iam sponsoring for favors for my nephew?

Question

baptsim and there beautiful favors but my sister inlaw wants to take control of it or try to i made a list and whos getting them 1 per family and she says should your cousin and his girlfriend get one and then she wants to only give them to whoever gives gifts its my control she just wants her side to get them first incase not enough but hey how about my family whos helped more then she says if her friend sends a gift but not show up she wants her to get one hey dont people get favors to rember that day the party and if her friend doesnt go why should she get one if she doesnt rember that day its soviners/ favors its expensive favors its limited on people who go etc not once who dont also how do i tell her nicely or handle it calmly so she doesnt make me crazy

Answer 1

It sounds to me like you should go to someone you both respect - the priest or your father or mother - and ask him /her settle the dispute. Tell your sister-in-law "I'm sorry we disgree. Let us ask {name} what to do. He/she is older and wiser than we are."