I have been going out with a girl for a couple of days, who to be honest, I dont really find attractive (even though my friends do) and today I got asked out by a girl I've fancied for a pretty long time. I said that I'd think about it (which didn't go down to well with her-but she said ok). I really want to say yes but I'm afraid that if I do the girl I'm going out with now will be hurt and I'll feel really guilty. Plus my mates will give me a hell of a lot of stick for dumping the girl theyv'e been calling the hottest in school. What should I do? I've only got untill 2morrow b4 a have to make my mind up! help!
2007-07-17 09:46:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump the other girl because it is only fair that you like her better if you are going out with her.tell her that you dont really think it will work out. you dont necessarily have to tell her why.also, you can let your buds have her.double plus!
2007-07-17 09:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by tennisgoddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better to let her know now then later that things are not working out for you. Be kind though. Prolonging the situation will make matters worse. Also, don't do it in front of anyone so she will not feel humiliated. This will not be an easy task, but if you want to date someone do it because you didn't mention that she's your girl friend and you both sound young enough to get past all this. Oh yeah, it's not about what your friends think; sounds like one of them may have the hots for her. Hope you can deal with a friend maybe moving in on you? I hope this helps. Best Wishes!!
2007-07-17 10:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 15:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by willock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cast the superficial aspects of looks aside, and focus more on the personality of the person. Looks deteriorate and you shouldn't base relationships on them. If you don't like the girl you're with right now because you don't like her (versus not liking her body) then you have reason to leave her. If this new girl has a great personality and everything, then choose her.
You're allowed to choose who you want, eh? If you don't like the current, leave her. If you like the other, go with her! You're free to do what you want.
You've been going out with the first girl for a couple of days? Who cares! It's not like you've committed to anything! jeez!
Have fun.
2007-07-17 09:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by theVisionary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, look just say to the girl that ur going out with that u really like her, but you need some time to think, then go to the girl you want to go out with and say the same thing, dont bother asking your friends who to choose, that wont work. Why do you like hte other girl more? You must have liked the first girl when you startedd to go out? Also, as a girl, I can understand if you think it wont work btween u and the 1st girl, but either breakit it to her slowly, calmly, look upset as she is, and just tell the truth!!! youll be fine!!
2007-07-17 09:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by kat t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the other girl, go with her. It sounds like you're still in high school, which means that you probably aren't going to be with either of the girls forever - it could happen, but chances are it isn't going to. Don't be too worried about breaking your current girlfriend's heart because if you've only been dating her for a few days, then she shouldn't be TOO attached.
2007-07-17 09:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by KC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one you like. Is not your friends that is going to be going out with her is you. If the other girl want to beat you up run. RUn as fast as you can. Still stay with the hot one. Sometimes is neccesary to hurt feeling because is either one or another. GOod Luck.
2007-07-17 09:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by El Macho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the other girl you dated for a couple of days that "I'm sorry but I don't think we were made for each other I don't really like you,but saying it in a good way.Again I'm sorry"
Then You Could have the other girl!
2007-07-17 09:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by emo.girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one. the girl may feel really bad. but i think its better to break up with her and go out with the grl u like. rather than hurting the grl (ur friends think is hott) in the long run!
good luck
2007-07-17 09:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by °lia° 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just be completely honest to the girl you're pseudo-dating. It's only been a few days so it's not like you're commited or anything.
With the other girl, GO FOR IT! YOU'RE YOUNG! LIVE IT UP!
2007-07-17 09:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋