Is it wrong.....?

Question

Is it wrong to read your significant others email's when you think there might be something going on?

I have asked him before and he tells me nothing is going on, but i know better. I have found out that he was at least thinking about getting back with his ex. We've been together almost 3 yrs now. I'm just so confused.

Answer 1

Yes it is wrong. Instead you should take the adult approach and just tell them about your concerns and ask them about it. Invading their private e-mail is not the way to go, and besides that could really blow up in your face. Just think, most likely nothing is going on and you don't want to make a fool out of yourself by jumping to conclusions and reading their mail when nothing is even going on. Trust is one of the largest factors of a relationship. Talk to them and get the facts before making any major decisions.

Answer 2

Yes,Remember what killed the cat?curiosity and anxiety.Unless you have valid reasons,it's not done.Just think that once it becomes a habit,then there aren't going to be any full stops.Learn to control your self and by the way,why not ask him indirectly?That would be nice test of your tact and wit.

Answer 3

if you have a gut feeling and hes been acting suspicious then no its not but if he trusts you and u have nothing to go on then yes

Answer 4

while your at it you could tell all his ffreinds hes gay through his email

Answer 5

It may be wrong.......

BUT SO IS LIEING TO YOU...

And two wrongs dont make a right,,,but it lets you know where you stand.

Answer 6

im ashamed to say that i have done that. yes its wrong.