Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

We do have a lot in common, but I want views from older guys.

Thank you!

2007-07-17 09:58:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok..today me and this boy who I really like met in person and before we both met in person, we started talking a lot and on the phone and he told me that he likes me and I told him I like him too..But I still don't know how I could find out if he still likes me or not. I'm kind of afraid and he was saying "U kinda live far" after we met..I don't drive but I don't know if he's gonna still ever get with me or not because he didn't talk about any relationship kinda stuff in person.But he did on the phone though.What should I say to him and what should I ask him? Because I don't even know if he liked the way I looked in person and everything else but I was shy to him though. I really like this guy..Please help!

2007-07-17 09:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by NeNe 1 in Singles & Dating

It's really complicated in a incredibly juvenile junior highschool kind of way. Some friends of my husband and I's were thinking of moving 5 hours from their hometown to be near us and start a new life together. They're 21 and 19, together about 6 months. The thing is the girl involved-- who I just became friends with recently is a Jehovah's Witness. She has been lying and sneaking around with this guy their whole relationship. Recently one of my best friends-- also a Jehovah's Witness (baptized) said she had an obligation to go the the girls parents (her aunt and uncle who adopted her when her parents didnt want her) They confronted her and she admitted that shes moving, that she's been having sex, lying-- saying she was going to meetings when she was really going to meet the guy. All her friends and family are trying to tell her if she goes-- she will be dis fellowshipped and no one willl be allowed to have contact with her! My good friend who "tattled" is pregnant-- contd

2007-07-17 09:56:08 · 2 answers · asked by mrs.v 4 in Friends

2007-07-17 09:53:00 · 8 answers · asked by pretty granny 3 in Friends

that the loan is under my husband name but we are both on the deed to the house. my question is can I stay in the house and pay half the mortgage and have him pay the other half until our youngest daughter turns 18 without having to refinance? I live in Florida if that helps. Thanks

2007-07-17 09:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by beba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you prefer. S.e.x or making love.

s.e.x = the guy focuses mainly on pleasuring you sexually with numerous positions throughout etc

Making love = passionate kissing, caressing etc.. whilst having intercourse.

2007-07-17 09:49:24 · 19 answers · asked by Mr Brightside 1 in Singles & Dating

As you may have read from my earlier question, Im strugglin to tell her she's gettin a little bit on the heavy side. But in addition to that, her breath stinks! It seriously like a mixture of dead whale and satans a.sshole. I'm not the kind of guy to just come out and tell her (because I'm really sensitive and caring), so I like to drop subtle hints in hope that she will get it. For instance, when she is sleeping, I place breathmints on her tongue. Or, when I know were about to go out for a drive (im the driver), I'll place Listerine on the seat, so when she gets in and is about to sit on it, I say, "hang on a second, your about to sit on the LISTERINE." And even though I say 'listerine' obnoxiously louder than the rest of the sentence, she still doesn't get it. So how can I tell her, sensitively, that her breath makes me want to tie weights to my ankles and jump in a lake?

2007-07-17 09:48:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 09:47:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been going out with a girl for a couple of days, who to be honest, I dont really find attractive (even though my friends do) and today I got asked out by a girl I've fancied for a pretty long time. I said that I'd think about it (which didn't go down to well with her-but she said ok). I really want to say yes but I'm afraid that if I do the girl I'm going out with now will be hurt and I'll feel really guilty. Plus my mates will give me a hell of a lot of stick for dumping the girl theyv'e been calling the hottest in school. What should I do? I've only got untill 2morrow b4 a have to make my mind up! help!

2007-07-17 09:46:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean no disrespect to you men out there...but I am very curious when some of you say that all men "have to watch porn." I find myself scratching my head and thinking...then what did people do years ago before porn was ever around?? Sure, cheating was around even then, but...also back then it was really frowned upon. So...come on, do you guys really "need" porn, or do you just want it? A huge difference there. I am not judging or saying you should or should not...just never understood the all men have to thing. It makes it sound like you would die without it or something. Thanks for your input guys.

2007-07-17 09:46:15 · 23 answers · asked by ShineOn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend was complaining that her MIL never visit her until she invites her over. He MIL will not even tell her what to do until she asks her. She was telling me that it makes her feel very worth less that her MIL will only come see her when she invites her to the dinner or tea or lunch etc. She was not happy with this arrangement. She says that this approach is way too formal. She says that it seems like that her MIL feels she is superior to everyone and everyone has to invite her over to her place unless she won't come even for a year. I also thought that it is a bit too much given the fact that she can come see them and her grandkid. My friend has to go see her in laws every week cuz her husbands wants this.
any opinion.

2007-07-17 09:45:38 · 5 answers · asked by c 2 in Family

Our engagement party was sunday. Last night on messenger his dad said "britt's mom didn't impress us, she has a shi**y demeanor and attitude. we liked the rest of the family". Later on he called her a basket case.

My mom didn't make much conversation at the party, and his dad also noticed I didn't talk to her (mad at her).

Yesterday I read my moms archive on yahoo. She told people she missed my dad and he should've been there, he died in febuary. She also said she woke up that day wanting to puke at the idea of me finally getting married.

2007-07-17 09:45:19 · 32 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings

ok ok my bf is really like Christian and his family is good and Godly. He was going to wait till he got married, but we did it and it was amazing. Now hes saying im too much drama and I got the feeling he was going to dump me and that wasnt going to happen. So I told him I was pregnant and I told my bfff too and she told people that I poked a hole in the condom to get pregnant on purpose but I dont care. Im not really pregnant, but since I told my bf, hes been extra nice to me and gives me 100% attension. I dont even really love him that much, I like him because hes hot and because other girls at school are obsessed with him. So now that im officially "Pregnant" will that keep other B**** off him and how do I explain to him when I dont start showing, Do I tell him I got a miscarriage,or an abortion,can I go to Prison for lying like the way lil kim and martha stewart did.
How long should I wait to tell him that the baby died or got aborted? Will he love me more after I lose "his" baby?

2007-07-17 09:43:29 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anybody have any good outcomes from going to marriage counseling? My husband after 4.5 years of marriage doesn't know if he want the responsibility of a family. We do have a 4 year old involved and yes, it's his. He wants to go to marriage counseling, but I haven't heard of any good outcomes.

2007-07-17 09:40:25 · 14 answers · asked by jdecorse25 5 in Marriage & Divorce

they have a family history of depression in thier family or another genetic illness? and you are worried...has it ever happened b4 to anyone?
PS its not me...its someone else and it hurts to see it happen to someone i know.

2007-07-17 09:38:06 · 14 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

I recently moved to a small town after a bad break up and I don't really know a lot of people, but there has been about 3 times that I ended up getting too drunk at a party and sleeping around. I felt horriable about it, and after one of them I started crying. Am I going to get a bad reputation for this? I'm not even sexual when I'm sober, I don't want to be labled as a slut. I'm still too emotional and sensitive since my ex left me. Or is this normal behavior for a 25 year old to have? I've never slept around and only ever been with one guy before I moved to BFE..

2007-07-17 09:37:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad always says im selfish but i always help out

2007-07-17 09:37:12 · 20 answers · asked by Ashley R 1 in Family

For the bridal party, for centerpieces, and what did you get for that price?

2007-07-17 09:36:01 · 23 answers · asked by Rainer 4 in Weddings

How have you handled things when marriage was not what you expected? Do you find that marriage takes more effort than you are able to give? How do you have a healthy happy long lasting marriage and how are you able to endure the hardships? I just lost my job today and now I have to start all over again. My husband is a great man and I do love him I never thought we would be struggling with job issues and fianaces being married over 13 years. I thought things were supposed to get better and easier with time but it is not getting easier it is gettting harder and harder and tougher and tougher how do you handle when things $uck and are disapointing at times even when you follow God and do the best you can? Thank you for any answers.

2007-07-17 09:34:22 · 17 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 09:34:04 · 32 answers · asked by classy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 09:33:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 09:33:40 · 5 answers · asked by shanell1771 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys like giving girls a BJ? I like getting them, but why would they want that in theryre mouth???? and why do girls like giving them to guys? i mean, i have givin one to m y guy, but i dont like giving them. i like getting them. NOT TRYING TO BE DISGUSTING!!!!!!!!!! J\W

2007-07-17 09:33:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom kept going on about how rude it is to be selfish and she was raising her voice about it and i said "well i didnt do that" then she said i was getting hyper and started yelling at me and said i have been havin an attitude lately which is always just little things that she brings out to be bigger than what it is. i am a good kid 14 i get good grades i help out around the house im nice and i already have a job. what is the problem? Thank you!

2007-07-17 09:32:39 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am not that close with the guy, we have been friends since high school through a group of 6 people, and I see him maybe 4 times a year. The wedding is in October, and first, they had an engagement party last year which they registered for. Strange, but I bought them a present for that. Now, his fiancee invited me to her bridal shower, and enclosed 2 registries. So am I supposed to buy her a bridal shower gift AND a wedding gift? Isn't it a bit much to ask for 3 gifts for one occasion? What can I do, so that I don't look cheap or like a bad friend, but also don't spend my entire monthly income on this one wedding?

2007-07-17 09:27:04 · 18 answers · asked by Naughty ♥Angel♥ Mommy2B! 4 in Weddings

2007-07-17 09:26:36 · 14 answers · asked by essence 2 in Singles & Dating

know that i have all ridey ask this ? but i need more tips.I have this friend for 3 years and we spend a lot of time together. he is a boy and 14 years old. I like him a lot but I don't know if he likes me. I want to keep are friend relachenship but i want to go out with him. He is so nice and he bought me a $200 thing. I need to know how to tell if he likes me and how to tell him that i like him. Also i don't think that he has any girls in his life right now and this is my ferist boy friend. Also i don't think that i can ask hem because we are good friends and that would be weerd So pleas help me?????

2007-07-17 09:26:30 · 1 answers · asked by Ann 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-17 09:25:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Do you turn down every guy that asks you out? Do you say yes? How'd it work to find your true love?

2007-07-17 09:25:27 · 3 answers · asked by Bello Stella 4 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE SERIOUS ANSWERS! He only lasts about 3 mins. from the moment we begin to the end w/o foreplay. I try not to arouse him before intercourse so that he can last longer, but it doesn't work. Although I'm not sure if this is a good idea.
He is in his 20's and he's healthy. His previous relationship lasted 1 yr. and he mentioned one time that he was able to last longer with her. He refuses to use any kind of enhancers (i.e. sleeves or rings) and he refuses to buy me any toys so that he can relax while keeping me going on. (He won't even accept a "clone-a-willy" type of thing so we're still using "his" willy). Whenever I bring up the subject he just says he doesn't want to talk about it. He only says that he loves me and he's uncomfortable with the subject. I am, sexually, more open and all-around more sexual person than he is. (I ALWAYS have to ask for sex!) So, what could be the problem? **Oh yeah, and I don't think it's P.E. because when I do oral, it takes a while for him to come

2007-07-17 09:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce