During our conversations my girlfriend and I occasionally brush upon famous actors/musicians that she admittedly finds attractive/cute. I admit that I usually feel just the slightest bit jealous when she mentions these things, but not to a point where its anything completely abnormal. I usually tease her about it a little and that'll be that. We both love each other very much and I fully understand that the kind of attraction she feels for these guys is normal and meaningless.
However, just a bit earlier the subject came up again over the phone and she asked me if I had any things of my own for any actresses. As hard as I tried, I honestly couldn't really think of any that I found particularly irresistible. For some reason I feel very alienated by this and its been annoying me all night. Why should it bother me that I dont have any fantasies of my own? Its as if we're talking about a subject that I know absolutely nothing about, and I find myself feeling almost inadequate.
2007-07-17 20:33:50 · 5 answers · asked by X-Malleus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am the exact same way. Do you really want to waste your time on something that could possibly hinder all the good things that you could give the relationship that you're in now? and not only that, BUT... why waste your time on something that will NEVER happen?
2007-07-17 20:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by lantagrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, ur girlfriend is one hell of a lucky lady. Most men r pigs who want any woman on tv who shows a little bit of something!!! U r 1 in a million and dont ever change!!
Maybe some day all us girls will get lucky and find a guy just like u, someone happy with what hes got. Best of luck 2 u.
2007-07-18 04:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by funbutterflybaby_1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt let that bother you... So you dont have a fantasy? Its not a big deal. Maybe that just means that you are happy and you dont need to conjure some dream of somthing better. Ever think of it like that? I think it means that you are in a sweet spot in life and you should enjoy it.
2007-07-18 04:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety don't let that bother you make some fantasies of your own with her and she'll never want anyone else... The people she wants will never happen, you on the other hand can and right now....
2007-07-18 03:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by teena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow your a real deep thinker. Your girlfriend is SO lucky! Fantasies can come and go. They can also be real annoying. Be thankful you don't have any right now.
2007-07-18 03:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋