We do have a lot in common, but I want views from older guys.
Thank you!
2007-07-17 09:58:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants what most men want. The thing is for some guys, the younger (legal age of course) they are the better, because the younger they are the less experience they have.
Additionally, younger ladies are often sexier looking than older women. Which for some guys is a turn on.
Also for a 30 year old guy to get a younger woman, (19-30) is kind of a coup, in that he has now robbed the cradle so to speak.
There might not be much in common, but believe me that is not terribly important to an older man.
2007-07-17 10:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will they let her get an abortion without parental consent since she's so young? I don't know if that's legal since most doctors won't do much without a guardian present if the kid is underage. I don't know what to say. Personally, i don't believe in abortion but believe that everyone has a choice. But i don't think someone should abort a baby because they like to have sex with a bunch of people. You're going to get in a bad situation. She's very underage and you're not. Plus the whole thing with her sleeping with who knows how many guys. How do you know she won't get or hasn't gotten bored with you and found another guy. I'd run the other way and find a girl who's at least 18. Don't put a 16 year old in that situation. She shouldn't be having sex and you shouldn't be contributing to her making bad decisions. If you want to date the girl whatever but don't have sex with her no matter what she thinks she wants. That's the best advice i can give you.
2016-04-01 09:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always the possibility of him wanting a cute, young thing. But maybe he actually likes you for you...for your personality, character, integrity. Without knowing you, it is hard to say. Maybe you are as mature as a 24 year old woman.
Is he bragging to his friends that he has bagged a cute teen? Do you two actually talk about various things or is it more of talk for him to pacify you until you take your pants off?
The only caveat I would say is that you two are at different stages in life. You are at the college of being free and exploring. He has likely been out of college and working a few years now.
Go ahead and date him for now to give yourself a chance to know him better. You don't have much to lose. Most boys your age are really only wanting to have sex with you. The 30 year old (who still likes sex) will also realize you have a brain and personality as well. Good luck.
2007-07-17 10:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Thundercat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 18 year old girl and i am also attracted to older guys. Most of the ones that i talk to either want to get married or just show a young girl how she should be treated.
2007-07-17 10:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't want anything to do with a 19 year old. She wouldn't be able to relate to things with me on the same level. The only thing that she is probably thinking about is going out with her girls and partying. She isn't thinking about life issues that someone in their 30's is thinking about. People will have things in common but that doesn't mean that they are on the same level intellectually.
2007-07-17 10:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by benz s55 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 29... the only reason why I would date someone that young... well to be honest... it would be a bit of control.... and bragging rights as well... he could genuinely like you, but really you won't be the same person at 19 as you are when you're 24..... unless you fit into the ways he wants you to be.. it's a temporary relationship at best.... is it possible it could be long term.. yeah... but rare....
2007-07-17 10:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. Men and women exist on a different mental maturity age. At age 19 you think at a level of the typical 30 year old male. Go to work and housebreak him and you may have a keeper. He has sown his wild oats and is mature enough to settle down.
2007-07-17 10:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 30 and I'll tell you.... Sex. You may have things in common, but no where NEAR enough to bridge that gap..... His interest is seeing if he can still hit it with a legal teenager. I know you don't wanna hear that, but the chances that it is "true love" is slim at best. Start looking for the hidden agenda.
2007-07-17 10:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by Rav 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Im not a man but please let me answer this one....
A 19 yr old girl makes a 30 yr old feel younger.. and its GREAT for his ego ... telling all his friends about this hot 19 yr old that wants him.... I'm not saying a long lasting relationship wouldnt come out of it.. but the odds are greater that its all just sex and ego
2007-07-17 10:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's an odd question. It should read 'What would a man want from a woman'? Age is not the factor, personality is and all that it entails.
2007-07-17 10:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by Rising Son 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋