Is it alright to be 19 and still be a virgin?

Question

When I'm at college I don't party. I don't have a driver's liscence. I've never had sex. Sometimes I wonder if it's something wrong with me.

Answer 1

There are plenty of people your age and older that are still virgins. Many for religious and/or moral reasons. Many people wait for marriage. Some girls find that to be cute.

Answer 2

Did U see the movie The 40 yr old virgin? if someone's a virgin at 40 I think it's ok for a 19 yr old to be a virgin.

I guess the upside of being in college and still a virgin, not partying is it makes it easier to focus on your studies. =-)

If and when U have sex try to find someone who is also a virgin that way u can learn together (less pressure)

Oh to answer your question No theres nothing wrong with u

Answer 3

I'm 19, I turn 20 next year, I have my drivers license, I've had it for a year, I got it a month after I graduated from high school, I'm still a virgin, never had a girlfriend either, I've just kissed, I don't party because I never get invited, the friends I have are not party-goers, I used to think having a drivers license would chance your social life, it doesn't really, it's not a chick magnet or friend magent, but I still recommend trying to get your license.

Answer 4

well the sex thing is not a problem, if ur a dude just dont tell ur guy friends, they might rip on u forever. The partying thing eh its ok, do u have friends? if u dont and u live at school thats a little weird, my suggestion loosen up a bit. as for the drivers license thing, dude cmon uve been 16 for 4 years now. get on that, it could be why your a virgin. Most girls dont like to go on dates on a bicycle.

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong with you. There are so many STD that a person can get. You are smart to save yourself. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise!!!!!
If you choose to party - NEVER, EVER, EVER LET YOUR DRINK GET OUT OF YOUR SIGHT. SOME ONE MAY PUT SOMETHING IN IT THAT YOU ARE NOT AWARE OF UNTIL IT IS TOO LATE!!!!! If you forget, it is much better to get a fresh drink and throw out the old drink. If someone says something , tell them that the ice had melted too much or that you just preferred to drink something else. It is really none of their business why you choose to get another drink. Plus I would be VERY SUSPICIOUS if someone gave me a hard time.
Also if you choose to party, PLEASE,PLEASE GO WITH A TRUSTED FRIEND SO THAT YOU CAN LOOK OUT FOR EACH OTHER!!!!!!

Answer 6

Get a drivers liscence, go to a party and you are fine.

Answer 7

You know what, to a great degree you and I are very similar. -I just have to that as far as my viginity ...I'm not in a rush to hand it away. Based on the fact that there are 12 year olds out there that think that oral sex is second base, then I am comfortable with the fact that I've yet to part knees. ---Just don't rush it, when that right person comes you'll know it and that wait will be over. -No worries.

Answer 8

Don't worry man.. i was a virgin till 25. Its normal. But i got married with the most beautiful girl and had sex.

Answer 9

trust me, there's nothing wrong with you, Im 19 and a Virgin.

(I'm getting married in 17 days, so it won't last long though :P)

but seriously, trust me, it's refreshing to girls to see that there are some guys out there who's main goals in life aren't to get drunk and F*** as many girls as possible.

but, I would suggest getting your lisence, just mostly for convience. I don't have mine either cuz of a bunch of stuff going on in my life, and I really wish I could get it, cuz I hate having to walk everywhere

Answer 10

That is cool...you may want to re-think the parties though, they can be fun, if you go in moderation...You dont necessarily have to drink either if you dont feel comfortable, but its a fun way to meet new people...

Nothing is wrong with you...that just not how you roll...lol..