2007-07-17 04:36:21 · 22 answers · asked by candie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi Sweetie Pie. I am sorry to hear that it does not bother you if your husband does not tell you that he loves you,or cares about you.
If I was married and my wife did not tell me these
words of love and honor and loyalty I would begin to question her commitment to me.Maybe it is high time for you to start.
I do not know the reason why it does not bother you anymore perhaps it is because you have accepted the fact that the marriage is in trouble and you wish not to hurt any longer.
Let me tell you he is wrong not to tell you his love for you and what it still means to him.I know you are trying your hardest to make it work just by reading over your Q and As.
Continue to be the good wife you are and be on the lookout for more red flags, when you start to notice more of these signs whether they are your feelings or his try to deal with them in a positive manner,which you have been doing.
I wish you good luck and don't let it get the best of you.Keep on smiling! :p OK????
2007-07-19 13:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They have many years together and though you are married to him now you have only known him for a few months. You must give him time to develop deep feelings for you. I strongly suggest two things. Marriage counseling and honesty. He needs to be told to cut contact with this woman from someone other than you. If you deliver that ultimatum it may cost you your marriage. Let the counselor do the dirty work and you support it. FIRMLY. Secondly,... you must come clean about what you know. It is not fair to ask him questions with secret knowledge against him. He may be telling you things gently (white lies) as not to hurt your feelings. Just get it out in the open. Be completely honest and forthcoming with what you know. All my best to you.
2016-04-01 08:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should bother you! What happens if something happened to him today and you never saw him again? The last thing I say to my husband before he leaves the house or I get off the phone with him is that I LOVE HIM! That way I know that he knows and there will never be any doubt.
2007-07-24 08:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as he shows you he loves you then I think its ok. My husband rarely says it but shows it all the time. I don't mind that he doesn't say it so much because I appreciate it even more when he does. When you do need to hear it say I love u to him and then go from there.
2007-07-25 03:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lpree78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Words. Does he show you he loves you? Do you feel that he loves you? If you can answer yes, then nothing is wrong. But, if the answers are no, then it seems like your marriage could be in trouble. It might mean you no longer care about him or what he may think or feel about you.
2007-07-25 03:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by mummy heffalump 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A sloth of a husband/wife can say "I love you" all day long.
An abusive spouse relies on it after they notice that they pushed further than they've "conditioned" their spouse.
"I love you" is powerful to some, words to others.
Actions speak louder than words, if the actions are there, who cares if he/she says "Goobaloogaie Goop" but works with you, for you, and lives for you? It means the same but with proof.
2007-07-22 17:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by avengress 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you saying this to him and he shows no response? Maybe your feelings have flattened and he just is not the talkative type with respect to emotions. Does he still have a sexy partner who could entice him to express his feelings. If not you may have gotten your answer.
2007-07-24 06:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time for you to explore your own relationship as none of us can make any determinations based on the little info you shared. It is common for that to go away but I sense in your question something deeper as if you are questioning your feelings.
2007-07-17 04:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by David B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with that - we don't live in a romance novel. We don't have to oggle over each other every second.
2007-07-25 04:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by Bgirl9488 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is does he still act like it? Has that changed?
2007-07-25 04:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by bsharpbflatbnatural 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋