There is this guy at school that I have a major crush on but I don't know if he has feelings for me. He's always flirting with me and being polite. The only thing that's confusing is that he flirts with almost everyone. I've talked to him a couple of times. He even knows that I like him. He told me what he wanted his future to be like and what he wanted to do with his life. One day I decide to move things along by having a friend give him my phone number. She said he wouldn't except it and that he didn't like me like that. He still flirts with me though. I've even caught him staring at me. Does he like me or not?! If not, I want to move on.
2007-07-17 05:23:25 · 23 answers · asked by Tashi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did decide to move on and play it cool but now he started coming up to me and giving me hugs and rubbing against me. What the hell?!
2007-07-19 05:49:03 · update #1
You need to walk up to him and kiss him. Do it infront of everyone. Your an allstar
2007-07-17 05:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Eric Cartman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he dose like u because ther is one guy at my school who is exactly the same hes polite and flirts with every one. well it was a bad idea to have ur friend give him the phone number.u should of done it. and when u give him ur phone number agian ask him for his too. and after school call if he forgets to call u and tell him how u feel and if he dosent fell the same just think u havent lost a thing and that u have gained an answer that is the truth and that now u dont have to stress about him any more and u can move on.and if ur still going to school then im guessing ur still young. dont waste ur life on being shy live it how it is and u only get one life on earth make the best of it. and good luck you'll be in my prayers. :]
2007-07-17 12:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by glittery kitty kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been through the same thing 2 years ago.a guy from where i worked as an intern was the issue.he acted just the same as you said.he used to wait for me afetr lunch breaks just to hold the door for me.he used to give me small stares and smiles.he even stood up for me against the chief.i was so into him.but he didnt actually make any move so the last day at work i sent him an email about how i wanted to meet him but we never really had any chance to talk even though i felt a vibe between us.do you know what he did???he said he didnt feel anything like that for me!!i was shocked i mean for a whole month he flirted me...i think that is just the was they do...you know...i think they just sometimes like a girl but not so much...and we are the victims with our broken hearts...dont worry it took a while but i forgot all about him.i suggest you play along but dont let your heart fall for him.ever!
2007-07-17 12:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by carriethecaregiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he ever date anybody? how did your friend know that he did not like you like this? did he tell her? Those are several things you can ask yourself. Sometimes friends will be jealous and just say things like that. I think he sounds confused. I would just ask him out, and if he makes excuses or turns you down then you will know the answer for sure and can move one. He might just be a big flirt with everyone..one of those type of days. Another thing you can try is...try ignoring him for several days (don't be rude but just act busy) and see what his reaction is. If he really likes you then, he will get really curious and sort of seek you out. You will also know the answer then.
2007-07-17 12:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a guy who got a great girl, flirting with more than one girl can confuse me as much as the girls! It sounds like he's a little confused. How long ago did you tell him that you liked him? If it was within the last week or so, give him some time. He's probably trying to figure out if he DOES like you in that way. If you get frustrated, try to be patient. At one point in time I kept my fiancee waiting for 3 weeks before I told her that I loved her "back", so sometimes a little waiting can pay off!
2007-07-17 12:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by psalm51jbb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it dear. If he hasnt asked for your number then he's not interested in you. Dont sweat it though. You're young. Just take this as an early lesson learned:
If a guy wants to be with you bad enough he will make it obvious. He will go out of his way to get your number. Sit with you at lunch etc etc. He probably sees you as a nice girl and a good friend. Enjoy the fact that he likes you as a friend.
Plus remember, guys typically mature slower than girls. Right now his interests in relationships arent the same as yours. Be glad you have a good friend and enjoy life.
Regardless definitely move on. Also take this as a lesson learned: He's not interested so you shouldnt sit and pine for him.
Personally when I date I look at it like this: Either a guy wants to be with me or not. If he does he'll make the effort in letting me know he's interested. If not fine. No sweat off my back b/c I'm not going to waste MY precious time trying to MAKE him interested in me.
With the attitude that "Either a guy is interested or not" you get rejected a lot less and you weed out the guys that arent interested and focus your valuable energy on someone who thinks you are as Great as you truly are.
I have to say way to go for wanting to move on. My friends and I have a term for that.... "NEXT!" B/c there are tons of other guys out there who think you are fabulous and want to show you how fabulous they think you are!
Good luck dating! Be confident you're clearly a smart strong young lady who has her head on straight ;-)
2007-07-17 12:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by RockStarinTx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he refused ur number? Or was that ur friend talking? She could be jealous (I wudn't kno tho so...)
He likes u, but... There are guys out there that like any female thing that has legs. I have a guy "friend" like that. He wud flirt w/ any gurl w/ a butt. He 'likes' them all. But, he doesn't really want to move forward with all of them. Just the select few who he knos will keep his attention.
Your special guy is probably not like this, but I'm just letting you know !
Guyz are strange beingz. (lol)
2007-07-17 12:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by ~<**@$h/e@**>~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of relying on this so-called "friend" to talk to him for you, why don't you just ask him?
Say to him "I know you flirt with a lot of people, but I really do like you and I was wondering if you liked me too?" This way you won't be wondering "Does he or doesn't he?" And you'll have cut out the middle man of your friend saying he doesn't like you like that, when she probably doesn't have a clue.
2007-07-17 12:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying giving your phone number to him maybe he not expecting it because u didn't give it to him my best friend is like that. But i think he likes u because he tells u about his future and if he flirts prob. So good luck
2007-07-17 12:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a player. or def. would be in a relationship. if he wouldnt accept your number that says right there that he doesnt want a serious relationship. but if he keeps looking at you and flirting with you..and he does the same thing with other girls, that makes you the same as them. he wants everyone! i suggest you move on. Get rid of Mr. Rightnow and find Mr. Right
2007-07-17 12:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he likes attention, hence the flirting. But yeah, if he doesn't want to pursue things, there isn't much else you can do but move on. There are more fish in the sea. I know it stinks now, but hey... maybe he'll get a pimple and it'll crush his ego.
2007-07-17 12:27:38 · answer #11 · answered by I love cookies 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋