my friends are really mean to me sometimes. they call me fat when my bmi is healthy, they make fun of my big boobs, (i cant help it) and they just bring me down. not to sound conceited, but do you think they are jealous of something i have, or are they just mean? ( and its not like im rich either)
2007-07-17 19:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey, dude, i know
i'm a 36DD
and my friend once went up to me in the bathroom and had a wad of toilet paper in her hand and went, "oh, yu really DONT need this."
like to stuff
she has like, A cups
whatever. keep 'em, enjoy them, be proud,
and get a titty sister!
i have 2 that are the same size
and they go tru the same things
girls are mean bitches
this is why i hang out with guys....they worst tehy do is call me shortshit b/c im 5'1'' and they are all 5'10''
2007-07-17 19:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices:
1. Call them on their meanness. Say, "hey, I thought you were my friends...if you are, then why are you always trying to put me down?" They'll either have to put up or shut up.
2. Make jokes about what they say. When they make fun of your big boobs, you just say, "sweetie, if I could give each of you one of these I would, but you might look a little lopsided." If they say they wouldn't want them or otherwise try to put you down, then go back to plan "1" above.
If they are still mean, then you know they are not your friends and just stop hanging with them. Don't worry...you won't be alone for long. Good looking, well endowed girls are always popular.
2007-07-22 01:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you do need to find some new friends. Cuz people that are gonna put you down instead of building you up, aren't friends. you know, they could be jealous. that or they could just be mean people. but no matter what anybody says, love your body. dont listen to what other people say because peole are always gonna find something to make fun of you about. If you're too skinny, too fat, ugly, pretty, big boobs, no boobs, big butt, no butt, etc. But if you get comfortable and confident with who you are, no one can bring you down!
but again, ditch those people, they're not worth your time! :)
2007-07-18 06:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by I ♥ my Irishman! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might have something they want to make them jealous. to me it sounds like they aren't really friends. why don't you try hanging out with someone new?
2007-07-18 02:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Franshaiska 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THEY ARE PUTTING YOU DOWN IN AWAY THAT IT IS HURTING YOUR FEELINGS. THEN THEY AREN'T YOUR FRIENDS AND YOU NEED TOO JUST GET RID OF THEM AND FIND YOU SOME TRUE REAL FRIENDS. IT COULD BE JEALOUSY BUT WHO KNOWS ALL I CAN TELL YOU IS THAT YOU DON'T NEED THEM
2007-07-18 02:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋