if your offended, then please don't answer
i'm wondering about people's first times?
i have talked to people, but i think that some of them lie.
so if yu dont mind sharing, could you?
im not "getting my jollies" out of them, im just very curious of what other people have gone through. and what they opinions are.
if you dont want to post b/c everyone can see, e-mail maybe?
please and thanks
2007-07-17 20:27:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have heard a lot of those more pain than pleasure experiences..some of my friends have cried afterwards....makes me 2nd guess myself sometimes....
2007-07-17 20:38:14 · update #1
Dear Red'
I was seventeen, living at home again temporarily as I had smashed my ankle in a motorbike accident. I was visited by a girl called Sharon who was a mate from the motorbike club we were in. She dropped in to say hello and to see how I was doing and I ended up un-virgined by the time she left! I went on to marry her but it all ended about 16 months later. I was clinically dead following another bike smash (Since given them up- and motorbikes:-))
When I came to in hospital everything had changed. I had become aware of how unhappy I was and I engineered a divorce to become free again. A priority moment when things get put into their correct order of importance. That was a while back as I am 41 now.
Looking back the sex was alright but then it is difficult for it not to be at that stage!
I have been asked since what my favourite position is, my answer? "In..." :-)
2007-07-17 20:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 23:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by stinnette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't bad but it wasnt the best either...I really liked him knowing good and well it was a one night stand. I think I did it more for an "initiation" type of thing...my girlfriends all had had sex countless times and I was the only virgin in the group...I was 15 and yes if I could've waited I would've...save it for someone special...
2007-07-17 20:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by M R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time was wonderful, beautiful and exciting. Yes, it was in the front seat of a car (back then we had bench seats in front and back), we were both young, both inexperienced and learned together. It was great. I have told my children (who are now parents themselves) that I wished for them the same wonderful and exciting experience I had. The price we paid? Catholic guilt. Wow. But I gotta tell you, it was worth it.
2007-07-17 20:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a few drinks and my friends arranged the local cherry popper to break mine, no kidding, i had the hots for him anyways , all the teenage girls did ,hehe but not afterwards, he was smelly ..lol i was young and silly and i sooooo wished i had of waited until i had someone i was in love with and he with me, but i can't change it now, but my mates and i have a good laugh about it .And NO i don't just sleep with anyoldbody, that was the first and only time.and yes we used protection i just wish i had of had a peg for my nose..LOL
2007-07-17 20:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok iam a 16 year old man
i kissed a girl at age 10
frenc kiss a girl age 11
fliped it out to a girl age 12
s e x age 13
2ed time s e x age 14
and a child age 16
2007-07-17 20:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its definetly not what the typical person expects it to be.
Much much more pain than pleasure the first time
2007-07-17 20:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 27 and not yet had my first time. Its on my marriage day I think. I will let you know.
2007-07-17 20:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋