im 16, Im pregnant will I go to Prison?

Question

ok ok my bf is really like Christian and his family is good and Godly. He was going to wait till he got married, but we did it and it was amazing. Now hes saying im too much drama and I got the feeling he was going to dump me and that wasnt going to happen. So I told him I was pregnant and I told my bfff too and she told people that I poked a hole in the condom to get pregnant on purpose but I dont care. Im not really pregnant, but since I told my bf, hes been extra nice to me and gives me 100% attension. I dont even really love him that much, I like him because hes hot and because other girls at school are obsessed with him. So now that im officially "Pregnant" will that keep other B**** off him and how do I explain to him when I dont start showing, Do I tell him I got a miscarriage,or an abortion,can I go to Prison for lying like the way lil kim and martha stewart did.
How long should I wait to tell him that the baby died or got aborted? Will he love me more after I lose "his" baby?

P.S DO NOT tell me to tell him or anyone the truth, because thats not happening....EVER. Ok

OMGOSH like I care, whatever makes me happy, makes me happy even if I have to F*** up other peoples livese as long as im happy then thats the only thing that matters.

you guys can all kiss my a**
its my life LOSERS

Answer 1

Man... I dont know it could break his heart

Answer 2

First of all, have him buy you a pregnancy test - or you buy one - and get that settled right away so you don't have to worry about it anymore. You can't know if you are pregnant unless you take the test or get your period. Cramping and soreness can mean you are pre menstrual or have other causes so that alone doesn't really tell you. I'm not a lawyer but it seems it's not illegal if you are 16. I did a yahoo search under "Law Sex with a Minor Florida" and that's what the sites I looked at said, but again, I'm not a lawyer. So I don't believe he could ever go to jail for having sex with you. If he were 24 or older and you were 16 it would be statutory rape. Of course in any case if it's consensual someone has to report it for it to be a problem. I don't know if you could move in with him or not but do consider if this is a good idea to begin with. If you aren't pregnant you might not need to tell your Mom but for your own sake please don't have unprotected sex again. It's a pretty high price to pay - being pregnant at 16 and having a child or having an abortion at your age isn't a great idea. While it's good to be forgiving I think you need to change the "boys will be boys" attitude and speak with your boyfriend about how important it is to always use protection. It sounds like you have a good relationship but it's possible that it could end and that would leave you in an even more difficult situation if you got pregnant.

Answer 3

No, you will nto go to prison for lying. And aren't you relieved ,since your whole life is one big fat lie.
You are a selfish, mean, spoiled, shallow child. DRAMA-QUEEN!
You are wayyyy too young to be having sex-since you are not very mature.
If you had any self-esteem or sense or morality, you would tell him the truth, and let him go.
You would examine why you are willing to lie to hold a boy, just so someone else can't have him. You would take compassion on that poor boy and let him go.
You are ACTING really twisted and nasty, but you don't have to be that way. Any time you want to grow a brain-to have some strength and morals, to be the lovely, kind person you really want to be, you can have them.
Just do what is right, and tell that boy he is not a daddy. Let another girl, who doesn't have to lie to be accepted have him.
If this boy was my son, I'd whip your a$$.
If you were my daughter, you'd be in a mental hospital before nightfall.
His family MIGHT be able to sue your family for PAIN and SUFFERING, if he goes home and tell them is a daddy. His whole family will be devastated!
How can you be so messed up and think more lyng will help you?
How can anyone love the real YOU when no one knows who that is?

Answer 4

You won't go to prison unless you try to get him to pay child support for a child that doesn't exist.

But you are headed for serious karmic retribution if you keeping lying and manipulating people like this. He will eventually find out or figure out the truth, and he will not love you or stay with you after he finds out how you've used him. If he's really all that Christian, he'd be horrified by the idea of an abortion, and you're not clever enough to fake a miscarriage convincingly. You won't be able to keep the secret for long anyway, you love the drama too much.

All in all, a very immature and selfish way to behave - don't blame others for telling you truth just because you're afraid to face it.

Answer 5

First off you are not going to jail so don't even worry about that, unless you use a fake pregnancy to extort money or something else out of someone. I know you have a bit of a problem because you like the guy and everything, but i wouldn't use the fake pregnancy thing to try to keep him around. If he doesn't like you , then he doesn't like you, and trust me you do not want to be in a relationship with someone who is there only because of a kid. Later on in life it will be a miserable experience. You will meet a lot more guys who are nicer and better looking than him. If I was you, I wouldn't come up with some medical reason for loosing the kid. Things like abortions and miscarriages lead to things like hospital time and time away from school. Some times when women have sex for the first time it can elevate hormone levels and lead to missed or delayed periods. I would just tell him that is was a faulty indication on the pregnancy test. That is just my opinion though. Also, don't let these people on here get you down by saying things like you are stupid or whatever. We were all kids once and made mistakes. You need to just roll with the punches.

Answer 6

You aren't going to go to jail, but someone needs to knock some sense into you. If you have to lower yourself to that level to lie to someone, especially about being pregnant, in order to keep a boyfriend, you are beyond pathetic! Someone is going to find out, then he is going to find out, then he isn't going to forgive you let alone ever speak to you again! He is going to hate you forever. And anyone and everyone that knows you are going to know how conniving you are, and to what extremes you will go to get your way. You need to grow up and accept the fact that he doesn't love you and is only there with you because you are a lying little winch. Let the boy go and move on. I'm sure there is another idiot out there that will put up with you for a little while. What you are doing is wrong and you should be ashamed of yourself. He is definitely too good for you!

Answer 7

Ok, I don't think you can go to prison, but what you did is WRONG! Do NOT ever do that again. When you get
your next period you can say you had a miscarriage, or you can say that you must have been mistaken. You decide.
I had a friend who decided she was pregnant any time her
period was late, and then she mourned her "baby" as a miscarriage. After about 3 of those dramas, I figured out
she was never pregnant, just stupid.

Answer 8

Geeze, can we say "One Life to Live???!!!"
If you reallyreallyreaalllllyyy want to be crazy fake and plead with his sympathy and all that bullshit:
Tell him you had the bloodiest misscarrage ever!! Don't show up to school for a week, don't call him or have him over for at least two days, and rally your bestest friend to come to him wailing that you almost died. Make sure that she runs to his arms screaming "She'll make it!! She'll be alright!!!" Make sure that you look like rotting hell (don't sleep or bathe in those two days). When he finally comes to your bedside give him a weak smile and ask him how his day was. Shrug this off, but get weepy when he asks you about the baby.

Truth: He will not love you after you "lost the baby." He was over you in the first place. Drama is for Brodway or Jerry Springer, but you are your own person. If you want to go that route, go out with a bang!!

Answer 9

Look, I'm not going to lecture you or anything. The best way to get out of the whole baby story is to tell him that a pregnancy test was wrong and that you're not really pregnant.
But why are you even making this up if you don't even love him? No, you're not going to jail.

Answer 10

Wow!!! I’m sorry but your between a rock and a hard place. First of all it takes two to tango. So no matter how “Christian” he is, it was still him that decided to do the deed. So don’t let him use that against you. second, if he wants to leave, let him leave. Your sad attempts at grasping on have gotten you deeper and deeper. If he is “Christian” he will not be happy with abortion and if the baby “dies” he may not ever be able to look at you again without thinking about what his kid could have been like. I would really think about getting your mom and dad involved before this gets really out of hand. Now, I know everyone in school is going to be really weird about the whole ordeal but you put yourself into this situation with your selfishness. And PS.. YOUR NOT GOING TO JAIL.

Answer 11

Dear Veronica H you are a prick I hope you break you leg in a car "accedent" and crash into a ditch but nobody cares because your a bit*h, how does it feel to have every hate you so much that if you were dead nobody would notice you? your the type of girl that whens theres a problem you'll never be there, and besides I can tell your scared because who has to lie to keep someone they don't even LOVE! with them, well hope fully you'll get married one day and find out but I won't hold my breath though I might die, have fun in hell :)!