and alot of our gifts were gift cards for $50.00 and up and cash and the cash started off at $50.00 and up.
Do you know if she is registered anywheres?
Enjoy your self at the wedding!
2007-07-18 08:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it just depends on what you feel like donating to the happy couple. I know for my wedding the most money we received was $150. The least was $50. We were grateful for what we got regardless. I'm sure they will be too.
2007-07-18 00:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by skyicedragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you can afford to give. I guess if you are reasonably close then I would lokk at about $50 each, so $100 total.. But if you are nbot so close day $40 or $30 each. But this all depends on what you can afford. Just have a good time!!
2007-07-17 23:32:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋