This one is especially for the girls .. though a few smart guys can give their opinions too?

Question

all rite ... here goes
1) wat attracts a gal towards a guy ... i mean when they meet for the first time .
2) how does a guy tread around a girl when he meets her for the first time
3) wat are the dos and donts
4) wat turns a gal off ... makes her reconsider her opinion abt a guy
5) how do u find the likes and dislikes of a gal widout being too obvious
6) [ this one is for the gals only] .... people say ... girls like bad boys .... how bad does a guy have to be?? and in wat sense ??

Answer 1

First attraction is usually physical but once they start talking that can change drastically. When first being around a guy I like to be comfortable. If I get the impression that I can't be myself then a guy is a goner. If a guy talks about sex too soon, then he is a goner. If he comes on too strong and acts possessive right away, then he is a goner. I love it when a guy can hold a conversation. When they joke around (but not too much). And when they actually ask me questions and not just talk about themself.

Answer 2

1. What attracts me to a guy is confidence, although shy guys can be endearing too. I like a guy who can make me laugh and smile. Your physical appearance should be well groomed. Shave or if you like having facial hair make sure it's trimmed. You don't have to wear expensive clothes. but they should be cleaned and ironed. A good personalitly will get me every time
2. He needs to show his real self. Don't be too boastful but be confident...I can't stress that word enough. Be respectful and attentive without being over bearing. Chilvary is not dead so open doors and pull out chair. Women remember things like that and it will set you apart from the other guys.
3. Don't bad mouth your ex. In fact don't talk about your ex. If she asks about your past relationship just say, "It's a PAST relationship and that's where I like it to stay." Do compliment her. Don't ask too many personal questions. Do show interest in her life though, ie.Work, Family, Hobbies. Don't even THINK about asking any questions that have to do with sex. Let her take that lead. Do not lead her on. If the date doesn't seem like it will lead to another one. Don't say that you'll call her sometime. Just say goodnight. Do relax and take one day at a time. Have fun
4. A huge turn off for me is when someone gets too touchy feely before they've been invited to be. I don't like guys who move too fast and are too aggresive with physical contact. Let us make the first move or watch carefully for our green light. Also, keep some Altoids handy. Nothing destroys a great guy like bad breath
5. Ask open ended questions. Like say so what do you usually get into on the weekends and sort of figure things out. What type of movies do you like. Is another good question. Have any pets? You find out if she likes dogs and things like that. Women LOVE to talk and be listened to. A open ended question can expose a lot of good information. And remember everything she tells you if you are really interested in her. In the long run it will show that you were paying attention and show her that you were really interested
6. When girls like bad boys they more so don't like the fact that the boys are BAD. They just like the confidence in the men. Bad boys do what they want and don't think about how it will affect other people. That's not the good quality, but the fact that they have the courage to do what they want. Now that's what get the girls. It's that go get 'em attitude. Make's him seem more manly

Answer 3

1) wat attracts a gal towards a guy ... i mean when they meet for the first time
being genuinely nice and not creepy
2) how does a guy tread around a girl when he meets her for the first time
not like a confident moron or big shot
3) wat are the dos and donts
do bathe don't swear
) wat turns a gal off ... makes her reconsider her opinion abt a guy
when he can't make an A in calculus
5) how do u find the likes and dislikes of a gal widout being too obvious
listen to what she says
) [ this one is for the gals only] .... people say ... girls like bad boys .... how bad does a guy have to be?? and in wat sense ??
bad guys are pigs who only want one thing...who the hell wants a guy like that?

Answer 4

every girl has their own oppinions of guys so there isnt just one thing they look for but here is my oppinion.

1. personality and looks are the big winners here. girls look for big smiles and kind words. the eyes are a real catcher too.

2. dont really know what you mean here. did you mean "treat"? if thats what you ment then guys can either be shy or outgoing depends on his personality.

3. dont ask for her number right away, dont try to make any moves to soon, dont try to be cool or different. you'll look like an idiot. it's corney i no but just be yourself. you wont have to try so hard to be different.

4. different things turns different girls off. sometimes being too foward about a situation can make a girl reconsider. unkind words arent helpful either.

5. theres no way around it. even if your just trying to be friendly, most girls will consider this flirting. so just ask away.

6. that has many different meanings. it could either mean the "bad boy" could be daring and risky. do stupid minor illegal things. could mean (for sluts) the guy has to be a sex fiend.

every person is different just stick w/ what your most comfortable with.

if your a guy though...you need some serious girl practice!! lol

hope this helps

Answer 5

1) always the eyes
2)Sweet and kind
3)Try to make out with her on the first date just give her a kiss on the cheek that's telling her you just want to take it slow for now.Also don't grab her a** at all b/c that is rude
4)His manners for one and the fact that all he wants is to sleep with her
5)I don't know i guess the look on her face or something b/c that's a hard one
6)They don't have to be that's a saying for only punks mainly girls like a sweet and caring man not some jail buddy

Answer 6

1) ask her about her life, not telling her about yours until she asks
2) be polite
3) pretend your mom is in the room with you and you'll be alright
4)pretending you don't know her all of a sudden when your friends show up
5)it's ok to be obvious- go ahead and ask her what she likes
6)be yourself. There's 6 billion people in the world and half of them are female. You will find the right one eventually, and she's closer than you think.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

well is this a part. girl? all girls are diff. but in general id have to say for tips always go to chick flicks . lol there is a reason women watch them. we swoon for those types of men

1. good looking. good style (syle the women likes). not too cocky. but confident. good personality. prolly the same charast. men like for women

2. be nice, but flirty. it truly all depends on the women. dont be cocky! i really cant tell u what to do exactly it all depends on the women. .... sorry but chick flicks really do give great advice haha... other men dont....

Answer 9

well 1) if he is talkative and nice
2) be nice to her and keep talking and mabe flirt a little
3) dont be to pushy or ask personal questions and dont get to close
4) if he is rude only seems like he wants 1 thing!
5) i think all you can do is ask we dont mind
6) bad as in a little dangerous but not to dangerous or gets ppl into trouble or gets themselves into trouble

Answer 10

I don't wanna answer all those things, but I will tell you one thing. I like guys who know how to spell