My boyfriend left me for this other Russian girl (no offense to them, i think they're pretty) and i feel so depressed... like i'm not worth it...my heart is broken, i feel like i can't go on with life. I don't think i've ever felt so sad and insecure about myself...
2007-07-13 04:19:24 · 25 answers · asked by Meili7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesnt deserve you so why you should you ruin your life because of someone like that. he is probably having fun with her and is happy when you are locking yourself in your room and cry. think about yourself, love yourself more than this person. love your family and friends and your hobbies. right now nothing can make the pain go away, only time will heal, the day you will meet that special someone then you will realize that ur ex was not good for you and you will thank god for taking him away from you. be patient and strong, think of it as a good lesson for you not to trust people easily. you have plenty of opportunities in life, dont let this take it away from you. good luck
2007-07-13 04:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three things.
1. It happens to everyone. It does not mean anything about you. It mostly just means your boyfriend was a jerk. If he'd leave you for someone else, then he wasn't worth keeping anyway. Give it some time and you'll feel better.
2. In the meantime, keep busy! Hang out with your friends. Get some exercise. Volunteer in your community. Go out with other people. Join a club. Whatever you have to do to keep occupied! And make sure you get out and have some fun. The busier you are, the quicker you'll get over your loser ex. Then, when you are ready, you can find someone new and better.
3. If you don't get over this in a few weeks, you might consider going to visit your doctor. Sometimes depression is compounded by medical and biological problems, and it does not hurt to get checked out. Maybe some therapy or medication will help, or maybe you'll just get another confirmation that what you are experiencing is normal.
Good luck!
2007-07-13 04:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"This too shall pass". You would be broken hearted if your bf left you for any type of woman (or man). But the feelings will pass in time. You will love again. And who knows he may come back. But always remember to love yourself. Do constructive things to make you happy. Hang out with your friends and met new people. The sun will come out tomorrow and the earth will keep turning, meaning just because he left your world doesn't mean YOUR world stopped. Laugh, live and love again. He probably wasn't worth you anyway.....
2007-07-13 04:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Cutegirlnameliola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I can say is if you feel that you did all you could do to make him happy and tried to be the best woman that you could be then he made a mistake by leaving you. He will know what he had when it's gone...If you guys are destined to be together then you will in the future. But for now, you have to move on. He is not your life, although he was a part of your life...u still have to live for yourself....grieve, cry and let all those emotions but you have to move on babe...
I hope you feel better.
2007-07-13 04:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Myanna513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. You can move on. Try to go out with friends and family so you won't think about it. Do something that you know will make you feel better like listening to your favorite music. Be more confident and believe in yourself. I guarantee if you do that you will find someone who will be interested. Don't dwell on that guy he's out of the picture. Don't let him see you at your worst. Let him know that you don't need him and there are plenty of guys who will want to be with you because you are a great gal.
2007-07-13 04:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by NIkki Wikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are stupid! Not knowing more details... I would say his loss. You are definitely worth it! Your heart is broken because you put too much trust in him. You are in control of your own life and need to take care of you first. Don't think of him as taking away from you. He gave you a life experience. It may be hurtful but, now you can say you loved... He is the worthless one.
2007-07-13 04:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by artie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long were you two together> well get over him and find another man, he is loving that you are so sad and i bet his new girl is too, just go out with friends and have a good time and if you see him there dont even aknowledge him unless he talks to you the say something like oh hi, hey hows it going. but nothing sarcastic or mean just be noce to him, that always freaks them out, and if he is with his girl say hi to her too and try to comliment her in some way i know it sounds dumb but you being so calm will make him think oh yeah and do not go back to him.
2007-07-13 04:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by i should be a councelor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first couple of weeks or even a month will be hard. Hang out with your girl friends, and take to time to heal. Things will get better and life will go on!
2007-07-13 04:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by silverchick_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like you are going through depression, it's making your feelings hurt more than they should, maybe you should talk to your mom about going to therapy, and if you aren't into that then you should go out into the world and find a guy that deserves you.
2007-07-13 04:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is worth it. However, nobody's worth it to everybody. You'll feel upset for a while, but realise that there are always better people out there, and the truly well-suited person won't leave you.
2007-07-13 04:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋