Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

2007-07-17 19:23:03 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

What do you do when love, isn't enough? You give and give and give, and seem to get nothing in return. I'm not talking money, but a little appreciation. I feel as if, I'm alone in this. Would somebody help.

2007-07-17 19:18:12 · 22 answers · asked by whatnext 3 in Singles & Dating

She gained 20 pounds? Would you think she was still attractive and also love her just the same?

2007-07-17 19:14:49 · 37 answers · asked by giveu2tictacs 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife has been lieying to me many times.every time i told her about it she just get ungry and say its not big deal ,now we are going to get divorce, and she is the one who wanted it,and iagree with her .i have to save somme money so i stayed with her all this last 6 months so i can still work and get ready to live, i will be living the next month. what happened is that i did not want my wife to talk about what is going on in our relation to her friends because i thing that may make thing more wors.i told my wife that i want to be her freind after we broke up,and i will treet her nicely as i did befor to the last day that i have to be with her.but i find out lately that she told her friends .i really can tell from the way they treet me now.all the signs show's that they knew,so i talk to my wife about it but she said she did not tell theme.i have prouve that show that she told theme but ican;t show it to her.i lold here to stop this game but she stuck in her mind.what can i do ?

2007-07-17 19:11:10 · 7 answers · asked by dearlingo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is 18 i think. and he is a white , skinny male . he is a tumbler. and he has great hair and a nice tan. not a skater .

2007-07-17 19:11:08 · 4 answers · asked by laticia w 1 in Friends

and should i lose the bet

2007-07-17 19:07:17 · 1 answers · asked by Juan S 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a nice guy and we hung out,it was ok ,he was sweet . After about 4 months of dating he came out and told me that he loved me and that he had something to tell me. He told me that he was burned for life!! I said what does that mean? He responed I have herpes!! Whoa Whoa, (and no we had not had sex )He then asked me when was I going to let him make love to me. He also told me that he gave herpes to his childs mother and she didnt seem to mind!!!! WHAT!! I dont think that I responded the way he wanted me to so, he told me that I should feel lucky that he told me he had it cause he didnt have to. I quickly thought of a reason to get off the phone, it was a bit much to swallow. Am I wrong?????????? Did he come to me wrong?????

2007-07-17 19:03:17 · 16 answers · asked by tamara y 2 in Singles & Dating

I love the 40 years old guy but we dont see each other well, he is too busy..... while the 28 years old used to call me and wants to us to talk always....and Im 32 for more info..

2007-07-17 19:02:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

just wondering

2007-07-17 19:01:07 · 7 answers · asked by Dat Chicka 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just curious. I know a few people who married someone who was, in my opinion wrong for them (i.e. the person wouldn't get a job, alienated the other person from their own family, gave the person STDs, cheated, etc.)

2007-07-17 18:59:46 · 10 answers · asked by KatyScarlett 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with my bf spendin a night ova his house. We were in the bed and we werent sleep so I started playin wit him. (laying on him, kisses him) he said he was tryin to go to sleep and for me to stop. but he didn't sound to serious. So I kept playing. He started saying that if I didn't stop he was going to piss me off. I still didnt so he started bringin up his ex (which usually pisses me off) but instead I kept playin and talked about her to. He then said this "I will hurt you to make you stop" I stilll kept playin tellin him that nothin he could do would piss me off. So he got up and held me down and stuck his finger deep into collarbone. It hurt really bad so I hit him back a couple times. He got really mad and told me to leave. I said fine and gathered my belongings after telling him how bad that hurt and that he shouldn't have put his hands on me like that. He then told me not 2 call him anymore how can he breakup wit me so easily weve been together 10months

2007-07-17 18:57:39 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Confidential
La la la la la, la lalala laaaaa
I need to go home now there’s nothing left for me here
I don’t wan to shed a tear
I just want you to know im not coming back
Im not coming back!
I need to be alone now babay I need you to let go and understand…
Where’s my happy ending? It’s not fair! It’s not fair!
I;m not going to say good bye and that I’ll miss you!
Cause I wont and I know you wont too!
It’s called karma and it’ll come back to you real soooon.
I will will not cry..NO I will not cry
I wont lie!
La la la la la,
Im too fragile baby I cant I cant go another mile
Babay!

(chorous)

I need to go away now there’s nothing for me here
And I won’t shed a tear
I need to be alone now baby and I need you to let go and cooperate!
Where’s my happy ending? Oooh oh It’s not fair! NO It’s not fair! Yell ( it’s NOT FAIR) no it’s not.
I’m not gonna to say good bye and that I’ll miss you!

Cause I wont and I know you won’t too!
Im gonna die
La la la la la,
This disease is taking me over
Im too fragile and cant I cant go another mile
Babay!

I cant do this ……….I cant be strong no more!
Im too fragile ….. I cant go another mile!
La la la la laa

2007-07-17 18:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you get teenage (15-17) guys for holidays like Christmas or Valentines day or birthdays and all that jazz, cuz i usually come up with sumthin good but hints would help... guys u got it easy, flowers/chocolate/jewlery always work, but it isn't all that great, to me anyways, it's good for like a first time and everyonce in a while, but not much thought put into it, just $... but anyways i'd like sum clues to make this a little easier, anything in specific they always like? i usually end up finding sum sort of "inside-joke" humerous gift to go with but i dnt wanna b like that all the time, what's sumthin serious?

2007-07-17 18:51:35 · 6 answers · asked by carmen 2 in Singles & Dating

I am talkin bout a close friend that died in a house fire6 mnths ago, my brother(who nearly died in da fire) and Burk were best mates, Burk was my brother from another mother, I still hurt every day and hold back tears.2 of my friends that knew him have seen him or felt him(spirit,soul,wateva) &I beleive that, but Im so sad that I havnt,I know he would b near me but I never c or feel these things,I neva said goodbye and really miss him

2007-07-17 18:48:55 · 3 answers · asked by MadeinOz 1 in Friends

you know how sometimes you feel like u want some but you dont want to tell him straight out. i just want ideas of how to get him in the mood.

2007-07-17 18:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by * Chika Mommy * 1 in Singles & Dating

ALONE

You told me to never cry

That big girls don’t cry

To never look back.( background Chin up).

To always stay strong

To never let anyone or anything above you

Ooooo wowooooww

But I failed all those missions

And you were by protector, my believer,

(Scream MY EVERYTHING)

You let me down

You made me cry

You lied……to me!

I guess I’m not a big girl.

When the world twirls

You always had another one of your ideas

That would kill me inside

But I had to stay strong because……

OOOOOWWwwooww

Because I could not cry

I would always lie

I would always pre-teynd

That everything will not go wrong

That one day (background- hopefully tomorrow)

That the world would twirl

And bring you right back to me.

OOOWOWOWOWW

I can not cry or else I would die iy Iy iy

We must carry on.

Alone.

You told me I had to stay strong.

You told me to never cry

That big girls don’t cry

To always stay strong

To never let anyone or anything above you

Ooooo wowooooww

But I failed all those missions

And you were by protector, my believer

You let me down

You made me cry

You lied……to me!

I guess I’m not a big girl.

When the world twirls

You always had another of your ideas

That would kill me inside

But I had to stay strong because……

OOOOOWWwwooww

Because I could not cry

I would always lie

I would always pre-teynd

That everything will not go wrong

That one day (background- hopefully tomorrow)

That the world would twirl

And bring you right back to me.

OOOWOWOWOWW

I can not cry or else I would die iy Iy iy

We must carry on.

Alone.

2007-07-17 18:45:13 · 12 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

ok..i have a guy friend how i talk to almost everyday. I also have a boyfriend who is my guy freinds best friend. Well one day.. he said " Well were good friends and all. Can u send me a pic of ur boobs, ***, or down under." i kept sayig no no no .. and he convinced me. He downloaded the picture to his phone. He delted though. But now i dont no what to tell my boyfriend. i Feel so bad. i have been crying4 over an 1 and cant figure out what to do. my best friend told me to change cause she has noticed my slut change.. which i hate.. so i am..still.. i need to find away to tell my boyfriend.. PLEASE HELP ME

2007-07-17 18:44:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

confidential by me....

Confidential
La la la la la, la lalala laaaaa
I need to go home now there’s nothing left for me here
I don’t wan to shed a tear
I just want you to know im not coming back
Im not coming back!
I need to be alone now babay I need you to let go and understand…
Where’s my happy ending? It’s not fair! It’s not fair!
I;m not going to say good bye and that I’ll miss you!
Cause I wont and I know you wont too!
It’s called karma and it’ll come back to you real soooon.
I will will not cry..NO I will not cry
I wont lie!
La la la la la,
Im too fragile baby I cant I cant go another mile
Babay!

(chorous)

I need to go away now there’s nothing for me here
And I won’t shed a tear
I need to be alone now baby and I need you to let go and cooperate!
Where’s my happy ending? Oooh oh It’s not fair! NO It’s not fair! Yell ( it’s NOT FAIR) no it’s not.
I’m not gonna to say good bye and that I’ll miss you!

Cause I wont and I know you won’t too!
Im gonna die
La la la la la,
This disease is taking me over
Im too fragile and cant I cant go another mile
Babay!

I cant do this ……….I cant be strong no more!
Im too fragile ….. I cant go another mile!
La la la la laa

2007-07-17 18:43:33 · 6 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

i might be goin to a far away place and i won't be able to talk to the girl i like a lot and my moms says no talking on ur cell phone and that really sucks what if something elsa happens i don't want to lose another girls because i can't take it if a girl goes out wit some one elsa and i might just start CUTTING again i mean shes the reason i stopped!! WAT SHOULD I DO PLZ ANSWER!?!?!

2007-07-17 18:43:19 · 10 answers · asked by hollebackguy 2 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering if there is anyone who is going through collaboration as a means of settling your divorce? I chose that route and it has been nothing but a joke and a COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY, I should have took my husband straight to court, cut the bs of collaboration. By the way, lawyers are pieces of dog sh*t!!! They are lazy people who make waaaaaayyyy to much money for what they do!!! Or should I say, what they DON'T do!!!

2007-07-17 18:42:57 · 4 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am non Indian, and we have been together for a long time, and really love each other. It's breaking my soul knowing that he will get married to this woman, for family wishes. My question is, when he comes back, what are my chances of still being his girlfriend? Just the thought of him having relations with him is just too much, and he knows it. How the heck is he supposed to love me, yet make out , that he loves his new wife? Any insight is welcome, just dont please tell me that he is using me, cause that just isn't the case. We have a deep friendship and beautiful sex. Sra, but please write back in english, thanks.

2007-07-17 18:40:13 · 26 answers · asked by jen 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not talking about deep kissing.

2007-07-17 18:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anon2 2 in Singles & Dating

For those who have read my earlier questions, I just wonder if I am doing the right thing now. Firstly, I think he has emotionally cheated me once and now is contacting another lady thru mails. Some ask how can I accept my husband doing. But my question is, did he really did something wrong. He had told me he is trying to get overseas contact to help explore some business opportunity. I wanted to trust him but like you guys say, if there is nothing between them, why don't he tell her he is married. He did told me once when he first when to meet this lady but the 2nd and 3rd was without my knowledge, I guess he doesn't wants me to make another fuss after I expose his encounter with the 1st lady. Am I trying to find excuses for what he did. Sometimes, I felt very stupid. Why should I tolerate all this. But then again, I'm happy with the way we are now by pretending not to know anything. Am I right or just stupid. I don't want 2 divorce becos I've kids but I'm financially independ.

2007-07-17 18:39:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he is a man who I can't make happy, he sees through me not at me, I bought a nice sexy outfit today and put it on in the store befoe I left, when I got home, he said "oh you changed" later when I asked him what I was wearing, he couldn't answer me. I seems like he is working on getting himself healthier to attract younger woman, not for himself or for me. I don't know my feelings anymore, but I do know that when I am without him, I feel great, then when I get home I feel the house is full of negativity that makes want to run away. Sometimes he doesn't have to do anything to bring on the negative vibes I get. I have been with him 11 years and we have a daughter together, what to do

Confused

2007-07-17 18:38:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 and have been going out with boyfriend for 6 months now. his and my parents are really protective... we're not planning on having sex or anything but i'd like to be alone with him and snuggle and stuff. we're never able to get alone... does anyone have any ideas? movie theathres are awkward cause of other people...

2007-07-17 18:37:32 · 8 answers · asked by Babs 2 in Singles & Dating

So this guy I've liked from school since the end of March has known I've liked him for awhile now... and he said he liked me...

But he hasn't done anything more than saying, "you know awhile back when i was telling those two girls i liked? you were one of them."

I mean... if a guy REALLY likes you, wouldn't they put in a little more effot? Like maybe ask to hang out sometime or SOMETHING?

Well, then on myspace,
he randomly replied to this random bulletin i posted,
& said, "i want you."

& i was like, "honestly, it's not funny anymore."
& he was like, "am i laughing?"
& i said, "i don't know if you are or not. all i know is it's hard to know when you're being serious, & you're messing around with me."
& he was like, "i'll say haha or lol if i'm joking. but you can't take me seriously, so forget it."

BUT HONESTLY...
who in the WORLD would take ANYONE saying out of the blue "i want you." seriously??

I just found it to be something said as a joke.

Am i wrong?

2007-07-17 18:36:09 · 2 answers · asked by Dia 2 in Singles & Dating

confidential by me....

Confidential
La la la la la, la lalala laaaaa
I need to go home now there’s nothing left for me here
I don’t wan to shed a tear
I just want you to know im not coming back
Im not coming back!
I need to be alone now babay I need you to let go and understand…
Where’s my happy ending? It’s not fair! It’s not fair!
I;m not going to say good bye and that I’ll miss you!
Cause I wont and I know you wont too!
It’s called karma and it’ll come back to you real soooon.
I will will not cry..NO I will not cry
I wont lie!
La la la la la,
Im too fragile baby I cant I cant go another mile
Babay!

(chorous)

I need to go away now there’s nothing for me here
And I won’t shed a tear
I need to be alone now baby and I need you to let go and cooperate!
Where’s my happy ending? Oooh oh It’s not fair! NO It’s not fair! Yell ( it’s NOT FAIR) no it’s not.
I’m not gonna to say good bye and that I’ll miss you!

Cause I wont and I know you won’t too!
Im gonna die
La la la la la,
This disease is taking me over
Im too fragile and cant I cant go another mile
Babay!

I cant do this ……….I cant be strong no more!
Im too fragile ….. I cant go another mile!
La la la la laa

2007-07-17 18:36:00 · 4 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 18:34:32 · 2 answers · asked by dish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-17 18:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ALONE

You told me to never cry

That big girls don’t cry

To never look back.( background Chin up).

To always stay strong

To never let anyone or anything above you

Ooooo wowooooww

But I failed all those missions

And you were by protector, my believer,

(Scream MY EVERYTHING)

You let me down

You made me cry

You lied……to me!

I guess I’m not a big girl.

When the world twirls

You always had another one of your ideas

That would kill me inside

But I had to stay strong because……

OOOOOWWwwooww

Because I could not cry

I would always lie

I would always pre-teynd

That everything will not go wrong

That one day (background- hopefully tomorrow)

That the world would twirl

And bring you right back to me.

OOOWOWOWOWW

I can not cry or else I would die iy Iy iy

We must carry on.

Alone.

You told me I had to stay strong.

You told me to never cry

That big girls don’t cry

To always stay strong

To never let anyone or anything above you

Ooooo wowooooww

But I failed all those missions

And you were by protector, my believer

You let me down

You made me cry

You lied……to me!

I guess I’m not a big girl.

When the world twirls

You always had another of your ideas

That would kill me inside

But I had to stay strong because……

OOOOOWWwwooww

Because I could not cry

I would always lie

I would always pre-teynd

That everything will not go wrong

That one day (background- hopefully tomorrow)

That the world would twirl

And bring you right back to me.

OOOWOWOWOWW

I can not cry or else I would die iy Iy iy

We must carry on.

Alone.

2007-07-17 18:33:46 · 6 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating