Family & Relationships - 17 July 2007

so let me set up a what if situation and tell me what you think ladies:

Very nice guy, very gentlemanly and kind towards women, drinks and plays beerpong at parties, not an alchie though,
Hazel eyes, sometimes shaggy sometimes short and a bit spikey thick black hair, 150lbs, muscular build, 20 years old, has a tongue piercing.

This is the description of a friend of mine who gets a lot of female attention. My question is, without viewing a picture and hearing this description, does this person seem attractive? how do you feel about guys with tongue piercings?

2007-07-17 08:32:36 · 29 answers · asked by Jack B 4 in Singles & Dating

Heather Snively was the wedding planner on the episode. Tracy French was the other planner on the episode. The dress had beading and a champagne-colored sash with a long train. Please help! It is the wedding dress of my dreams and if I find it I know I will buy it for my wedding!

2007-07-17 08:31:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If a boy and a girl were in a NO RULES fight. and each of them got one attack and the girl got to go first who would win and how.

2007-07-17 08:27:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She completely a mess with things but she doesn't want help she wants someone to do it for her. How do you deal with someone who can't get her sh*t together. Her wedding is 6 months from now... nothing is booked or planned and she wants a HUGE fancy wedding. I am the maid of honor and I have been hiding from her because I just can't handle her.

2007-07-17 08:27:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My (ex stripper) wife left me for another man...(Go figure?) Some poor sucker has decided to sponsor her and is going to be her 3rd husband. Good luck man! Anyhow...She has decided to take our daughter and move far far away. Too far for weekend visitations etc... I figure why can't she just rub up on men here. Does it make a difference? Sorry...side tracked....How can I sabotage her plans for my kids sake. Our custody battle was set to 80:20 her favor. I know she does drugs and is obviously promiscuous. Ehem! I'm very stable with a house and my own business. My daughter (age6) loves me very much and cries when i have to take her back to her mother. (I don't blame her...I felt the same way when i had to come home to her too.) It's something about that wedding cake gentlemen...watch out! Well lawyer and lawyer wannabes take a crack at this one. Thanks!

~best dad in the whole world!~

2007-07-17 08:26:59 · 37 answers · asked by moralityisrelative1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know any unique wedding programs that wouldn't cost too much or DIY? The wedding is August 25th~

2007-07-17 08:25:18 · 11 answers · asked by modbride 4 in Weddings

Ok. So, I broke up with my current boyfriend last wednesday. And now I'm dating a guy that has been my friend for a long time. I really like him and get turned on by him, all he has to do is say hello, and it's like, Hey, let's go find a hotel. lol, but i'm only 14 so I know that i cant do anything and i'm still a virgin. and i know he's had sex, probably more then once. so two questions.
1. How do I fight the urge to have sex with him?
2. What do I do if he wants to have sex?

2007-07-17 08:23:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl who I have been friends with for about a year now. She is "perfect" in every sense of the word. She is nice, beautiful, funny, etc. However she said in an argument that we had awhile back that she didn't have any feelings for me. However she still calls me and we still hang out and we always have a good time. Do you think she will ever change her mind about liking me more than a friend. When we hang out we always laugh and talk. When I'm not with her, I'm always thinking about her, I know I should move on from her but its really hard. I have done a lot for her to show her I like her a lot, I bought her flowers on valentines day, when we hang out I always drive and pay just to show that I'm a nice guy and that I would make a good boyfriend. I'm not desperate, I just like her a lot. If you think I should move on, how can I? What are signs that she might be changing her mind about likeing me?

thanks

2007-07-17 08:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

If a guy goes to one of those Asian massage parlors and has an orgasm at the hand of the topless young lady, is that cheating?

2007-07-17 08:21:26 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He was my first boyfriend. I really don't know what it would be like to be on my own. We have nothing in common. He is jealous of my kids. Help!

2007-07-17 08:18:55 · 20 answers · asked by marcia1459 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for 3 years, married for 2. Before we got married I knew he wanted children. I agreed to have at least one. I just turned 34, and I am in no hurry to have a baby. But, he is. He is 39. He is afraid that I will put it off until it's too late. How do I get him to not pressure me any more about it. It's becoming quite annoying. I am just starting a new career, and we need 2 incomes to survive. Guys sometimes just don't get it. Being pregnant makes you moody, tired, sick. Working is hard enough, add to it being pregnant, impossible!

2007-07-17 08:17:07 · 52 answers · asked by Confused Chick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It has been 2 years since the divorce and whe have been separated for almost 3 and I have dated two men and I cant seem to feel much but like and I have no trust at all.

2007-07-17 08:16:23 · 6 answers · asked by mommybird64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you don't use condoms with a boyfriend, the WOMAN is in charge of buying birth control pills. Do you think that's fair?

I pay 25 dollars a month for pills. For a full year that's 300 dollars my boyfriend doesn't have to spend. We don't use condoms, so he doesn't have to pay for ANYTHING. Do you think that's fair? HE doesn't want a baby as much as me, don't you think he should fork up some money for the pills too?

2007-07-17 08:15:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this guy in my office that always says that...I hate that question...I never know what to say, so I just ignore him...

2007-07-17 08:14:34 · 6 answers · asked by That Guy 3 in Friends

What do you think of guys who wear sunglasses?

2007-07-17 08:13:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two friends, Chloe and Bekkie. Chloe use to be my best friend and would tell me almost anything, but recently she and Bekkie have done EVERYTHING together. They always go to each others houses, do whatever the other asks, and Chloes msn name in 'chloe ere luvin her best mate bekkie 4 lyf'. Ibe asked a hundred times to be up there, but she wont change it even though she knows it makes me sad! I know her password (i havent told her though) and im tempted to change it myself...Why don't they like me, and should i change it?

2007-07-17 08:10:18 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everything was going well until a couple of months ago. My parents didn't want me to work in highschool and said they would pay for my first year of college. Now college is less than a 2 months away and everthing is falling apart. My parents are getting divorced as soon as possible, and they say they need my school money for the divorce and moving on with their lives and that they can't pay anymore. So I have no money for school, but I also have to get out of my house becuase my parents are seling it as soon as possible too. Too much for an 18 year old to handle. I don't know what to do. I have no money and no place to go. Should I just take out a student loan to get away from this madness? or what..I'm emotional upset about the divorce and can't really think clearly right now...plex help...

2007-07-17 08:08:28 · 23 answers · asked by athick.ricepaddie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is something that your boyfriend or husband does that makes you go crazy? Something that makes you want him REALLY badly.

2007-07-17 08:08:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Something you still use to this day....

Other than advice...

2007-07-17 08:07:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok my bf and me where in the hot tub and i called him a chicken and he held me undwer water until i couldent breath then i punched him and he said i love u dont looser the on thing that made u pretty in ur life! should i dump him

2007-07-17 07:59:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 07:58:27 · 4 answers · asked by nick j 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-17 07:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by KIEU 2 in Singles & Dating

Having memories of us somehow put together at each stop that she can find with more clues to the next, then me waiting for here at the last place? Any other suggestions?

2007-07-17 07:56:53 · 23 answers · asked by John 1 in Weddings

I am 20 years old, tall, skinny, blonde, and I have blue eyes.

2007-07-17 07:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have talked about recent passion partys I attended which were fun and I have seen stuff I never saw before. The host and some of the other women(me too) were talking about fantasies. I heard one of the women say she would love to host a glory hole party. What is that?

2007-07-17 07:51:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-17 07:50:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On the second date?

I was a good girl on the first one...so I feel I should be able to take advantage of his as*s on the 2nd....whatchya think?

2007-07-17 07:50:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not even over-reacting one bit...
everyone uses me for their own needs...
my parents use me, they make me mind the baby so they can go out and enjoy but i never even get a thank you out of them.
my friends use me for advice but theyre never there to listen to me or my problems.
my "boyfriend" uses me for my money but he never actually treats me like a girlfriend.

Its things like this that make me feel really unappreciated, and i am seriously tired of taking this from everyone...
does anyone have any advice for me?

please dont leave mean comments because i am already in a very bad condition....
thanks.

2007-07-17 07:50:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend is reli clingy , i dont know what to do , should i tell him ?
loads of people dont like him of it , im so confused , what should i do about it ?

2007-07-17 07:46:44 · 5 answers · asked by darling. 2 in Singles & Dating

So i forgave him...After all he's put me through...i forgave him...after his little jelousy fits, drinking moments, and angry phone calls...i forgave him...i just want to help him hopefully become a better person...but i dont know how to do that...he said hes really willing to change...but i dont know how to help him do that...i do love him though...as much as a 16 year old can love for those of you that think love has an age...can he change?..can this even work?..♥♥♥

2007-07-17 07:46:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating