Family & Relationships - 13 July 2007

I like this guy alot. But I think he likes my friend. Another problem is, he's about to be Torre's (a guy that likes me) stepbro. What do I do? I don't want to hurt torre's feelings but I really like this guy.

2007-07-13 06:22:39 · 6 answers · asked by XoXoTiFfAnYxOxO 1 in Singles & Dating

growing up I never had a cell phone, cable tv, microwaves (it came later), dvd's, cd's. and all this fancy stuff. And I turned out just fine.
No wonder the kids today are so messed up (they are not spanked enough for one) and they are fat and lazy..

2007-07-13 06:17:55 · 12 answers · asked by str8putter 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-13 06:16:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that men can go do us wrong? Why is it that we just decide to keep holding on? Why is it that we never seem to just have the strength to leave? He's got to go!

2007-07-13 06:15:36 · 30 answers · asked by princess526_2001 4 in Singles & Dating

Whcih would you rather be, wealthy with basically no family( siblings, cousin's uncles etc like myself ( Just my parents). You get everything you want, or average kid with siblings and extended family members. For some reason I think if I had more family, It woould be better

2007-07-13 06:13:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend who I've been with for an year now, had came to my country, 12 hours flight, all over to see me. Although he wasn't the type I'd go out with usually, I loved him, and I knew he loved me.
I always found trouble how he was a contracter, and changed companies every 6 months, drinked, smoked, and sometimes get high. He also doesn't have any goal in life other than being with his love...which for me is basic and essential. He is very charming, funny, genuine and sweet in many ways, but I thought he wasn't the best man to marry.
After 3 months of blocks, 10 days ago he came to visit me in Japan, secretly studied Japanese, met my parents, and had wonderful time together. It was a costy trip for him, but he prepared all for the moment. He went on his knees and asked me to marry him at a wonderful situation.
But I just couldn't say Yes. I was worried, relationship in love and marriage is different... He walked away from my house right now but I still want to be his best friend

2007-07-13 06:13:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why don't the ladies just stop complaining about her man watching porn, looking at porn, and just join him in the festivities. Look at porn with him to see why he is so excited about porn. Maybe he wants you to be like the women in porn, dress all revealing for him in the house. Maybe we wants you to do the upside horizontal monkey swing with one leg on the chair. Why do women complain so much about it? Why dont you just join the fun and see what the big deal is? It may bring you both closer together and hieghten you sex life.

2007-07-13 06:08:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since some marriages end due to financial
reasons, do you think that couples should keep their
fiances and debts separate?

2007-07-13 06:07:39 · 51 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, I am 43 and don't know what to do with my life!

2007-07-13 06:04:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Wife's friend is a new mommy. Real skinny but her boobs ballooned from an "A" to a "C" due to nursuing.

My jaw must have dropped cos I thought I saw her blush when she saw me. I tried real hard to look away but she looked like a wet dream come true.

I mentioned it to my wife (she seemed cool about it), but I keep getting flashbacks of the friend. She never used to turn me on before but she looked like she belonged in a playboy or hustler magazine.

Help me get her out of my head!

2007-07-13 06:03:28 · 40 answers · asked by RM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the duration of making love? i mean how many minutes for one love making session?

2007-07-13 06:02:56 · 14 answers · asked by AK 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My older sister was dignosed with bipolar disorder(manic depression) she is been acting weird since then. her husband left her and took away her kids from her ,she is falling apart but she refuses to take medications or seek therapy because she thinks she is fine, I am so sad for her yet I cant do anything , and I am so anxcious that this will happen to me too since my husband is no better than her husband. I did not tell my husband about any of this yet, because he might use it against me in the future , I am very sad and I am thinking that what happened to my sister might happen to me too. thats why i am so anxcious and irritated and I am having many arguments with my husbands over old unsolved issues ,but the only reason in my head is my sister I am feeling responsible for what happened to her I dont know why?

2007-07-13 06:01:26 · 16 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my husband for 3 years now and married for almost a year I love him very much but do not agree with the way he's been since he joined the military in oct. of last year. It didn't really get too bad until we moved to his first station duty in Texas. when we were both from MI. long ways from home. So it's hard for me to adjust abit. I've been down herer since march 1st. so 4 months now and all 4 months He's been disrespectful, rude, calls me names and insists on getting drunk with his buddies every weekend, 1/2 the time he never does but when he does. He becomes a true asshole to me. He starts to call me a whore, slut, and he doesn't give up. He will sit there and do this the whole night untill he passes out. I've never cheated on him although before we even decided to get married he was being an *** so I broke up with him I did end up sleeping with another guy during this time. and My husband now didn't take the break up seriously I guess and he feels like.

2007-07-13 05:58:51 · 24 answers · asked by Ashley. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to tell him i no longer love him but i cant. Any suggestions.

2007-07-13 05:57:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"Never do you admit your faults, your not acting like somebody who reads the word."

2007-07-13 05:56:35 · 25 answers · asked by September 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-13 05:51:08 · 5 answers · asked by nightrider_98 2 in Singles & Dating

can someone explain that to me?

2007-07-13 05:50:18 · 16 answers · asked by Thunder4 3 in Friends

have you ever cheated on your mate?i have but not on purpose.i was hanging out with my best friend and he forced me to kiss him.my bf beat him up when he found out and my and my bf are still together.so i never actually cheated.what about you?

2007-07-13 05:50:00 · 20 answers · asked by domenicathesims2player 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-13 05:49:33 · 17 answers · asked by sowilldo s 1 in Singles & Dating

(we're 17)
We have been together for almost 5 months and every thing was going fine till my girlfriend told me that she felt really insecure when I hang out or talk to this girl who I used to like. I told my girlfriend how much I love her and care for her, but she still feels insecure about this friend. This dilemma went on for weeks and we finally came to a decision for me to cut this friend out of my life. I felt horrible knowing that i made my girlfriend feel insecure, but now, I feel horrible of losing a great friend.

What should i do?

2007-07-13 05:49:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have children (2), no family. Once my husband and I pass, my children will be growing up alone.
My family is all older, will be gone in a few years, my husband's are also and they live in Germany - no contact for many generations.
No cousins, Aunts Uncles, nothing.
What if something happens to one of them as they grow older...then 1 will be left alone.
Yeah I know - they'll develp friendships and all, but nothing is like family. Who will attend their weddings, graduations, etc...I'm really worried and sitting here in tears thinking about this, as I do quite often. I feel I'm at fault for not having built bonding relationships with more than a few friends (childless) Any advice, help or insight you can provide will be greatly appreciated.

2007-07-13 05:44:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi....my friends said some mean things to me and really hurt me and she is sorry, should i forgive her? she was being rude and i don't know what to do.........natalie if this is u i don't know if we can continue being BFF'S

2007-07-13 05:41:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im not in it but the girl im dating is, so what should i wear?

2007-07-13 05:41:00 · 17 answers · asked by kage 2 in Weddings

why should i feel bad about giong out on a date if were seperared and the divorce is not final? shes been going out after i left in may. do two wrongs make it right?

2007-07-13 05:37:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my bf are in a fight about him jacking off too much and not having enough sex with me...im a pretty girl and i have needs...what are sum ways to get him away from the porn...

2007-07-13 05:35:26 · 1 answers · asked by liz 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-13 05:34:12 · 7 answers · asked by ox23al 1 in Singles & Dating

I love My BEstfriend More Than Myself,But iam scared to tell!!

2007-07-13 05:32:13 · 14 answers · asked by lourenz101091 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

k so my husband had internet sex and phone sex with this girl who lives in the same state as us and he claims that he didnt do it in real life so it is not cheating.and this girl says that they were going to meet up some day .

2007-07-13 05:29:53 · 62 answers · asked by adriannmodel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i go about finding clean people??? I'm very shy so i have no clue were to start??

2007-07-13 05:29:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a series relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 years. We live together and I think we both love each other. Since relationship grows with time, I want a marriage and have a happy family with him. We started talking about it a few years ago, and he said he needed some time to get ready. And then, we agreed to decide (if we are getting marry or not) later. A couple of years passed, and I asked him recently about it. He said he still is not ready. I am sad and confused. I don't know if he really loves me or not. I want a happy family with someone I love and comfortable. Is it time for me to break up with him and move on with my life?

2007-07-13 05:28:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce