Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

he still lives with his babys mom (he has two kids with her) he fells like hes stuck with her because she doesnt have a job. he said that just because they live together doesnt mean everything is ok. he said one of the problems they have is that she is too jealous.he sounds really confused sometimes over the phone we havent done anything and he hasnt tried anything but i know he like me alot because he told me. we only talk on the phone he said he likes me and that that has nothing to do with the realtionship he has with her,he said the problems theyve been having are nothing new. he left me a message last time saying life can be really unfair he hasnt made any attempt to see me,but calls me often.

2007-07-17 20:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for me i don't feel that i did all what i want from my life time but i am trying to make it more intersted and exitting

2007-07-17 20:42:26 · 12 answers · asked by egyptian1000000 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes when I call him he refuses pick up but when we meet he pretends that he really loves me of late he answers me rudely on the phone and still when we meet he tells me that he loves truly.Should I believe him? I truly love him. I've tried to go out with other guys but I think of him throughout the date and I end up spoiling the date. What should I do?

2007-07-17 20:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by haileen 1 in Singles & Dating

During our conversations my girlfriend and I occasionally brush upon famous actors/musicians that she admittedly finds attractive/cute. I admit that I usually feel just the slightest bit jealous when she mentions these things, but not to a point where its anything completely abnormal. I usually tease her about it a little and that'll be that. We both love each other very much and I fully understand that the kind of attraction she feels for these guys is normal and meaningless.
However, just a bit earlier the subject came up again over the phone and she asked me if I had any things of my own for any actresses. As hard as I tried, I honestly couldn't really think of any that I found particularly irresistible. For some reason I feel very alienated by this and its been annoying me all night. Why should it bother me that I dont have any fantasies of my own? Its as if we're talking about a subject that I know absolutely nothing about, and I find myself feeling almost inadequate.

2007-07-17 20:33:50 · 5 answers · asked by X-Malleus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if your offended, then please don't answer
i'm wondering about people's first times?
i have talked to people, but i think that some of them lie.
so if yu dont mind sharing, could you?
im not "getting my jollies" out of them, im just very curious of what other people have gone through. and what they opinions are.
if you dont want to post b/c everyone can see, e-mail maybe?
please and thanks

2007-07-17 20:27:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've suffered from depression for years. Some is situational and some is clinical. Anyway, I moved away to another country. I am the happiest I've ever been. I know my family misses me and needs me- especially my mother- but my life here is so stress free and I finally feel happy. Should I feel bad or give this up?

2007-07-17 20:26:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've heard this term before, but not sure what it is...

2007-07-17 20:20:45 · 14 answers · asked by ♥michele♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

My grandfather and I do not have a good relationship at all, and we never have. I am getting married next year and did not plan to invite him because he has spoken up and said he does not agree with me marrying my fiance. He found out that he was not getting an invitation and, as expected, was upset. My mother said if I did not invite him, she, my father, and my younger brother would not be attending my wedding. So I gave in and invited him, and now he is threatening me. I talked to him a few nights ago and told me "I'm not going to come to the wedding unless you serve a vegetarian course at the reception." (we had planned on serving steak. I cannot believe he is threatening me and his 'punishment' would be him not attending, when he knows full well that I didn't want him coming in the first place. My fiance and I are getting sick of this childish behavior, and my mother says that it's just the way my grandfather is. I really don't want to take on more stress than is needed for this.

2007-07-17 20:19:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If the love of your life talks about his future but never once says anything about you... its always all about him..i just got off the phone and for over an hr he just talked about himself..and how his heart is in the military building bombs and guns ect. the place where he feels the more important and he even said its his one true love!! Ok we not together but were inlove with each other and he wanted to wait till he got out of school cause hes 3hrs away before we built anything due to the fact that right now our relationship would fail with all the stuff we both have going on..but now its like im just here for a plan b..would this bother any of you?

2007-07-17 20:16:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 20:16:10 · 20 answers · asked by mohit gupta 2 in Singles & Dating

now and then I have no problem but its all the time and he is out till 2 or later in the morning. I have talked, I have left him, but came back cause I was more miserable. What shoud I do?

2007-07-17 20:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by jenajet77 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 20:14:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 20:11:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm only 15 years old and 2 years ago i moved to Berkeley,ca from Mentor,Oh i made an okay amount of friends but i miss my home mentor its a surburban town but i lived there for 9 years i left all my friends behind my mom keeps saying i will go so much farther in life and berkeley if funner and more diverse but i don't care i want to be near my friends in mentor what should i do should i plan to attend college out there? to be near friends? i'm in 10th grade or should i move there after i finish college in Berkeley? or just stay in Berkeley? i don't care how great anyone thinks Berkeley is Mentor is where i grew up where all my friends are where my family is i have no family in berkeley only my mom

2007-07-17 20:10:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok my girlfrieng and my best friend have this little code thing and they would always say it aroind me the told me it ment this one thing i believed them. my girlfriend told me something not to tell anyone else. then my friend said he would really tell me what there code word crap means if told him what she told me. i didn't think about what i was doing but i told him then she found out and i lied and denied it ay first another thing i didnt think about it was just a reaction i did fess up to it a minute later. and she was rightfully pissed at me and i apolagized and she said prove it and i have to find a way to prove she can just me it was one time and i f#$ked up i kno but i do i prove i really am sorry and that she can trust me please help sorry for the bad puncuation and spelling. i really love this girl and i just fu*ked up no better way to put it

2007-07-17 20:03:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is this true? If you buy your bf/gf a perfume, you will never end up together, meaning you will break up eventaully, its like a bad omen. And I have heard that if you try the perfume on you the first time, it will break the myth? I would love to know what you think about this in general?

2007-07-17 19:58:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i met this guy on orkut.. i liked his profile and added him as a friend.

Now, we talk almost everyday. a few days back i told him that i like him and he said that he likes me too. We have seen each others photos.

Now i am crazy about him and i feel like i cant live even for a day without talking to him..

even he talks to me every day via messenger. We have also decided to meet each other in September. (coz he lives really far away)...

i have two questions
1- I wanna tell him how much i love him and also that i cant live without him ...
2- He hasn't asked me my number yet. Does he really like me?

2007-07-17 19:58:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cosmopolitan magazine says that the more a guy is comfortable and in love with you, the more he stops talking as much (as he used to):

"You already know that guys aren't big on emoting. So when you start dating a dude who's willing to talk to you for hours on end, sharing all the juicy details of his life, you probably feel like you've snagged a rare gem. That is, until you're an actual couple and he adopts a monosyllabic conversation MO. It's understandable that you'd feel like he's shutting you out, but he's letting you know (not deliberately) that he's content and comfortable with you.

" 'If your formerly verbal guy becomes close-mouthed, it means that he feels so relaxed with you, he doesn't need to impress you anymore," explains Thomas. "Once there's a real connection, you can be together without talking. It's a deeper form of intimacy because you're being more genuine with each other.' "

Is this true? WHY? Can a smart guy explain this to me?? Break it down in details - (aka women language haha)

THANKS!

2007-07-17 19:55:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so my parents just bought a house. And the house we are in now is the only place i have ever lived, and i would love to continue living here. It 650 a month all bills paid. I have a little over a thousand in the bank, but i have no job and i'm rushing to find one. The problem is my parents are moving into their new home on the 28th, so i have to tell the landlord if i want to stay here or not. I know i can get a job making 800 a month. but i know i will only have 150 left for groceries and etc. But my parents new house is just a few blocks away and i could eat all their food up. i dont want a roommate i wanna prove i can do this on my own. so do yall think i can do it

2007-07-17 19:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by Rhett butler 1 in Family

Post your answer to this question to be entered in the Singles and Dating Avatar Beauty Pagent. Contestents will be judged by how many thumbs up or down they get. Good luck!!!

1. What is your fav. color????

Make sure you vote.

2007-07-17 19:45:46 · 15 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3 in Singles & Dating

My grandmother is flying from Colorado to Pennsylvania for my wedding next spring. I am not really up on wedding 'etiquette'. She's the only one flying from far away. Should she be paying for her airfare, or should I? She is insisting to me that she will pay and not to worry about it, but I feel a little guilty. Should I pay for it all, try to compromise with her(like me paying for half), or let her pay?

2007-07-17 19:42:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am falling in somebody's love from korea
I have hers fax number and i wanna send her my first love letter what should I do?
how can i gain her heart & love ?
please help me
thanks

2007-07-17 19:38:52 · 1 answers · asked by bj 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This Fall I'm going to be a Junior and I'm worried that most guys I meet think of me more as a friend. I admit, I'm sort of odd for a teenage girl because I'm a history buff, I love sports, fishing and things like that. Is it that my interest in what are for the most part masculine hobbies that are giving them the image that I'm just 'one of the guys'? Could this be a turn off?

2007-07-17 19:38:49 · 5 answers · asked by Olivia 1 in Singles & Dating

Dear friends,
Please ... only genuine answers please. I am facing a lot of problems and very disturbed, please don't hurt me more with any unwanted comments.

Me and My lover have been facing some serious problems. Our marriage is scheduled in another 6 months and of late we have a lot of misunderstandings and hence it leads to fight.

She wants to be separated but I am not interested in getting separated. We have been in love for 9 years now and after a lot of struggle now both the parents have agreed for marriage so I cannot imagine a life without her.

I am trying to convince her that misunderstandings can be solved and fights will be reduced as and when we get married but she is adamant and says "no, we will not be happy after marriage".

Friends, please suggest me what should I do?

Should I convince her further. If so how? Or there is no other go expect separation.

I am very worried and deeply concerned about the current situation in my life.

2007-07-17 19:38:24 · 37 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my friends are really mean to me sometimes. they call me fat when my bmi is healthy, they make fun of my big boobs, (i cant help it) and they just bring me down. not to sound conceited, but do you think they are jealous of something i have, or are they just mean? ( and its not like im rich either)

2007-07-17 19:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've never been kissed like this before but it's AMAZING :)

Everytime he kisses me, it's like the first/last time. You feel the passion; it's slow, sensual, and long, and after your lips stop, they dettach by making that suction noise but soft, gentle, and pouty. We'll look at each other eyes for 2 mississppi seconds...


it's not "muah"! it's "muuuuuuuuuuaaaaaaaaaaaaahhh."

What kind of kiss is this? Does this show (NOT DETIRMINE) how much he loves me?

(PS: he's never kissedanyone before me...and i've heard from these past years he's always had a thing for me :)

2007-07-17 19:35:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For a time I secretly hid this guy being my boyfriend I did not want my mom 2 no bc she adores him bc he smart and will go very far in the future and give me a good life but we broke up about a month ago and my mom got furious at the time saying if I did break up w/ him & didn’t accept the promise ring he offered me she would take away all my privileges (phone, car, dating, friends) but I had 2 brk up w/ him bc he just “all hands” and wanted to get physical and wanted a serious relationship (im only 17) n e ways we broke up n 4 a time I resolved things w/ my mom but she’s secretly been writing him letters to get us back together i found out about the first 1 but now she is sending him another 1 n trying 2 hide it (I even told her that he tried to get up my shirt numerous times) she doesnt get that I dont like him she only wants me 2 b w/ him bc he will have a rich future I know she just wants best 4 me but she doesn’t understand that I dont love him.....(continued)

2007-07-17 19:29:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it wrong to read your significant others email's when you think there might be something going on?

2007-07-17 19:26:59 · 6 answers · asked by cowboysbaby090804 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so now i know i should share my faith cuz im a christian with my bf. but how do i do it? i've told him about God and that he is amazing and i wont marry a non-christian. i also told him that if this relationship keeps going and he doesn't accept Christ then i have to break it off because if im not gonna marry a non saved guy whats the point of dating one? anyways i tried to get that point across to him but i love him SO much i cant just dump him! and i know God brought him into my life for a reason so i feel as if its my responsibility to bring him to Christ. He's my brother's best friend so i invited him to church and he said it'd be awkward unless my brother invited him, but my brother refuses to invite him! what do i do to tell him about God? every time i bring it up he seems to want to change the subject. any ideas? i need all the help i can get. plz pray for me 2 thanks God Bless you <3

2007-07-17 19:26:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got so used to talking to him on the computer that I didn't realize his actual physical presence was sitting in the chair next to me. Is there a name for this?

2007-07-17 19:23:23 · 7 answers · asked by jdolorous 1 in Friends