For a time I secretly hid this guy being my boyfriend I did not want my mom 2 no bc she adores him bc he smart and will go very far in the future and give me a good life but we broke up about a month ago and my mom got furious at the time saying if I did break up w/ him & didn’t accept the promise ring he offered me she would take away all my privileges (phone, car, dating, friends) but I had 2 brk up w/ him bc he just “all hands” and wanted to get physical and wanted a serious relationship (im only 17) n e ways we broke up n 4 a time I resolved things w/ my mom but she’s secretly been writing him letters to get us back together i found out about the first 1 but now she is sending him another 1 n trying 2 hide it (I even told her that he tried to get up my shirt numerous times) she doesnt get that I dont like him she only wants me 2 b w/ him bc he will have a rich future I know she just wants best 4 me but she doesn’t understand that I dont love him.....(continued)
2007-07-17 19:29:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and she doesnt know I know about this 2nd letter and I dont know how to react to this bc the things she said are stuff I have told her about him but she has exaggerated them and twisted my words around so in other words theyre lies She really wants this guy for me after I told her I was breaking up w/ him she didn talk 2 me or eat much for a week my brother told me she was writing another letter to him but I cant tell her how I know I promised my brother that and I owe him bc he knows that my moms intentions on this relation ship are for the wrong reasons n doesnt want me to b miserable w/ him again how do I finally get the message to her that I dont care for this guy!!!(im 17 a sr. in highschool and he’s starting his freshmen year in college which is 2 hrs away)
2007-07-17 19:30:09 · update #1
YOUR MOM SHOULD BE PROUD OF YOUR DECISION AND JUST LEAVE THINGS BE. SHE SHOULD BE THANKFUL THAT YOUR NOT OUT OF CONTROL PREGANT AND NO EDUCATION. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BY BREAKING IT OFF. AND YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR EXPRESSING HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER TRYING TO GET YOU GUYS BACK TOGETHER AND SHE SHOULD JUST STAY OUT OF IT.
2007-07-17 19:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your mother demands that you accept this character and his sexual advances because there is a lot of money in the future. Seems to me she is pimping you . This sounds like a case of abuse.
2007-07-18 02:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's your mom that likes him. If you don't want him
don't be forced to take him back. It will never work.It sounds like he just wants to get into your pants.
2007-07-18 02:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by darrellbrdly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋