What do you do when love, isn't enough? You give and give and give, and seem to get nothing in return. I'm not talking money, but a little appreciation. I feel as if, I'm alone in this. Would somebody help.
2007-07-17 19:18:12 · 22 answers · asked by whatnext 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Know when to say good-bye. Easier said than done, I know. You will recognize when you are ready.
Stay focused and positive ... it does get better.
2007-07-17 19:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I was in a relationship and felt the same way. I realized as long as I continued to give he would continue to take. The longer I stayed in the relationship I became bitter and cold. It is best if you end the relationship and once you do if he loves you and truly appreciates you he will make a change and to get you back he'll show you that he appreciates you, if not you're better off w/o him b/c you deserve so much better and it will be his loss.
2007-07-25 18:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by smiley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend was going through the exact same thing. My advice to her was to talk to her partner about it. So she did, and her partner didn't change. I told her her to leave her partner, becasue she wasn't being treated well at all. She did, and it hurt for a couple of weeks, but then she found someone new, someone who loved her back, and treated her like she was the only thing in the world. SHe is as happy as ever. That is my advice to you as well, talk to your love first, and if you still get nothing back, Leave them, becasue you will deserve so much more.
2007-07-26 01:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Danielly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....
Determine what love is first.
It's not a thing..
It's not a person.
It's an elaborted emotion.
You can not put a price tag on love.
I don't quite understand you're question without....a story behind it...but if you're girlfriend or boyfriend (sorry didn't look at you're gender), but...if they're not appreciating just love, then you're just being used.
Make the right choice.
2007-07-18 02:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and the other person have different love languages. meaning, you want a pat on the back and not what the other person gives or doesnt give. there is a book called, "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.
read it together and look for the signals.
2007-07-26 00:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, after you have done all that given and you have not received anything in return... I would say it is time to move on to greener pastures and find someone who will appreciate you. Nothing can come from someone who is ungrateful.
2007-07-25 23:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by van 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don;t think you are in love I think you may be in lust. You need to shake lose, clear your head and find someone else on the same level as you, someone with the same goals. I think one you are free of this UN appreciative person you will be able to see and find someone hat will be appreciative of you. It takes two!
2007-07-26 01:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by littlerascal711 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell this person how you feel. If they cant or wont change their behavior then it time to end the relationship so you can both find people you will be happy with
2007-07-18 02:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by kila537 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
comunication makes relationships better ask that person to talk but if they dotn change maybe its time to move on but most times problems get solved noone ever said that beeing in a relationship was easy best wishes
2007-07-26 01:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know that you are alone in this relationship and if you are you need to get out and away as quickly as you can its just simple leave and i know it will be hard for awhile but there are so many out in this world you can find someone. take care
2007-07-25 22:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋