have you ever cheated on your mate?i have but not on purpose.i was hanging out with my best friend and he forced me to kiss him.my bf beat him up when he found out and my and my bf are still together.so i never actually cheated.what about you?
2007-07-13 05:50:00 · 20 answers · asked by domenicathesims2player 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Immaturity and childishness all around. Your friend and bf acted like 5 year olds by the way.
Oh, no I haven't cheated...by my definition of course. Although I suspect that half of the people here claiming they have never cheated actually have by someone's definition. The problem is we all have different definitions of 'cheating' and everyone firmly believes that their definition is the one true definition.
2007-07-13 05:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cheated only once and it was on purpose. I was drunk but I made the decision to follow through.
It was on an ex-girlfriend. I was with my crew from college and we had been on a long bar crawl, started about 4pm. I ended in an Irish pub and I broke into an Irish jig in the middle of the bar. The entire bar full of people were cheering me on. When I stopped I noticed a very attractive woman bringing me a beer. (Not like I needed another beer...) I willingly convincing her to accompany me home. We did our one-night stand and never saw her again. To this day, it is one of the best and worst things I have ever done.
I was guilt-stricken toward my ex and I confessed to her, leading to our mutual breakup. I cheated on her and she was coming to terms with being gay. She is now a happily "unionized" woman and still a good friend. The relationship was ending anyway.
Kissing someone else, especially against your will, is not cheating. He forced you to kiss him. Unless you felt anything, then there is no problem. I think the trust of your friend is gone. If you can't trust a friend then they aren't a friend.
2007-07-13 13:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Khyber6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the situation but how could someone force you to kiss him? Another good reason not to have males for friends when in a serious relationship. But to answer your question, yes I have cheated and it didn't bother me at the time, I guess I was being selfish. I have cheated a couple times but now that I am with my fiance, I have no desire whatsoever to cheat. I love him dearly and if he ever cheated on me I would be terribly devasted. Now I know how those guys felt (if they really cared for me) But people can change. I am living proof.
2007-07-13 12:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my first girlfriend a LONG time ago back in high school. It was with her best friend and I paid for it dearly. Almost every girlfriend after that cheated on me (some cheated with multiple men). I think I have finally paid off my karmic penalty and I'm with a girl now that is as faithful as I've been ever since that first girlfriend.
I would never cheat again!
2007-07-13 15:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by hortha71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not on purpose.. I was being a "wing man" for a buddy and was acting like I was single so he could go on this double date. His date's friend was really hot, and she was all over me. She of course thought I was single too. Long story short She probably thought I was very repectful or I was gay. I planned on telling my gf about it (that I did it for a friend and I didn't do anything) but if I tell my gf the girl had her hands all over me. and kissed me on the cheek... I'd be dead meat. so I didn't tell; which kinda made me think I cheated..
2007-07-13 13:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by moose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i got the same problem when my bf found out i cheated on him it wasnt even tht my best friend(a guy) told me he had feeling for me so we started kissin and then i stopped and told him to go home soo really nothing ever happened i told my bf and he didnt take it soo well he beat up the kid who i kissed and its been problems ever since so i just broke up with him because it was months and he just would not let it goo
2007-07-13 12:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea cheated on my bfs....i use to be a player a very good one...onetime i had 7 bfs but now im single and waiting for the rite one to come and i got tired of cheating its not worth it in ur time
2007-07-13 12:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by shahreenxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 25 years and never cheated... not even a stolen kiss... lol.
And I won't cheat on any future gf's... that's a promise.
2007-07-13 12:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes on my ex bf but only to show him that i can get better than him coz he he was cheating too and thought im stupid...but now i have a great bf:-) who loves me as much as i love him..guess what..my ex wants me back after 10months hahaha never he had his chance and blew it
2007-07-13 13:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never cheated on my bf, being faithful is important to me b/c i wouldn't want him to do me that way.
2007-07-13 12:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by In love with life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋