If you are fine with it, please tell me why it's acceptable to you.
If you are not okay with it, please tell me why not.
**I just want to know from other women's perspectives.**
2007-07-17 04:51:30 · 13 answers · asked by PRIB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's wrong. It's makes me feel like he's not getting enough from me , so he has to stripclubs to actually have fun.
2007-07-17 04:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't like the idea of my man going to stripclubs but that's only if I'm not there and he is going with his friends. Is that weird?? I've actually gone to a stripclub with him and what I saw wasn't that bad. I guess it's mainly because I don't like the idea of him looking at other women or letting some other woman grope all over him.
2007-07-17 05:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by **STAR** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be ok with it. I don't like the idea of him looking at other women naked (live), but if he promised not to touch (which is a rule at some places, I've heard), I could accept it. I think I'd get a kick out of going to a strip club myself. If he was going often, I'd get concerned.
2007-07-17 04:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...my husband actually doesn't like strip clubs (no, I'm not kidding, at least that is what he says) I actually would not care as long as he told me about it beforehand or as soon as possible after. It would be a *plus* if I was "in the mood" and he came back home with a little extra energy to "work off". If I didn't trust him, though, (I do) my answer would be different, I'm sure.
2007-07-17 05:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jerkwithhotsauce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! It is like cheating and says that you are not enough for him. It is also immature for grown men to be getting their kicks by watching naked women. I know that men always enjoy looking at pretty women, and that is ok if they do it subtly. I think to be openly admiring another woman while you are with him is demeaning to you.
2007-07-17 06:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jane T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it kinda bothers me, but i let him go as long as he doesn't get a lap-dance. i'm not comfortable at all with him getting a lap-dance because i consider that basically cheating...having some other chick grinding all up on him, and god only knows what else [some strippers are pretty crazy...they'll basically gave a guy head over his pants, and stuff like that]. so yeah, i just made that clear to him and he respects that, so i let him go. i still bothers me, but i have no real reason to tell him he can't besides some insecurity, and i get over that pretty quick. i think it might be fun to go with him though.
2007-07-17 04:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kristabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not? What's the big deal? They strip, he watches, sometimes they get a dollar. How is that different from half the commercials, movies and tv shows that have half naked women? Sometimes I even go with him. The only complaint I have is that beer is $5 a bottle and at Bingo it's $1 a bottle.
2007-07-17 04:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No I will not be ok with it because he has me and he doesn't need to go to strip clubs. To me that is cheating.
2007-07-17 05:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by sweetheart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel it's a big deal unless he's touching or lying about where he's going.
2007-07-17 05:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by cosmicalbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not mind, he comes home to me. I enjoy going to them on occasions.
2007-07-17 04:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by CC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋