Sometimes when I call him he refuses pick up but when we meet he pretends that he really loves me of late he answers me rudely on the phone and still when we meet he tells me that he loves truly.Should I believe him? I truly love him. I've tried to go out with other guys but I think of him throughout the date and I end up spoiling the date. What should I do?
2007-07-17 20:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by haileen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're trying too hard, hon.... stop pushing! He should be the one phoning you... not you calling him. Leave him alone; that way, you'll find out if he really cares and how much. You shouldn't phone him at work, unless it's really, really important. If you can take the truth, here it is. You do too much, you're more giving than he is and the relationship has become unbalanced. He doesn't try all that much, cause you beat him to it. He shrugs and thinks... "what the heck." He sounds like he may be becoming a little bored with the whole thing, after all. I don't think the relationship is worth saving, however, if it can be prolonged... you're gonna have to cut back on doing so much and rely on him to---- Let it go if he doesn't make an effort to meet your needs.
2007-07-17 20:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey have you ruled out the possibility he has another girlfriend? that's what i thought of when i read that he doesn't answer the phone. try talking to him, and ask him why he's not nice on the phone. lol maybe he's just better at revealing his feelings in person? after 4 months he should be able to honestly tell u what the deal is. if he can't get it 2gether soon, send him packin!
2007-07-17 20:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by laid back chica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truly loves you he should answer the phone.but in this case, you must have a silent talk about why he refuses to pick it up and tell him how you feel, but GENTLY. if that doesnt work, probably he has another girlfriend, because if he is your boyfriend, he wouldn't do that. but there are still tons of boys waiting for a gf anyway. so go get them!
2007-07-17 20:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Atilla Shamira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have thing that they are doing and hate to be interrupted by the phone. Perhaps in his job he has to answer the phone all day and just hates to answer it at home.
2007-07-17 20:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. Do you really want to be treated that way, even if he does really love you? He'll never change. And it might only get worse over time.
2007-07-17 20:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he gots you were he wants you and you are allowing it and he knows it. if this is acceptable then stay otherwise find better.if you cant let go, it is because you need to think better of yourself and give yourself better.
2007-07-17 20:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not run after a male let him
2007-07-17 20:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE ISAN ***, HE ONLY USES YOU WHEN YOUR CONVIENIENT. YOUR NOT SLEEPING WITH HIM I HOPE. TELL HIM TO F888 OFF AND TELL HIM HE IS A LOSER AND GO FIND ANOTHER MAN.
2007-07-17 20:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋