so my boyfriend all he dose is fishing with his friends.........he never has enough time for me... once ever other day he comes over for about a hour... all he dose is fish with his friends... it seems like he dosent have enough time. im preg. and he says he wants to be there for her and me but how can i count on him when all he dose is fish with his damn friends.
2007-07-17 15:44:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
talk to him about it. tell him that you dont like it. you do have a say in your relationship since your preg. with his baby. he should be spending most of his time working if anything else to help support you and the baby.
if you REALLY have a strong feeling hes lying to you..then feel free to invade his privacy. if you have his passwords to like myspace of email or w.e he uses to talk to other people..his phone whatever. get a hold of it and do some searching. he wont see it coming and you can catch him in the act. and if he tries to bullsh i t you and you know hes lying..dont be stupid and fall for it.
but if you dont think hes lying about what hes doing and you just
want some more attention from him. then tell him if hes getting bored of you..then you guys should probably go on a break. & if he loves you..he will tell you no that he doesnt want a break and most likely apologize and if he tells you he will spend more time with you then hopefully he will.
if he doesnt start spending more time with you..then if one of his friends that he goes fishing with has a girlfriend then call her up and ask her if she wants to come with you to tag along on their little fishing time and maybe you guys can see whats really going on..or that way you will be the one spending time with him.
but if he just keeps being an ******** and ignoring you & not paying attention to you..or trying to be all mean to you to seem cool around his friends then break up with his sorry ***.
if hes not going to pay attentino to you while your preg. then what kind of father will he be?
hopefully hes a good guy tho and everything works out :]
2007-07-17 16:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him..tell him how u feel..i have the same problem.. i useto just cry and be miserable.but i found out was just a waist of time..so i told him how i felt and sad if things werent gonna change then this relationship wasnt gonna work .he thought about for a long time but at the end he relized that there nothing more important then the baby and me,
2007-07-17 22:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind him that it takes 2 to make a baby. Tell him that you need to talk to him and him only. Make a date out of it. Remind him that he is having to grow up and deal with the real things in life. Fishing is a relaxing time but he needs to come back to real life.
2007-07-18 00:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by lz_adam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might be staying with him because of the baby but then I if he doesn't change it's better if you do not include him in your life to make things simplier. He is childish and I'm not sure how old is he but don't he have to work too??
2007-07-17 22:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Stanley the Westie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have boyfriend troubles, honey, you have life problems. This jerk is going to be with you less as time goes on and not more. In fishing terms, cut bait and RUN!!
2007-07-17 22:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by deemons 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can you call him your boyfriend if all he is doing is fishing with his friends-he says he wants to be there for you but isnt! You can't count on him.
2007-07-17 22:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by my 2 cents 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how u feel...ask him to spend more time with u and try going fishing with him..but just u two!! It will be really cute and romantic!! :)
2007-07-17 22:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by rusi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want him to talk to you, take you out...nothing big, mini golf, walk through a park. You want him to sweep you off your feet....
First, decide if he is the guy, read Captivating by Staci Elderidge, third see what you want in a guy and wait for it.
2007-07-17 22:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you have a REAL problem. Go get a life and leave him alone. If you had REAL problems you wouldnt know what to do
2007-07-17 22:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by Big D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and if he doesn't listen leave him you and your daughter are better off without him if he's not here for you now how do you think it will be once the baby is born
2007-07-17 22:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by kacie18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋