ok i dont need rude answers! so if your gonna say something mean dont bother answering ok!
so ive been cheating on my bf and the guy im seeing is cheating on his gf.
we havent had sex yet but have done everything else. what im asking is why he wont kiss me. he says he cant and he never will be able to. im not looking to be in a relationship with him but i do like him and i really want to kiss him. he kissed me on the cheek and thats it. is it he doesnt want to get emotionally involved or he just doesnt like kissing? im just confused cuz i mean this was all his idea and i know i agreed but i want to feel like were in this together were just fuc*ing around and thats it so whats the big deal he knows we cant be together ever! so is he afraid of getting attatched to me? or whats his deal?!? im 24 hes 25 (and no my breath doesnt stink for all of you that want to comment on that!)
2007-07-17 22:31:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i said NO mean answers but for all you that must know ive been with my bf for 7 years since i was 17 and its going NOWHERE im bored he treats me like SH*T! ive never cheated before and personally it feels good to know that someone could actually care about me just a little bit!
2007-07-17 22:39:55 · update #1
you know, when someone goes out with someone or has a relationship, they start to build up trust. When you cheat, all that trust turns into garbage. You have to work your way back up again..if that cant help, he doesnt want to be invovled with you no more. I know this happened plenty of times that I known. When you start to cheat, and he finds out, usually men start to feel lonely and betrayed. I am not saying that its over between you too, its just that it might not work out :(. Gl on it though
2007-07-17 22:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by The Adventures of YBP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to break up with your current boyfriend, and he needs to break up with his girlfriend....why are you in a relationship to begin with? I am all for young people going around and experiencing life, but what do you think the definition of a relationship is? I mean cheating on someone is the lowest thing you can do (try using morals, they are a good compass) to someone else. What good are you if the people closest to you can't trust you? Pick 1 guy to be with and stick with him, or pick a different guy every night and don't tie them down with a relationship. If you are both on the same page it is OK, but seriously stop and think. Would you be OK with it if he was banging other girls, or even making out with them? So if you really want to know why he's not kissing you then you ought to think of it like prostitutes do: kissing is too passionate to just do with anyone, it is one of the only true shared moments in that way.
2007-07-17 22:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by The Ball Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To many, kissing is intimate... sounds like he's trying to compartmentalize his relationships..and maybe sooth his conscious by not sharing this small part with you..Not to be mean...But you are a)in the f-buddy dept, b)probably still kissing the poor bastard that you call your boyfriend.. after "doing everything else" with your fellow cheater, c)exposing your boyfriend to possible health problems.. all the while he's trusting you. and d) if your b/friend has any self esteem at all.. he'll dump you when he finds out. A point to ponder... It is said that most men don't kiss prostitutes.. Do the math.... end of sermon...
Re: Additional Details... Then get out of both relationships and find someone that respects you...and be respectable. If you don't respect yourself...Who will???
2007-07-17 22:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy Over There 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotions are some of the most complicated phenomena in the world.
Just because you've both been cheating does not mean you both would have to feel the same about it.
And if you are really into leaving the guy, what's the point in getting a love kiss from him?
2007-07-17 22:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Nader Ali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some people, kissing is a million times more intimate than anything else you can do.
It sounds like he genuinely cares for his girlfriend, and would feel worse if he kissed you or anyone else.
So, he's never going to be anything to you or you to him, so he won't kiss you.
Please quit cheating, or dump your guy and move on. It's wrong.
2007-07-17 22:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, he feels guilty about cheating on his girlfriend. Him kissing you would make him feel worse because he does love his girlfriend, regardless of his cheating. Some men (this one in this case) don't see kissing as anything sexual, it is purely emotional. Something he would only do with someone he feels emotionally close to. You obviously aren't that person.
I don't know why some girls/guy's mess around with people who are with somebody. Or even mess around when they are with somebody. Kind of stupid.
2007-07-17 22:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's having a change of heart & not sure how to really deal with cheating. Maybe he wanted it in the beginning but is unsure @ this point...He seems unsure to me..If he was an all out cheat, he would have tried to sleep with you by now.
2007-07-17 22:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, it is termed cheating regrettably. in case you boyfriend ever found out he would be completely annoyed and would probably unload you. make certain it doesnt take place returned, you may experience sorry approximately it. in basic terms tell the guy who kissed you which you have a boyfriend. wish it facilitates(:
2016-11-09 19:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is very involved for some people. Its like a real commitment kinda thing. so if your just screwing around go with that and be happy in where your going.
2007-07-17 22:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by curious6710 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should first choose which guy you want to spend your time with and have a serious relationship with. then deal with the problem of him not kissing you
2007-07-17 22:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by prez_1940s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋