So i forgave him...After all he's put me through...i forgave him...after his little jelousy fits, drinking moments, and angry phone calls...i forgave him...i just want to help him hopefully become a better person...but i dont know how to do that...he said hes really willing to change...but i dont know how to help him do that...i do love him though...as much as a 16 year old can love for those of you that think love has an age...can he change?..can this even work?..♥♥♥
2007-07-17 07:46:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u wanna know more specificly what happened read my other questions...♥♥♥
2007-07-17 07:53:51 · update #1
You can say anythingh really...i won't get mad...♥♥♥
2007-07-17 07:58:10 · update #2
When we're not mad at each other he's a perfect guy...sweet...loving...caring, fun...and romantic...he makes me feel great...when we're not fighting...♥♥♥
2007-07-17 07:59:48 · update #3
"anything this is possible to him that believeth"
Mark 9:23
2007-07-17 07:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, well 16 is really young to have all this stuff to deal with. I know that right now he seems like he is the world, but you will soon find out there is more and better out there. People can change, but it is very hard and highly unlikely. My rule is, you have to love the person the way they are, and if there are things that you want to change not a good sign. Jealousy is a big thing, most of the time not going to stop. I would stop worrying about him and his problem and live your life, you are young. Good luck!
2007-07-17 14:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i frankly feel you love him more than he loves you... there's no point in you continually hoping that he becomes a better person until he feels he wants to become one...
the question of whether or not this can work can solely be answered by you as you know him best... if you really think he's worth all the pain he's put you through then definitely give him a last chance... if you think he'll end up back at square one after a while, then for your own good, move on... fights and disagreements are part and parcel of a relationship; it's how you handle yourself and your partner during these fights that really makes all the difference...
good luck..
-mav
2007-07-17 19:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by maverick_youth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it. I was in a similar situation when I was 16. It was hard at first to forget about him, but after a few monthes I felt a lot better. Believe it or not, you will eventually get over. In the end you'll be much much happier.
2007-07-17 14:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by hplss.rmntc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe once its in him he wont change only for the moment. Given his age this might be a growing stage but the angry part in him might be apart of him.
2007-07-17 14:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by KORIN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest most people male or female have a hard time changing there ways so thats a hard question... follow your gut feelings is all the advise i can give you..... from my experences men dont change but your young and have to learn things out on your own.
2007-07-17 14:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by MARIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is actually just what my parents were like when they were married, either as happy as possible, or fighting. As you can see, no one can put up with it forever. Plus, its not really worth it, wouldnt you rather be with someone where you didnt fight at all.... or maybe just alot less?
2007-07-17 19:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what I know you cant change guys I have tried so many times and I havent im 16 too but anyways you know not all guys are the same give him time and if he doesnt change girls you gotta drop him
2007-07-17 23:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I hear this all the time: "He wants to change, and I want to help him do it." They don't change, or most of them don't, anyway. Move on and find someone who will respect you and treat you well... Not settling for this guy that you need to 'help' and babysit...
2007-07-17 14:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-17 15:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL MOVE ON. YOU ARE VERY YOUNG AND DON'T NEED ALL HIS ****. MOVE ON !!!!!! YOU HAVE ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO MEET A GUY THAT CAN TRULY LOVE. DON'T GET USES TO ABUSE. GOOD LUCK!
2007-07-17 15:05:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋