Ok..today me and this boy who I really like met in person and before we both met in person, we started talking a lot and on the phone and he told me that he likes me and I told him I like him too..But I still don't know how I could find out if he still likes me or not. I'm kind of afraid and he was saying "U kinda live far" after we met..I don't drive but I don't know if he's gonna still ever get with me or not because he didn't talk about any relationship kinda stuff in person.But he did on the phone though.What should I say to him and what should I ask him? Because I don't even know if he liked the way I looked in person and everything else but I was shy to him though. I really like this guy..Please help!
2007-07-17 09:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by NeNe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He did give me a hug but everybody does that so that doesn't give me a clue or nothing
2007-07-17 10:11:15 · update #1
i would send him an anonymous message pretending to be one of his friends and ask about you using this site its http://hikkup.com
2007-07-17 10:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by stacyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you worry about all the logistics and whether he likes you or not, figure out if YOU like him. You can't make anyone like you if they don't, but you DO have control over you. If you stress now, you might find out in a few weeks/months that he's really not for you and then you've wasted all this energy worrying about a guy you hardly met. Try not doing the "I like you, you like me" stuff, and just get to know you without pressure.
2007-07-17 17:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Miss smarty pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just shy. but since he said "You live kinda far", that shows that he's not really willing to drive the distance to be in a relationship with you. I think that if he continues to talk to you after that comment, he might just be trying to get into your pants. A lot of guys are sick like that.
2007-07-17 17:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by AssBandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was too shy to talk to you in person. If you notice that he has changed after meeting you then he probably didn't feel the chemistry in person and your best bet would be to move on.
2007-07-17 17:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by screwed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing for you to do now is talk to him about it. If you're more comfortable talking to him on the phone or online, then talk to him there. Ask him if he's interested in a relationship.
2007-07-17 17:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to hang out with you on a weekend afternoon, somewhere public where he will be seen with you by many people. If he declines, he just wants a one night stand. If he shows up... play hard to get and send him home dry. Call him again and ask him out, if he says yes again.. He's genuine.
2007-07-17 17:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Javon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for his email address. Emailing makes long distance relationships easier to bear and can help you say things that you wouldn't over the phone.
2007-07-17 17:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Skunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you hear from HIM.If you don't hear from him soon,move on,there's nothing there.After meeting in person nothing clicked for him and you can't change that from your end.
2007-07-17 17:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by NicNic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dats a good question but it seems like u have to make da first move... ; )
2007-07-17 17:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋