Ok. So, I broke up with my current boyfriend last wednesday. And now I'm dating a guy that has been my friend for a long time. I really like him and get turned on by him, all he has to do is say hello, and it's like, Hey, let's go find a hotel. lol, but i'm only 14 so I know that i cant do anything and i'm still a virgin. and i know he's had sex, probably more then once. so two questions.
1. How do I fight the urge to have sex with him?
2. What do I do if he wants to have sex?
2007-07-17 08:23:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-07-17 08:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok from chica2chica, i think 14 is pretty young to have sex. its all about u and ur body and nobody should know it better than u. i am sure u r a very beautiful and intelligent and u should respect urself and then others.
if u r not ready to have sex u should be honest with this guy ur dating.i understand u like him and if he likes u the same way he should respect u as a person and ur decision.
i mean, to have sex is a mature decision and yields consequenses that takes a high level of maturity to handle.
P.S. whats the Guy's age? if he is older,and cares about u he would not pressure u.
2007-07-17 15:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by sexytee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question. Fighting the urge- just have more innocent fun. There are many things you can do besides sex that is intimate and safe. If he wants to have sex- tell him that you are not ready yet and if he is still the one in the next year or two then you can revist the discussion.
2007-07-17 15:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by David B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might dirty dance with him. But that could make it worse instead of giving you a little and taking away some of the urge. You might take a little alone time by yourself somewhere that should help. Other than that its mind over...
If he wants to and your ready (don't just do it because you want to) then okay. If you want to wait just tell him you want to wait and if he's a gentleman he will respect that and not push the issue.
2007-07-17 15:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old he is? But if hes older than 16 you shouod wait till you're older than 16 too because else he could get done for rape. Else if you're comfortable which it sounds like you are you should jsut go for it. Make sure you use protection and have a brill time.
2007-07-17 15:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by hannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO, to him and yourself. You start having sex at 14 and you will be a Mama by 15.
2007-07-17 15:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT HAVE SEX UR 14 IF HE WANTS 2 HAVE SEX TELL HIM UR 2 YOUNG AND HOW OLD IS HE IF HE HAD SEX MORE THAN ONCE?
2007-07-17 15:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is something that needs to happen when ur older and married, and if he just wants sex from u he will never have real feelings for u so dont give it up
2007-07-17 15:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anna M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. YOU THINK ABOUT MEETING SOMEONE SPECIAL LATER WHO WILL APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER, THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES OF HAVING SEX LIKE PREGNANCY, STDS, RUMORS AND MOST OF ALL RESPECT FOR YOUR BODY.
2. TELL HIM NO YOUR ONLY 14 BUT A SIMPLE NO IM NOT READY!
PLEASE WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE OR AT LEAST UNTIL YOUR 18.
2007-07-17 15:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by vanessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your horomones are raging. don't listen to them. listen to your head and your heart (but your head first, cause the heart is unpredictable and changes feelings a lot). save sex for the man you're going to spend the rest of your life with. it's SO worth it (mentally, emotionally and physically, the benifits are innumerable).
2007-07-17 15:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young... and if he's over 18... he can have sex with an inmate after you. LoL...
ohh... and you are one of those we call Jailbait. LoL.
2007-07-17 15:28:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋