People are always saying just be yourself, how do you know what that is? I need a bit advice please. I feel like people dont like me for who I am. I'm a really nice person, and I can be quiet at times. How Can I talk more?? What things should I say in order to open up to people and talk to them?? can someone give me advice? and please answer all my questions. dont leave them out please. thank you very much.
2007-07-13 04:16:03 · 3 answers · asked by The German Girl Next Door. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do whatever comes natural to you. I believe that even followers are being themselves ((sometimes)) because it's just natural for them to follow.
2007-07-13 05:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think "being yourself" is something you discover, its not really soemthing you discover over night... its just things you like and dont like, not what your friends or peopel around you like!
most people discover themselves anywhere from high school through college... soem take longer...
i think if people dont liek you for who you are then they dont like you... which is ok,.. not everyone is going to like you, and you cant make everyone happy! thats just how it goes.
as far as talkign more, just jump in the conversation... whatever someone is talking about.. give your opinion, your knowledge.. if no one is saying anyting, then bring up a subject, music is always good.. and just talk about the music you liek and why you liek it.... ex: the lyrics, beat, etc.... explain why or how you started listening to it... ex: friends, parents, movie, etc
thats just an example of a subject and the different places the conversation can go...
i hope this helps! good luck! and "just be yourself" lol!
just do and say what feels right and whats on your mind... its all you... there are no right or wrong answers!
2007-07-13 11:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by cinnimon2693 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on things you like to do. When you have something in your life you can share with others, the right people will come along.
2007-07-13 11:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋