Family & Relationships - 13 July 2007

What style(s) of music do you consider romantic?
For me its Classical and Smooth Jazz

2007-07-13 04:27:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have meet my dream girl. she is amazing and I love her. She is a virgin, and embrassingly I slept with a prositutue so that I could lose my virginity before I met her. I did not enjoy it but because of peer pressure and because I was such a shy person and only kissed a girl for the first time when I was 24 I did it. I deeply regret it and feel disgusting. I need to tell her but I am afraid to. What shall I do? I am 28 now and she is 22. We are christians.

2007-07-13 04:26:28 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-13 04:25:18 · 8 answers · asked by xVanillaXLacex 1 in Singles & Dating

When my husband and I met and got together, I was a little worried because he has such a strong sex drive and he can't seem to keep his hands off of himself. He used to look at other women a lot in my presence. I told him it bothered me, and he has made an attempt not to do it with me around...well as much as he can anyways. Well, I caught my husband looking at pics of women on a dating site last night, and I am mad and hurt. I give this man what he needs...although obviously not enough, I'm not a machine after all. Well between the pics and the excessive masturbation I am worried. The most unusual thing about this situation, I feel...is that my husband is 5'7" and 325 lbs., and I am 5'3", 145lbs. How is it that I can't keep this man satisfied? What should I do about his sexual obsessions and the fear I have that he may or already has cheated on me? How do I begin to repair my self-esteem which is about nil right now? HELP???

Thanks

2007-07-13 04:25:13 · 15 answers · asked by Roseamond 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has a child from another relationship and he has tryed for vistations and won but now the mother is putting threats on our phone not to mention we have to pay childsupport and day care for the child while the child is hear with us the mother won't even help with the child cost and I feel that it's not far why pay child support for a child that is not in the mothers care .hell when we picked the child up the child didn't even have any night clothes or close toe shoes he had to fight with the mother to even put enough clothes for the child and we dont know what to do also other things that wasn't right when we picked the child .I know that alot of fathers dont do for their kids but do you think it's right when you have a dad that is willing to do the right thing no matter what help please

2007-07-13 04:24:42 · 8 answers · asked by funnybunny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we are living together . she care a loy for me. but sometimes i dissapointed herwe share everything.i love her a lot

2007-07-13 04:23:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

iam 25 married for 7 years.I have 4 kids with my husband.

2007-07-13 04:23:12 · 8 answers · asked by cassandrah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-13 04:22:53 · 12 answers · asked by Jama H 1 in Family

To revise my previous question, the reasons I do not want her to go is definitely the danger factor, which is why I would rather go. I trust her in terms of being around other men so that does not bother me. Also, I think being away from her for long periods of time just crushes my heart. I would rather somthing happen to me then something happen to her.

2007-07-13 04:22:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So my ex had sex with her ex, then dumped me and calls herself stupid. She says she was tricked and doesnt wanna lose me. what the hell is wrong with 75% of women???

2007-07-13 04:22:42 · 29 answers · asked by Mark Murderous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-13 04:22:40 · 178 answers · asked by shotgun2007 2 in Weddings

I've been with my boyfriend for just over a month, we liked each other before we made things official.

I'm crazy about him! and sometimes I need to stop myself saying the 3 words out loud incase I scare him off :P...also when I say it I want to mean it.

I would rather wait for him to say it first, but I was just curious...how soon is too soon? when is the right time to tell your other half those 3 little words that mean so much!

2007-07-13 04:21:51 · 24 answers · asked by moomoo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend left me for this other Russian girl (no offense to them, i think they're pretty) and i feel so depressed... like i'm not worth it...my heart is broken, i feel like i can't go on with life. I don't think i've ever felt so sad and insecure about myself...

2007-07-13 04:19:24 · 25 answers · asked by Meili7 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is a example. there was this one time he was just really being a jerk, so i got so tired of it i was like i dont think this i going to work out anymore, and i was staying with him. So i got my clothes and what not togeather and he told me to put the bag down, i was like no and contuied to walk out the door, he grab the bag and throw it, threw me on the bed and held me down and told me i was not leaven he broke my cell phone and took my keys he hit me and well stuff like that. so when i did get my keys to leave i got in my car and he followed me in his truck a hit my car in the back end alot of diffrent times and i stoped my car he climed throw the window and told me i better get back to his house, i did an then he told me i love you i dont what you to leave me, he broke all my things and so on, and we have been togeather for almost 3 years and it just started a year ago and now im pregnant with his baby, why does he do this is it becasuse he loves me and really wants me?

2007-07-13 04:17:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People are always saying just be yourself, how do you know what that is? I need a bit advice please. I feel like people dont like me for who I am. I'm a really nice person, and I can be quiet at times. How Can I talk more?? What things should I say in order to open up to people and talk to them?? can someone give me advice? and please answer all my questions. dont leave them out please. thank you very much.

2007-07-13 04:16:03 · 3 answers · asked by The German Girl Next Door. 1 in Friends

ok my ex of 4 years dumped me 6 weeks ago and went out with this guy 2 weeks after the break up....she says that she didnt like him b4 the break up... if this is true is it just a rebound? This sucks so bad i try not to think of her but every moment of everyday thats all i do....(im 19) and we broke up b/c she said it felt like we were best friends ansd not bf/gf. Any girls every do this to their ex and regret it? Did u go back to your ex? what can i do to help the situation?
THANK YOU VERY MUCH

2007-07-13 04:15:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has a bit of a temper. He shouts at me and swears at me a lot. When I said I didn't like it, he said that's the way he is with everyone and I'm the only one with a problem. Should I allow him to do this to me, am I being too sensitive? Or should I hold my ground?

He's refused to apologise for screaming and shouting at me because my phone cut out when we were having a conversation. It wasn't my fault the phone cut out.

When I asked if he really needed to shout at me, he started shouting even more saying that I had a problem and to stop trying to change him. What???

I can't seem to do anything right. He whispers under his breath to me, and is fine sometimes and then just explodes at others. He has bad road rage & I swear sometimes he drives dangerously because he knows it scares me.

I've seen him hit tables and a kick a bag when he's angry, and he points his finger in my face.

Are these warning signs or is he just venting? I'm confused.

2007-07-13 04:14:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband gives me everything I want, except a child. He says he doesn't want one. But I do. So I went off the pill and got pregnant. Now he is freaking out, saying I trapped him. hello, we are married. He was trapped anyway. We aren't white trash, we can afford a kid. But he is mad. How do I make him see that this is reasonable and it's really none of his business. It's my uterus!!!

2007-07-13 04:13:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think that he got at least ten years for attemped robbery.

2007-07-13 04:12:19 · 5 answers · asked by Natasha M 1 in Weddings

I am paying for the divorce and the lawyer said he is responsible for half the debt until the house is sold but he does not pay enough to cover half the expenses and does not care. The house will go into foreclosure before the divorce is settled through the courts and before it is sold what should i do

2007-07-13 04:11:34 · 8 answers · asked by Marsha M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, I'm 37 years old, and I act more like I'm 17.

Is that bad?

I go to clubs and parties whenver I get the chance to go. Most of my friends are between 23-28. We go to clubs together. I have had many boyfriends and have been divorced 2 times. I even dated a 19 year old a few weeks ago! Shhhhhh!

I have four kids ages 15, 10, 10 and 7.

I NEVER LET MY IMMATURITY GET IN THE WAY OF MY PARENTING

2007-07-13 04:11:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm constantly picking fights with him. Why is this? I honestly don't know why I feel this way. Any suggestions or opionions??

2007-07-13 04:10:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a man ends a marriage (cheats on her or just doesnt want to be married to the woman anymore), the woman wants to take half of everything the man owns as an act or revenge. Most cases the woman never had anything and the man is hard working. She wants all of what's hers and all of whats his if she can get it. However, when it's the woman that ends the marriage (cheats on the husband or falls in love with someone else), men are not concerned with getting all or half of what the woman owns. Why does most men like to work hard for what they have but most woman like everything handed to them for free. Women feel as long as they have a vagina, they're entitled to the world. If you happen to be one of the women I'm referring to, please don't be that way. Stay in school, don't get pregnant at 16. Get your bachelors degree and become successful. Stop depending on men. You'll be respected more.

2007-07-13 04:09:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-13 04:08:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is that still considered "cheating"? And/or if you don't do it, but want sex really bad are you cheating yourself?

2007-07-13 04:07:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

all rite ... here goes
1) wat attracts a gal towards a guy ... i mean when they meet for the first time .
2) how does a guy tread around a girl when he meets her for the first time
3) wat are the dos and donts
4) wat turns a gal off ... makes her reconsider her opinion abt a guy
5) how do u find the likes and dislikes of a gal widout being too obvious
6) [ this one is for the gals only] .... people say ... girls like bad boys .... how bad does a guy have to be?? and in wat sense ??

2007-07-13 04:06:48 · 11 answers · asked by The Crusader 1 in Singles & Dating

have you ever liked a family member alil more then you should have? and have you done anything wif a amily member?

2007-07-13 04:06:06 · 12 answers · asked by missfaygoqueen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife gave me 30 days to find out if we both want to stay together or separate. We still love each other but she says I have issues with my temper that she don't like. I don't want to separate and I am seeing therapist for my temper. I feel that if we separate it will be to hard to get back together. What do I do? Or what do you think?

2007-07-13 04:05:17 · 36 answers · asked by Mike 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been with him for a year now. he says he loves me but he cheats on me. when i break up with him he either beats me or trys to break my belongings. the worst part is i'm pregnant n my baby is high risk (gastroschisis if anybody knows wut that is). i dont want to put my child in danger bcuz the father of the baby keeps beating me. n the stress from when he breaks my belongings. he practically forces me to stay with him. how can i break up with this guy without being beat or having my stuff broken.

2007-07-13 03:59:10 · 24 answers · asked by The Queen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is driving me crazy again! All day my terrible wife is yelling and yelling and telling me what to do. I say 'you are pushing me to far wife' then she says 'do what I say' Should I send her away again for another time out? She needs help.

2007-07-13 03:58:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce