ok my girlfrieng and my best friend have this little code thing and they would always say it aroind me the told me it ment this one thing i believed them. my girlfriend told me something not to tell anyone else. then my friend said he would really tell me what there code word crap means if told him what she told me. i didn't think about what i was doing but i told him then she found out and i lied and denied it ay first another thing i didnt think about it was just a reaction i did fess up to it a minute later. and she was rightfully pissed at me and i apolagized and she said prove it and i have to find a way to prove she can just me it was one time and i f#$ked up i kno but i do i prove i really am sorry and that she can trust me please help sorry for the bad puncuation and spelling. i really love this girl and i just fu*ked up no better way to put it
2007-07-17 20:03:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give her a present and talk to her. Tell her your really sorry and that you weren't thinking. Maybe make her feel a little guilty? Say something like, "I guess you can't trust me anymore..." and look real sad about it.
2007-07-17 20:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lusine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried? Put it back on her. Say, "Listen, I'm sorry I lied to you, but you put me on the spot and of course I was guilty, so I didn't think before I spoke, I just blurted out a lie in self defense...give me a break, I'm just a guy, okay?" Then say, "If you didn't have this little code thing going on in the first place, which was driving me crazy, this probably never would have happened. What's up with that anyway...I thought you were "my" girlfriend?" then quickly say, "Look, I'm sorry, I'm just upset because you know I love you like crazy and is it really something we should fight over? I'm sorry, I screwed up and I'll try not to do it again...but I'm a guy, and I might and if I do you get to yell at me again...but I'm serious, I'll do the best I can."
If she dumps you, then find another girlfriend...one who is old enough to know better than use "little codes"
2007-07-22 01:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋